How do you cope with a toxic job while job hunting?

I’ve been job hunting for about a year and a half and I’m approaching my third year in my current role.

In that time, more than 20 people have left my team. Almost everyone I started with is gone, including many of my friends. Every time someone leaves, I find myself thinking, “When is it going to be my turn?”

I’ve done everything I can think of. I earned my MBA while working full-time, optimized my resume, networked, cold messaged people, practiced interviewing, and made it to final rounds. Yet most of the time I either get silence, rejections, or opportunities that feel underleveled.

The hardest part is that I feel completely stuck. Three years ago, I was excited about my career. Today, I drag myself to work. The politics, constant workload, and lack of progress have left me exhausted. I feel overwhelmed all the time and like I’m never fully on top of my work.

What’s frustrating is that I’ve always been ambitious. Earlier in my career, I was able to move every couple of years and keep growing. Now it feels like I’ve hit a wall. I watch other people get promoted, leave, or move on to better opportunities while I’m standing in the exact same place.

I’m not really looking for resume advice. I’m more curious whether anyone else has gone through a period like this where they desperately wanted out, did all the “right” things, and still felt completely trapped.

How did you stay sane while waiting for something to finally move?

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u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 8 days ago

How do you cope with a toxic job while job hunting?

I’ve been job hunting for about a year and a half and I’m approaching my third year in my current role.

In that time, more than 20 people have left my team. Almost everyone I started with is gone, including many of my friends. Every time someone leaves, I find myself thinking, “When is it going to be my turn?”

I’ve done everything I can think of. I earned my MBA while working full-time, optimized my resume, networked, cold messaged people, practiced interviewing, and made it to final rounds. Yet most of the time I either get silence, rejections, or opportunities that feel underleveled.

The hardest part is that I feel completely stuck. Three years ago, I was excited about my career. Today, I drag myself to work. The politics, constant workload, and lack of progress have left me exhausted. I feel overwhelmed all the time and like I’m never fully on top of my work.

What’s frustrating is that I’ve always been ambitious. Earlier in my career, I was able to move every couple of years and keep growing. Now it feels like I’ve hit a wall. I watch other people get promoted, leave, or move on to better opportunities while I’m standing in the exact same place.

I’m not really looking for resume advice. I’m more curious whether anyone else has gone through a period like this where they desperately wanted out, did all the “right” things, and still felt completely trapped.

How did you stay sane while waiting for something to finally move?

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u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 8 days ago

How do you cope with a toxic job while job hunting?

I’ve been job hunting for about a year and a half and I’m approaching my third year in my current role.

In that time, more than 20 people have left my team. Almost everyone I started with is gone, including many of my friends. Every time someone leaves, I find myself thinking, “When is it going to be my turn?”

I’ve done everything I can think of. I earned my MBA while working full-time, optimized my resume, networked, cold messaged people, practiced interviewing, and made it to final rounds. Yet most of the time I either get silence, rejections, or opportunities that feel underleveled.

The hardest part is that I feel completely stuck. Three years ago, I was excited about my career. Today, I drag myself to work. The politics, constant workload, and lack of progress have left me exhausted. I feel overwhelmed all the time and like I’m never fully on top of my work.

What’s frustrating is that I’ve always been ambitious. Earlier in my career, I was able to move every couple of years and keep growing. Now it feels like I’ve hit a wall. I watch other people get promoted, leave, or move on to better opportunities while I’m standing in the exact same place.

I’m not really looking for resume advice. I’m more curious whether anyone else has gone through a period like this where they desperately wanted out, did all the “right” things, and still felt completely trapped.

How did you stay sane while waiting for something to finally move?

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u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 8 days ago

How do you cope with a toxic job while job hunting?

I’ve been job hunting for about a year and a half and I’m approaching my third year in my current role.

In that time, more than 20 people have left my team. Almost everyone I started with is gone, including many of my friends. Every time someone leaves, I find myself thinking, “When is it going to be my turn?”

I’ve done everything I can think of. I earned my MBA while working full-time, optimized my resume, networked, cold messaged people, practiced interviewing, and made it to final rounds. Yet most of the time I either get silence, rejections, or opportunities that feel underleveled.

The hardest part is that I feel completely stuck. Three years ago, I was excited about my career. Today, I drag myself to work. The politics, constant workload, and lack of progress have left me exhausted. I feel overwhelmed all the time and like I’m never fully on top of my work.

What’s frustrating is that I’ve always been ambitious. Earlier in my career, I was able to move every couple of years and keep growing. Now it feels like I’ve hit a wall. I watch other people get promoted, leave, or move on to better opportunities while I’m standing in the exact same place.

I’m not really looking for resume advice. I’m more curious whether anyone else has gone through a period like this where they desperately wanted out, did all the “right” things, and still felt completely trapped.

How did you stay sane while waiting for something to finally move?

reddit.com
u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 8 days ago

How do you cope with a toxic job while job hunting?

I’ve been job hunting for about a year and a half and I’m approaching my third year in my current role.

In that time, more than 20 people have left my team. Almost everyone I started with is gone, including many of my friends. Every time someone leaves, I find myself thinking, “When is it going to be my turn?”

I’ve done everything I can think of. I earned my MBA while working full-time, optimized my resume, networked, cold messaged people, practiced interviewing, and made it to final rounds. Yet most of the time I either get silence, rejections, or opportunities that feel underleveled.

The hardest part is that I feel completely stuck. Three years ago, I was excited about my career. Today, I drag myself to work. The politics, constant workload, and lack of progress have left me exhausted. I feel overwhelmed all the time and like I’m never fully on top of my work.

What’s frustrating is that I’ve always been ambitious. Earlier in my career, I was able to move every couple of years and keep growing. Now it feels like I’ve hit a wall. I watch other people get promoted, leave, or move on to better opportunities while I’m standing in the exact same place.

I’m not really looking for resume advice. I’m more curious whether anyone else has gone through a period like this where they desperately wanted out, did all the “right” things, and still felt completely trapped.

How did you stay sane while waiting for something to finally move?

reddit.com
u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 8 days ago

How do you cope with a toxic job while job hunting?

I’ve been job hunting for about a year and a half and I’m approaching my third year in my current role.

In that time, more than 20 people have left my team. Almost everyone I started with is gone, including many of my friends. Every time someone leaves, I find myself thinking, “When is it going to be my turn?”

I’ve done everything I can think of. I earned my MBA while working full-time, optimized my resume, networked, cold messaged people, practiced interviewing, and made it to final rounds. Yet most of the time I either get silence, rejections, or opportunities that feel underleveled.

The hardest part is that I feel completely stuck. Three years ago, I was excited about my career. Today, I drag myself to work. The politics, constant workload, and lack of progress have left me exhausted. I feel overwhelmed all the time and like I’m never fully on top of my work.

What’s frustrating is that I’ve always been ambitious. Earlier in my career, I was able to move every couple of years and keep growing. Now it feels like I’ve hit a wall. I watch other people get promoted, leave, or move on to better opportunities while I’m standing in the exact same place.

I’m not really looking for resume advice. I’m more curious whether anyone else has gone through a period like this where they desperately wanted out, did all the “right” things, and still felt completely trapped.

How did you stay sane while waiting for something to finally move?

reddit.com
u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 8 days ago

How do you cope with a toxic job while job hunting?

I’ve been job hunting for about a year and a half and I’m approaching my third year in my current role.

In that time, more than 20 people have left my team. Almost everyone I started with is gone, including many of my friends. Every time someone leaves, I find myself thinking, “When is it going to be my turn?”

I’ve done everything I can think of. I earned my MBA while working full-time, optimized my resume, networked, cold messaged people, practiced interviewing, and made it to final rounds. Yet most of the time I either get silence, rejections, or opportunities that feel underleveled.

The hardest part is that I feel completely stuck. Three years ago, I was excited about my career. Today, I drag myself to work. The politics, constant workload, and lack of progress have left me exhausted. I feel overwhelmed all the time and like I’m never fully on top of my work.

What’s frustrating is that I’ve always been ambitious. Earlier in my career, I was able to move every couple of years and keep growing. Now it feels like I’ve hit a wall. I watch other people get promoted, leave, or move on to better opportunities while I’m standing in the exact same place.

I’m not really looking for resume advice. I’m more curious whether anyone else has gone through a period like this where they desperately wanted out, did all the “right” things, and still felt completely trapped.

How did you stay sane while waiting for something to finally move?

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u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 8 days ago

Saturday Stock Up!

Finally got my hands on the multi peptide hair serum, overnight lip mask, and whipped recovery cream! My DT was stocked!!!

u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 9 days ago

SAS (Modest) Haul, Still Feels Pricey

I know it’s not much but it’s all I could afford. I ordered online, used a 20% off coupon that expires tomorrow, activated 2xbonus points offer, and tacked on a free reward under $9.95. Two candles and a travel sized body wash ~$14.06, still feels a bit pricey! I’m also trying to only buy what I’m running low on/run out of. I know it’s a lame/boring haul compared to a lot of other exciting ones on here but just felt like sharing.

u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 21 days ago
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When will I get a new job? Current job is hell.

I’ve been applying since April 2025 but I hardly any interviews, if I do then I don’t get offer or the pay is too low. When will I get a new job? My current work situation is awful.

u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 28 days ago

When will I get a new job?

I am really desperate and need out from my current job. Management is absent/toxic, I’m passed over for opportunities even though my work is very strong, and there’s no scope for growth. I’ve been applying since April 2025, but very few interviews, the hiring manager ends up going with someone else, the role gets frozen, or the pay/role/team isn’t a good fit. Please please can someone take a look at my chart and advise when I’ll get a new job?

DOB: June 11, 1996, 22:07, Petlad, Gujarat, India

I feel like I’m in my own personal hell.

u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 1 month ago

Skin, Laundry, Hair & Essentials

I’ve been on my best behavior and haven’t gone in over a month. $40 total though I feel like now it’s more expensive than what it used to be. Great selection at my local DT. They had the entire lineup of each skincare but I prioritized the ones I really wanted to try.

u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 1 month ago

My moon mahadasha is ruining my life

I get into fights with my mother all the time, we used to be close. I have no relations with my father and brother who are assholes anyway. My skip level at work is giving me a hard time. I’m passed over for projects and opportunities. I can’t seem to find a new job, every interview ends up with some blockage — the role freezes, they ghost, etc. I’m worried this mahadasha is going to rob me of all of my comforts — money, home, security, emotional support, job. What the hell do I do???? I thought sun mahadasha was bad but this is 2x WORSE! All the bad parts of Sun mahadasha AMPLIFIED.

u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 1 month ago

Finally got my hands on a moisturizing lip product at my local dollar tree. And it was the last one! I immediately tried it in my car and it smells and feels delicious, moisturizing but not sticky. My lips feel soft and loved!

u/Broad-Midnight3019 — 2 months ago