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▲ 5 r/BPDPartners

I got blocked . pwBPD why? do you guys discard ur partners when they were only expressing there feelings .

I crashed out yesterday told her everything wrong she would say to me . I recalled crashing out and telling her that yes she’s right that I’m stupid and dumb and all the horrible things she said .

Then the next day comes and she was like it’s exactly why u proved my point . And she doesn’t care and I shouldn’t too. I guess me crashing out led her to do that .

PwBPD why would you think she did this??

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u/BorderOpposite5667 — 4 days ago
▲ 20 r/BPDJourney+2 crossposts

I crashed out on my bpd partner . I’m losing my sanity . How do you all keep composed

never expected I’d be the one crashing out . She is very kind and I love her empathetic nature . But there are moments I’m always just getting reminded that I’m dumb and stupid I never listen I never try . The cussing , the davaluation , the “MY FEELINGS DONT MATTER. The threatening of relationships . I try my best to be patient with her . But I’m losing my sanity , literally I’m going insane begging for gentle communication just begging to just not cuss and treat each other with respect . When I cry to her I get called out as manipulative and gaslighter . NO , IM CRYING BECAUSE WE DO NOT TALK LIKE WERE TOGETHER AND ITS MAKING INSANE .

I fucking care about her too much. She can cry to me all she wants and I want her to be vulnerable with her feelings to me and I also want her to cry to me . But when I do the same I’m the problem . When I cry when I communicate what hurts me all of a sudden I’m the problem .

and Like damn I know I don’t listen I know I’m not perfect but I don’t need a reminder I don’t need to know I’m dumb I’m stupid . I understand bpd is a curse it hurts . But you all need to respect your partners . Ask healthily for space . Be clear when they annoy you when you want to communicate later. Tell them you love them but you need space . Because the pain is too much . All of a sudden you feel like they love you and then one moment in that same day they can treat you like ur the worst person of all time. I gave her a bunch of texts of How she’s right that I am just stupid and dumb that I deserve to be cussed at that I don’t deserve to be heard that I don’t deserve to be respected . I crashed out I crashed out . I try to be so patient but i crashed out and idk what to do anymore . I will need space for this one .

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u/BorderOpposite5667 — 5 days ago
▲ 3 r/selflove

How do you learn to love yourself . Be happy with yourself .

I came here to just vent about how to enjoy and learn to love yourself when no one is there for you to hype you , up to comfort , to love you . I don’t have good self love . I can’t set up my own boundaries and I feel like I have to be helpful I have to make them (friends , family )) happy to make me feel seen and heard . How do you guys learn to love yourself? to be content with yourself and your decisions . To set good boundaries with other people and be able to say no without making ever feeling guilty . I want to be in that state of self love that , to the point I don’t tolerate bullshit I don’t tolerate people saying rude things to me and not coming back . I wish I was more stronger, i wish I had more confidence in myself . How do you guys do this .what are some advice to start .

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u/BorderOpposite5667 — 5 days ago
▲ 1 r/astrologyreadings

Is my birth chart the reason why I’m so slow in life . 24 no jobs [astro-seek.com]

I have no experience in careers and jobs . I’m an adult and I never stepped food into adulthood. Am I the problem or is the chart a part of why my life is so slow in transitioning into my adult life . Does my chart have anything to do with it !?? Help me WHEN WILLMY LiFE CHANGEEEEEE !!!! I need to know when I can take opportunities when will luck start for me . What’s a good year or month OR day to see some changes because wow my life is so slow .

u/BorderOpposite5667 — 6 days ago
▲ 1 r/astrologyreadings

Is my birth chart the reason why I’m so slow in life . 24 no jobs [astro-seek.com]

I have no experience in careers and jobs . I’m an adult and I never stepped food into adulthood. Am I the problem or is the chart a part of why my life is so slow in transitioning into my adult life . Does my chart have anything to do with it !?? Help me WHEN WILLMY LiFE CHANGEEEEEE !!!! I need to know when I can take opportunities when will luck start for me . What’s a good year or month OR day to see some changes because wow my life is so slow .

u/BorderOpposite5667 — 6 days ago
▲ 3 r/BirthChartReadingFree

Why am I so behind . 24 never had a job and I feel so disheartened and feel like a child still

I have no experience in careers and jobs . I’m an adult and I never stepped food into adulthood. Am I the problem or is the chart a part of why my life is so slow in transitioning into my adult life . Does my chart have anything to do with it !?? Help me WHEN WILLMY LiFE CHANGEEEEEE !!!! I need to know when I can take opportunities when will luck start for me . What’s a good year or month OR day to see some changes because wow my life is so slow .

u/BorderOpposite5667 — 7 days ago
▲ 10 r/CATHELP

Cat help idk if my cat is asthmatic or he wants to throw up something or what.. I’m scared something it’s more serious .????

What’s wrong with my cat???? I need help idk what to do

u/BorderOpposite5667 — 23 days ago
▲ 102 r/FosterAnimals

Help Advice ! :: Looking for recommendations for a Los Angeles shelter that can help for an injured stray cat

i everyone, from the heart of (LOS ANGELES CALIFORNIA)

I’m reaching out because I don’t know what else to do.

A neighborhood cat has been coming to our home for about two years. Recently, we noticed a large tumor on her side, and now she can’t walk in a straight line. Her gait is very shaky, and she’s spending most of her time lying down instead of walking around like she used to.

We’re taking her to be examined today at 7 am PST to find out whether the tumor is causing her symptoms or if it could be something else, like an ear infection. We’re terrified that if the tumor is the cause and nothing can be done, we may have to make the heartbreaking decision to euthanize her.

Before it comes to that, I wanted to ask if anyone has experience with something like this or knows of any rescues, or people who might be willing to help me today. If someone is able and willing to take her in and get her the care she needs, we’d be incredibly grateful. We just don’t want to give up on her without trying everything we can.

If you have any advice, resources, or are interested in helping, please comment or send me a message.

Thank you so much

u/BorderOpposite5667 — 30 days ago
▲ 246 r/LosAngeles

Need advice or help for an injured neighborhood cat (Los Angeles area)

Hi everyone,

I’m reaching out because I don’t know what else to do.

A neighborhood cat has been coming to our home for about two years. Recently, we noticed a large tumor on her side, and now she can’t walk in a straight line. Her gait is very shaky, and she’s spending most of her time lying down instead of walking around like she used to.

We’re taking her to be examined to find out whether the tumor is causing her symptoms or if it could be something else, like an ear infection. We’re terrified that if the tumor is the cause and nothing can be done, we may have to make the heartbreaking decision to euthanize her today when it’s been decided.

Before it comes to that, I wanted to ask if anyone has experience with something like this or knows of any rescues, fosters, or people who might be willing to help. If someone is able and willing to take her in and get her the care she needs, we’d be incredibly grateful. We just don’t want to give up on her without trying everything we can.

If you have any advice, resources, or are interested in helping, please comment or send me a message.

Thank you so much

u/BorderOpposite5667 — 30 days ago
▲ 25 r/cats

Need advice or help for an injured neighborhood cat (Los Angeles area)

Hi everyone,

I’m reaching out because I don’t know what else to do.

A neighborhood cat has been coming to our home for about two years. Recently, we noticed a large tumor on her side, and now she can’t walk in a straight line. Her gait is very shaky, and she’s spending most of her time lying down instead of walking around like she used to.

We’re taking her to be examined to find out whether the tumor is causing her symptoms or if it could be something else, like an ear infection. We’re terrified that if the tumor is the cause and nothing can be done, we may have to make the heartbreaking decision to euthanize her.

Before it comes to that, I wanted to ask if anyone has experience with something like this or knows of any rescues, fosters, or people who might be willing to help. If someone is able and willing to take her in and get her the care she needs, we’d be incredibly grateful. We just don’t want to give up on her without trying everything we can.

If you have any advice, resources, or are interested in helping, please comment or send me a message.

Thank you so much.

u/BorderOpposite5667 — 30 days ago
▲ 0 r/LesbianGamers

F23 looking for Roblox players or stardew players

Helloo I’m looking for an online game friend to play with . And someone who is consistent not just on and off 😓😭 I’d love to hear about your life and get to know you .

My names Loren , you could say I’m laid back , people call me too laid back in fact. I’m not a competitive players and it’s almost impossible for me to get upset .

I’m from California and I’m hoping to meet irl friends from there as well.

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u/BorderOpposite5667 — 1 month ago
▲ 0 r/robloxgamedev

F23 looking for a programming duo for a game I’m going to make .

Hello my names Loren , I have a game I want to pursue in 5 months . I’m looking for a partner to work with mostly who can program and is used with ui and all that. If you are interested let me know so we can talk about it .

ALSO !! I’m not paying 😓😭 this is if you want to work and make a passion project I have in mind .

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u/BorderOpposite5667 — 1 month ago