3rd day ko na since nagka bulutong. Mag pprepare na ko ng products sa peklat once nag heal. Please suggest ano mabisang pangtanggal ng peklat from chickenpox? Soap ko now is kojic + dove + moisturizer with niacinamide, okay lang ba sila gamitin agad pagka heal ng chickenpox? Thank you po
Ganyan po ba talaga sa BPO? Bawal umihi pero may bio break? Pwede sila ireport sa DOLE no? Pinagbabawalan kasi yung mother ko, e may problema sa matres yun. Isang beses lang sya nag bio break and nag warning agad TL nya.
Medyo problematic talaga gumawa ng sistema sa BPO no, yung hindi naman big deal, ginagawang problema. Kaya pala madami sila lawsuit.
EDIT (❗️please read and comprehend): MAY MEDICAL CERTIFICATE AND ADVISE FROM DOCTOR ANG MOTHER KO NA MATAGAL NANG ALAM NG TL NYA. ISANG BESES LANG SYA NAG CR, THEN MAY WARNING AGAD AT PAG NAULIT DAW MEMO NA.
GENUINE QUESTION, BAKIT PO AFFECTED YUNG IBA DITO REGARDING DOLE KAHIT HINDI NAMAN SILA YUNG MANAGEMENT? ANO BA DAPAT ANG NEXT STEP KAPAG ALAM NAMAN NA NUNG TL YUNG CONDITION YET NAG WARNING PA RIN NA MEMEMOHAN NA SYA PAG NAULIT.
YUNG IBA DITO AKALA NAG SISINUNGALING PA KAMI, ANONG KLASENG UTAK PO IYAN? WAG KAYO MASYADO PATAY NA PATAY SA COMPANY NYO, PAG NAMATAY PO KAYO NGAYON, PAPALITAN DIN KAYO NYAN BUKAS.
Ilang client/employer na ang inalisan ko in a span of 9 months. Sobrang baba na ng stress tolerance ko pero para din akong mababaliw kapag hindi ako sobrang busy o kumikita ng sobrang laki. Hindi ko alam anong gusto ko sa buhay. Lumaki ako na kung saan may pera, dapat doon ako. Sa ilang taon kong nabubuhay sa mundong to, never pala ako nabuhay para sa sarili ko. Nagttrabaho ako para kay ganito, pinili ko tong trabahong to kasi may need bayaran si ganyan. Pagod na pagod na ako sa buhay. Napapagod na rin ako ikwento mga naging trauma ko na naging cause kung bakit ako may suspected CPTSD at sumobrang baba ng stress tolerance ko.
Para akong pinaparusahan araw araw. Wala akong choices sa buhay na masaya ako. Kapag pinili ko ang gusto ko, hindi na makakabangon mga magulang ko sa hirap kahit ang babata pa nila (late 40s, early 50s) privileged at nakapag tapos ng pag aaral unlike me, pero sila itong walang naipundar at utang pa naipamana sa akin, so ang ending ako rin ang stressed. Kapag sila ang pinili ko, habang buhay akong money making machine. Bawal ako magkaroon ng emosyon. Abusuhin ako ng employer ko? Stay. Hinihimatay na ko kakapuyat at overworked? Stay pa rin. Gusto ko mag change career at explore? Bawal yan haha. Kung ito lang ang choices ko sa buhay, bakit hindi pa ako mawala.
Nung hindi na 30k o higit ang kinikita ko para kaming building na gumuho. Kaka graduate pa lang ng mga ka batch ko at nag eexplore pa lang sa buhay. Samantalang ako ILANG TAON nang iniinda ang ganitong buhay! Ni hindi ka makapag simula ng sariling negosyo kasi walang sariling diskarte tong mga to. May mga trabaho sila pero hindi sapat, laging hindi sapat. Hindi ko na maalala kailan naging sapat. Kung hindi ako kumilos dati baka palaboy kami ngayon. Diyos ko, bakit ganito buhay ko 😢
Pagod na pagod na ako, takot ako mamatay pero wala namang ibang way para makapag pahinga ako. Hindi ko na kaya ang pain araw araw.
Does it get better or nadadala sya hanggang sa pag aasawa? Don’t get me wrong, I believe rin na wala talaga gaanong karapatan lalo kung mag gf/bf pa lang. Pero what if ganito yung scenario: BF is very family oriented at close sa mga kapatid nya kaya lagi silang nagbobonding. If nagsabay yung day off ng isa sa kapatid nya at GF nya, irereschedule ni BF yung meet up with his GF. So si GF ang mag aadjust kahit may pasok sya. Weekdays nalang sila mag memeet at si GF na mag aadjust to meet after work kahit pagod pagod na sya. Si GF hinahati yung day off nya, 1 day for family and 1 day for her partner kaso madalas ngang hindi nasusunod. Hindi nangyayari all the time, pero madalas.
PS. Bunso yung BF
Nababaliw na po ako kung anong business sisimulan haha.
Marunong po ko magluto and marami po nasasarapan kaya food business gusto ko pasukin. Specialty ko as of now:
Chicken wings (buffalo sauce with white sauce) - lahat po ng nakatikim nasarapaaannn, and inegosyo ko daw po. Medyo matrabaho lang gawin, from supply and stock.
Homemade mojos (round cut na potato) with homemade sauces - masarap din daw po and mas madali gawin for me.
Bibimbowl - bago sa masa kung ikukumpara lang sa silog or usual rice meals. Kaso complicated gawin and magastos. Masarap din.
Or stick nalang po ako sa silog? Kaso medyo madami na around sa area namin 🥹🥹
Bunso kasi sya sa kanila, mabait sya and very family oriented. Madami kasi silang magkakapatid so mahilig sila mag bond, like watching or playing games, and I am very supported with that, mababait din sa akin kapatid niya. Sometimes nga pag napag-uusapan future namin, ako pa nagsasabi na pag bumukod kami, gusto ko rin iinvite invite fam nya and fam ko tas bonding bonding kami.
So yun na nga, going 5 years na kami and sa buong 5 years na yun, napansin ko na priority nya talaga fam nya (again okay ako dito and supportive pa nga, bilang gf alam ko limitations ko lalo’t hindi naman ako asawa). Pero sometimes, I find it unfair.
BTW, nauna ko mag work sa kanya dahil nag stop ako. So halimbawa, nagsabay kami ng day off ng isa sa kapatid nya and mag bobonding sila nung araw na yun, iaadjust nya yung meet up naming dalawa at kadalasan namomove sa may pasok ako. So may mga tendencies na iaadjust ko yung schedule ko throughout the day, like mag memeet up kami after ng work ko kahit pagod na ako. Hindi naman to lagi nangyayari, madalas lang. Lalo na nung onsite pa ko, napipilitan talaga sya sumunod sa availability ko minsan.
But nung nag WFH na ko and flexible time pa, mas may availability ako, gawa nga ng pwede ako mag work anytime from M-F. Kaso syempre, I also consider my parent’s day off, lalo na sa nanay ko. Ever since nag work ako ganito ko pinaplan day off ko: 1 day is for family, then yung other 1 is for bf/friends. E minsan tumatama ng weekdays day off ni mother, tapos gusto pumunta minsan ni BF ng weekdays din so may konting adjustment nanaman, pero hindi ko na inaallow too much this time lalo kung may lakad talaga kami ni mama. Aside from that, syempre I have other things to do like interviews, personal etc. So ayun, it happened again today and mamomove nanaman sa weekdays meet up namin and nagsabi na ko na tentative pa sched ko so most likely next week or next next week na ulit.
I’m honest naman with him, I just find it very unfair na isa lang willing mag adjust and ibalance ang family-lovelive/friends, while yung isa is may top priority talaga. Ako kasi yung tao na nagkukusa nang magbigay ng boundaries sa sarili kaysa mag build pa ng resentment katagalan. But again, IDK if ABYG haha. Anyways, kamusta po yung rs ng mga may partner jan na bunso of the family? Hehe.
BTW mag kapitbahay lang kami hahaha mga 20 bahay lang pagitan.
Kapag budgeted kami tas nag ccrave ng sans rival, ito binibili namin sa burger machine, P120 lang. Then P25 naman dun sa small size nila na naka cube cut lang.
9/10 - masaraappp, may batches lang minsan na makunat na yung pinaka biscuit kahit iref. Pero madalas ko naman matyempuhan yung crunchy pa yung biscuit tas iffreezer ko. May chocolate flavor din sila nito, lasang chocnut, okay din :)
BTW, nabawasan na yan ng 2 rectangles sa gilid hahaha ako rin nag cut nyan, buong rectangle yan kapag binili.
Tama nga sila, ang mental health ay para ding physical health. Kumbaga kumain ka ng junks ngayon, sisingilin ka ng katawan mo balang araw. Sa mental health naman, hindi pala agad-agad minsan ang response ng katawan mo sa trauma.
Just sharing here my story. Career woman talaga ako, I started working at age 18 kasi kailangan kong tumigil ng pag-aaral to help financially. From BPO to local offices to WFH freelancer ang naging journey ko. Naranasan ko na lahat sa trabaho, low pay tas abusive employer, napahiya ako sa 50+ workmates ko, hindi ako nabayaran, and so much more, pero na-endure ko sya lahat at a young age. Pero lately, simula pa nung ber months last 2025 up to now, I noticed na I’ve been a quitter compared to before. Na-lay off kasi ako sa client ko last year so naghahanap hanap ako ng job. Fortunately, I was able to land 5 clients pero nagreresign ako agad without lasting at least isang buwan man lang. I get easily overwhelmed and ang baba na ng stress tolerance ko, which is so highly unusual for me.
For some reason, I have this gut feeling na mental problem sya. So I documented my triggers, past traumas, and responses ko. To make the story short, nag laan talaga ko ng time to research and pinaka malapit ay CPTSD. Which is tama nga! I was later diagnosed by my registered psychologist friend, dapat daw may significant distress or impairment ako sa social, occupational, or other important areas of life bago madiagnose ng PTSD. At ganun na nga ang nangyayari.
I wont go into much detail pero to summarize my childhood traumas:
10-17 years old: exposed to extreme poverty, nakatira kami (mama,papa, younger brother) sa terrace ng bahay ng lola ko. Yes, terrace. Technically, naka tira sa labas. Nasisilipan ako ng stranger pag nag bibihis. Experienced extreme DAILY bullying and humiliation from my lola and titos. Was always on fight mode, either ako ang victim or referee for the day between my parents and extended family.
14-18 years old: Around the same time din, I was exposed to a cult na sinalihan ng lola ko (sa mother side naman ito). Controlled nila kami especially nanay ko, pag hindi sumunod, may threat. Since nakitira kami sa kanila for a year, we have no choice but to endure. Pero recurring to kasi required kami mag visit sa kanila. Very disturbing na ang kwento dito kaya I won’t go into details na.
19-age ko now: I had to step up and help financially. I’ve been through work humiliation and bullying pero strong ako that time, so labas lang sa kabila hahaha. Ang naglamat talaga sa akin ay yung mas mainit pa ulo ng tatay kong unemployed, kaysa sakin na pagod. I had to endure that everyday pag uwi + house chores + di pa sakin napupunta sahod completely.
And many many moreeee.
Technically, naging coping mechanism ko daw ang quitting kasi hindi na kaya iaccept ng katawan at isip ko ang discomfort. Ang masama, kung kailan dapat ako mas active sa career ko, tsaka pa ko siningil.
Na survive ko yung trauma e, pero hindi yung aftermath hahaha yun lang. Mental health matters pala talaga. If anti ka dito, wag ka na mag comment ng hate, sa ibang post ka nalang hehe.
Edit: Yes po, may mga naging sakit ako although I am not sure if dahil lang talaga yun sa stress pero stress-related itong mga to: PCOS (may lahi kami pero malaking factor ang stress), GERD, then severe gastroenteritis pag sobrang stress. Complete ko rin symptoms ng Autoimmune Disease pero wag naman po sana, magpapatingin ako soon. Ingatan nyo health nyo
Hi! I am a November Scorpio. I’ve checked multiple readings online today and all of them seem positive today and this week. However, it’s just Tuesday here, and I am already feeling terrible. Just resigned from my new job for some reason, had anxiety attack again, and some bad s-cide thoughts. My traumas kept coming back, and I just realized I never did something I truly loved my whole life. I am not great in deeply understanding astrology and just wanna understand what this year and month would offer us. I hope it is something good, something that would set us free.
Talking about freedom, despite the recession here, I am grateful for the number of job opportunities being offered to me. However, it is very gut-wrenching that my mind and body are not accepting them. I’ve resigned from 5 jobs without lasting at least a month from Q4 last year until now. I have very strong internal signals, no matter how hard I try to stay, my mind and body strongly reject the situation, and I eventually become physically and mentally unwell until I leave. My feelings are pushing me toward business or something that is more stimulating, not just sitting at a desk clacking on a keyboard all day everyday. What does business look like for us? Is the universe teaching us something? Is this a time for redirection and trying new things?
Thank you
Hi! I am a November Scorpio. I’ve checked multiple readings online today and all of them seem positive today and this week. However, it’s just Tuesday here, and I am already feeling terrible. Just resigned from my new job for some reason, had anxiety attack again, and some bad s-cide thoughts. My traumas kept coming back, and I just realized I never did something I truly loved my whole life. I am not great in deeply understanding astrology and just wanna understand what this year and month would offer us. I hope it is something good, something that would set us free.
Talking about freedom, despite the recession here, I am grateful for the number of job opportunities being offered to me. However, it is very gut-wrenching that my mind and body are not accepting them. I’ve resigned from 5 jobs without lasting at least a month from Q4 last year until now. I have very strong internal signals, no matter how hard I try to stay, my mind and body strongly reject the situation, and I eventually become physically and mentally unwell until I leave. My feelings are pushing me toward business or something that is more stimulating, not just sitting at a desk clacking on a keyboard all day everyday. What does business look like for us? Is the universe teaching us something? Is this a time for redirection and trying new things?
Thank you
Hi co-November Scorpios! How’s your day doing so far? I’ve checked multiple readings online today and all of them seem positive today and this week. However, it’s just Tuesday here, and I am already feeling terrible. Just resigned from my new job for some reason, had anxiety attack again, and some bad s-cide thoughts. My traumas kept coming back, and I just realized I never did something I truly loved my whole life. I am not great in deeply understanding astrology and just wanna understand what this year and month would offer us. I hope it is something good, something that would set us free.
Talking about freedom, despite the recession here, I am grateful for the number of job opportunities being offered to me. However, it is very gut-wrenching that my mind and body are not accepting them. I’ve resigned from 5 jobs without lasting at least a month from Q4 last year until now. I have very strong internal signals, no matter how hard I try to stay, my mind and body strongly reject the situation, and I eventually become physically and mentally unwell until I leave. My feelings are pushing me toward business or something that is more stimulating, not just sitting at a desk clacking on a keyboard all day everyday. What does business look like for us? Is the universe teaching us something? Is this a time for redirection and trying new things?
Context: Pinag iisipan ko if mag reresign ako sa job ko right now. Freelancer ako for Php40k (no benefits) eventually magiging Php50k after 6 months (depends pa sa client). Maliit sya for a freelance set up and if icocompare sa previous rates ko (medyo similar din yung job responsibilities here). Pero sa hirap ng buhay ngayon, aba hindi na masama.
However, hindi ako makapag-work ng maayos since night shift sya dahil sa Canada naka base si client. Pero before that, serial puyatera talaga ko. I even preferred clients na nasa EST/CST timezone hahahaha kaso habang tumatagal ang hina ko na sa puyatan. Mula nung nakatanggap ako ng flexi role nung January, naayos ko yung sleeping pattern ko. Yung dating vampire, 12-2am na natutulog ngayon at naaabutan na ang almusal hahahah so medyo nahirapan ako sa transition dito sa new job ko.
To be honest, ngayon nalang uli ako nakatulog ng normal, 17 years old ata ako nung last na natulog ako ng aligned sa local timezone natin. So bale 7 years? Since 18 ako nagsimula mag work hahaha. Anyways, na-spot ko talaga yung difference ng night shift sa hindi. And ang sarap palaaaaa matulog ng gabi 🤤 hahaha parang I can’t trade it na (siguro unless if the price is right!?) char hahahaha.
For me, feel ko willing pa rin naman ako itrade basta siguro 80k or higher (syempre depende sa responsibilities). Pero if 40k? hmm….ayoko naman maging choosy jusko ang hirap ng buhay ngayon. I have part-time client pa naman pero Php750/day lang, flexible sya, walang deadline at bahala ko sa sarili ko kaya kineep ko pa rin hahaha. Need ko na maghanap hanap ng AU/UK client.
Kayooo ba, would you give up your good sleep routine for ₱40k?