I feel like I don't fit in with my friends

Most of my friends are apart of the LGBTQ community. When they make pride jokes and stuff , they kinda single me out for being straight? I am a HUGE ally, I'm just not apart of LGBTQ community. It just just makes me feel like I don't fit in, and I don't want to be something I'm not. This is probably stupid, but any advice or whatever would help.

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u/Blare22 — 3 days ago

I feel like I don't fit in with my friends

Most of my friends are apart of the LGBTQ community. When they make pride jokes and stuff , they kinda single me out for being straight? I am a HUGE ally, I'm just not apart of LGBTQ community. It just just makes me feel like I don't fit in, and I don't want to be something I'm not. This is probably stupid, but any advice or whatever would help.

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u/Blare22 — 4 days ago
▲ 6 r/RadiationTherapy+1 crossposts

Ever since starting radiation therapy, all my mom does is yell at me, claiming she is "losing her filter"

(For comtext: I am 14F) My mom 50 and was diagnosed with a brain tumor very close to her eye about a month ago. She is currently doing daily radiation therapy for it. She says she's tired and in pain, which I completely understand and I've been trying to help as much as I can, but I am also chronically ill (doctors aren't sure what illness exactly) and have ADHD, so sometime I forget to do a tiny thing and then she just yells at me while I apologize profusely. Just recently, I brought in a huge amazon box (it wasn't too heavy) and had to lift it with one arm on the side and one on the bottom while it was digging into my shoulder. When I told her about it, (I wasn't complaining, just telling her what happened) she said I need to exercise, walking won't cut it. I tried to tell her that I do exercise, but I don't like to do it in front of people. No matter what I say, whenever I do something she thinks is wrong, she just yells at me. She claims she is "losing her filter". Is this a real thing? It really hurts when she yells at me and explodes about little things. Again, I'm not trying to complain. I just want to know if this is real and maybe how I can help de-escalate these things.

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u/Blare22 — 8 days ago

I have a crush on this guy but I can't tell if he's gay

He's (13M) mentioned he was questioning about being omnisexual but his preference is most likely girls. I (14F) think I have a shot? But I need to know how to tell if he's gay or not. Help. Please.

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u/Blare22 — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/TeenagersButNotTrashy+1 crossposts

HOW do I confess to my crush?

I know that I want to confess but I'm not sure how I should do it. I have really bad social anxiety so I was thinking I'd give him a note/card before he gets off the bus saying "I like you. Do you like me?" With checkboxes. Idk if this just sounds cringe or what. I am in DESPERATE need of advice.

P.S. We're both nerdy/geeky <3

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u/Blare22 — 1 month ago

My Grandparents have to stay in my room for 5 days for my sister's graduation

I (14F) have ADHD and I struggle A LOT with routine changes. My sister is graduating in 3 weeks and my grandparents are staying at our house for 5 days but they have to stay in my room and share a bathroom with me. Ihave a few (organized because I know what's in them) piles and random things in my room which to other people are seen as messy or dirty. But since they have to stay in MY room, I have to move everything (and eventually forget where I put those things), all of the clothes in my closet, wash the sheets, make the bed, and take down the stuff on my walls. Since I have to sleep somewhere else and share my bathroom, my morning and nighttime routines will be completely thrown off which stresses me out , overwhelms me, and makes me want to cry. My (very toxic) parents absolutely do not care. Am I overreacting? Any advice?

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u/Blare22 — 1 month ago
▲ 9 r/autism

My Grandparents have to stay in my room for 5 days for my sister's graduation

I (14F) have AuDHD and I struggle A LOT with routine changes. My sister is graduating in 3 weeks and my grandparents are staying at our house for 5 days but they have to stay in my room and share a bathroom with me. Ihave a few (organized because I know what's in them) piles and random things in my room which to other people are seen as messy or dirty. But since they have to stay in MY room, I have to move everything (and eventually forget where I put those things), all of the clothes in my closet, wash the sheets, make the bed, and take down the stuff on my walls. Since I have to sleep somewhere else and share my bathroom, my morning and nighttime routines will be completely thrown off which stresses me out , overwhelms me, and makes me want to cry. My (very toxic) parents absolutely do not care. Am I overreacting? Any advice?

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u/Blare22 — 1 month ago

My Grandparents have to stay in my room for 5 days for my sister's graduation

I (14F) have ADHD and I struggle A LOT with routine changes. My sister is graduating in 3 weeks and my grandparents are staying at our house for 5 days but they have to stay in my room and share a bathroom with me. Ihave a few (organized because I know what's in them) piles and random things in my room which to other people are seen as messy or dirty. But since they have to stay in MY room, I have to move everything (and eventually forget where I put those things), all of the clothes in my closet, wash the sheets, make the bed, and take down the stuff on my walls. Since I have to sleep somewhere else and share my bathroom, my morning and nighttime routines will be completely thrown off which stresses me out , overwhelms me, and makes me want to cry. My (very toxic) parents absolutely do not care. Am I overreacting? Any advice?

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u/Blare22 — 1 month ago