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Yo también me he visto afectado por las prácticas de Meta relacionadas con la suspensión de cuentas, y sé que no soy la única persona.

Hay usuarios a quienes Instagram les deshabilita sus cuentas por acusaciones extremadamente graves, como fraude o explotación sexual infantil, sin proporcionar una explicación clara ni ofrecer un proceso de apelación que realmente permita solucionar el problema.

Al mismo tiempo, Meta ofrece Meta Verified como un servicio de pago que incluye acceso a soporte. Personas que ya están enfrentando problemas con sus cuentas pueden terminar pagando la suscripción con la expectativa de recibir ayuda y, aun así, no obtener una solución efectiva.

Esto no se trata simplemente de perder una cuenta de Instagram. Para muchas personas, Instagram es una herramienta de trabajo: dependemos de nuestras cuentas para comunicarnos con clientes, promocionar nuestro trabajo, generar ingresos y mantener proyectos que nos han tomado años construir. Yo mismo dependía de Instagram para trabajar, por lo que verme afectado por una suspensión de este tipo tuvo consecuencias reales.

Y hay algo que debemos aceptar: probablemente Meta no va a dejar de utilizar sistemas automatizados o IA para moderar sus plataformas. Por eso considero que una de las pocas cosas que podemos hacer como usuarios es documentar nuestras experiencias, exigir transparencia y hacer que estos problemas sean visibles.

Por eso decidí presentar un reporte ante la Federal Trade Commission (FTC) sobre mi experiencia.

Si tú también te has visto afectado por lo que consideras prácticas injustas o engañosas de Meta relacionadas con los baneos de Instagram, los procesos de apelación o Meta Verified, documenta lo que ocurrió y presenta tu propio reporte.

FTC — ReportFraud:

https://reportfraud.ftc.gov/

No estoy diciendo que nadie invente información ni exagere su caso. Reporten exactamente lo que les ocurrió, guarden sus pruebas y permitan que las autoridades determinen si existe un patrón.

Y si realmente queremos que Meta preste atención, compartamos estas experiencias fuera de Reddit: TikTok, YouTube, X, Facebook y otros foros o comunidades donde puedan llegar a más usuarios afectados. No se trata de acosar a empleados ni de inventar acusaciones; se trata de hacer visibles experiencias reales y exigir mejores sistemas de moderación, apelación y soporte.

Si suficientes usuarios afectados documentamos nuestras experiencias y las hacemos visibles, será mucho más difícil que estos problemas simplemente desaparezcan dentro de un ticket de soporte.

Necesito saber su opinión sobre esto, mi hermano es una persona que tira comentarios incoherentes muchas veces o dice cosas sin sentido, le cuesta relacionarse mucho con personas y aveces se lleva con niños pequeños pero siempre he visto que es una persona autosuficiente, cocina, sale de casa, sigue reglas y muchas otras cosas pero siempre he tenido la duda por que anteriormente un psicólogo le dijo que tenía autismo (spectre) pero no lo creo ya que el y yo sufrimos un cierto abuso y el es muy ansioso, cosa que yo también pero he sobrellevado muy bien mi ansiedad cosa que es casi inexistente en este caso me gustaría saber su opinión

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I need some advice because I've been carrying this for a long time.

A few years ago I drifted away from a group of friends who were like brothers to me. Later there were rumors, people talked badly about me, I felt betrayed, and I lost some friendships because of it. Even though time has passed and I'm focused on improving myself (gym, changing my mindset, working on myself), it still affects me.

I don't want to become friends with them again and I'm not trying to go back to that group. I just want peace and to stop feeling like I'm in some kind of war where sooner or later I'll run into them again or end up having mutual friends with them.

Has anyone gone through something similar? What did you do to finally let go and stop carrying those feelings around?

I want honest advice about whether it’s worth trying to reconnect with my first love after almost 2 years, but the situation is complicated and has a lot of context behind it.

Before I met her, I had started becoming close friends with a guy named Ethan through another friend named Noah. Around that time there was already drama in the group involving another girl named Mia. Both Ethan and I liked her, and looking back, I handled the situation selfishly and immaturely. That situation damaged friendships before everything else even started.

Through Noah, I eventually met a girl named Claire. She was connected to the same friend group and also had history with another guy in the group named Ryan.

The moment Claire and I started talking, everything escalated incredibly fast. Within days we were talking constantly, spending hours on calls and video chats every single day. It felt intense very quickly and honestly became my first truly serious emotional attachment.

At the time, I was emotionally unstable without fully realizing it. I had severe anxiety, low self-esteem, attachment issues, and I depended emotionally on people way too much. One of the first things Claire told me was that she didn’t want to carry someone else’s emotional problems inside the relationship. I agreed, but in reality I didn’t know how not to emotionally depend on her.

Claire also had serious family problems. Her father was emotionally abusive, constantly yelled at her mother, and created a very tense environment at home. Because of that, she had a lot of fears surrounding relationships and emotional attachment.

Things became socially complicated when all of us met up one day at Ryan’s house. He had recently gone through his own breakup and tensions were already high. After that day, Ryan suddenly cut me off completely and blocked me everywhere. From that point on, the friend group slowly became divided and toxic.

Ethan especially never supported my relationship with Claire. From the beginning he was against us being together, insulted me when he found out we liked each other, and constantly created tension around the relationship. Over time, I started realizing that people inside the group were talking badly about me behind my back.

Even with all that happening, Claire and I stayed extremely emotionally attached to each other. We spent almost every day talking for hours. But eventually her fears about relationships started becoming stronger.

One day she told me she thought our relationship might not be healthy and that she was scared we would end up hurting each other the same way our families had hurt us growing up.

That completely destroyed me emotionally.

Instead of reacting maturely, I became extremely emotionally dependent. I begged her not to leave me, cried constantly, sent emotional voice messages, and kept telling her I couldn’t live without her. Looking back now, I understand how overwhelming that must have been for her.

Eventually she ended the relationship completely.

The breakup affected me harder than anything else I had experienced at that age. I stopped going to school for weeks, isolated myself emotionally, cried almost every night for months, and eventually started therapy because I genuinely couldn’t function normally anymore.

Things became even worse because our shared friend group turned toxic afterward. Rumors started spreading, private conversations became public, and people I trusted began talking badly about me behind my back. At one point I distanced myself from almost everyone because mentally I was exhausted.

Around that same time, I became much closer to a girl named Sophie.

What makes this more complicated is that Sophie was originally part of Claire’s friend group too. She knew everything that had happened between us because she was close to everyone involved. Around the same time I completely distanced myself from Claire and the group, Sophie also slowly distanced herself from them. She changed accounts, stopped talking to most of them, and eventually became one of the only people I genuinely trusted emotionally.

At first, I only vented to Sophie about everything that happened with Claire. She listened to me during some of the worst months of my life and knew the entire situation from both sides. Over time, Sophie and I became extremely close emotionally and eventually developed feelings for each other.

The problem was that, even though I cared about Sophie, I still wasn’t fully over Claire emotionally. Deep down, I kept comparing what I felt with Sophie to what I had felt during my relationship with Claire, and emotionally it never felt the same to me.

Months later, after a long period without contact, Claire and I ended up speaking again.

That conversation happened because somehow both Claire and Sophie realized we were dating after seeing activity on social media. Eventually I decided to message Claire directly because I still had too many unresolved emotions and questions.

The conversation became extremely emotional and tense very quickly.

We both released a lot of resentment and unresolved pain. Claire told me again that one of the biggest reasons she left was because I emotionally depended on her too much and because she felt overwhelmed by my emotional instability at the time.

At the same time, I finally told her how much the breakup had destroyed me mentally. I told her about the months of crying, therapy, isolation, and how badly everything affected me emotionally. I also asked her why she hurt me so deeply when all I ever did was genuinely love her.

The conversation eventually became ugly from both sides. I said horrible things out of anger and emotional exhaustion that I deeply regret now. After that conversation, we completely stopped talking again.

Since then, almost 2 years have passed.

I’m 18 now and honestly I feel like a completely different person compared to who I was back then:

• I’m much more emotionally stable
• I go to the gym consistently
• I have discipline now
• I understand my anxiety and attachment issues much better
• I don’t emotionally depend on people the way I used to
• I’ve matured a lot emotionally compared to when I was 16

But even after all this time, I still think about her.

Not in an obsessive way, and not because I think we could magically recreate the past, but because I genuinely feel like I never connected with anyone else the same way I connected with her.

Part of me wants to try reaching out again now that we’re older and more mature.

But another part of me wonders if I’m just attached to my first love and to the intensity of what I felt back then.

So I genuinely want honest advice:
Would trying to reconnect after all this time be a mistake? Or do some people deserve a second chance once both sides have matured?

Hello a todos

Soy de Tegucigalpa y este domingo tengo una cita en Solana Bistro con una chica con la que llevo hablando varios meses. Normalmente salgo a lugares más relajados (mall, lugares abiertos), pero esta vez será algo más formal.

También es la primera vez que nos vamos a ver en persona, así que ando algo nervioso 😅

Desde hace unas semanas empecé a sentir algo más por ella, así que quiero que todo salga bien.

Quería pedirles ayuda:

• ¿Cuánto se suele gastar ahí por persona (aprox)?
• ¿Qué recomiendan pedir?
• ¿Cómo debería vestirme (casual elegante o más formal)?
• ¿Algún consejo para una primera cita así y además siendo la primera vez que nos vemos?

Gracias de antemano