I’ve seen several threads regarding incense forward fragrances but I’m looking for a scent where the incense note doesn’t smack you in the nose. Infinitely wearable. Gorgeous & not headache-inducing.

What matches this description for you? I’m on the hunt for slightly sweet, rich, warm, cozy.

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u/CocteauTwinn — 5 days ago
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Thoughts on this Y2K genuine blue and white diamond ring? Sorry for the poor quality pic.

I didn't think to see if there is a maker's mark but visual searches match up with rings from Kay jewelers. Now I need to know before I put a deposit down.
Everything I've read about that company suggests that the overall quality of the jewelry is sub-par. Still, I love the ring. Should I go for it nonetheless?

u/CocteauTwinn — 3 months ago

Need some ideas for a small post-burial family gathering.

I’m having immediate family over to look through old photos of our recently-deceased relative. It will be early afternoon but I want to provide a meal that doesn’t require an insane amount of prep. Please no lasagna & it’s the middle of own of our hottest summers in the Northeast.

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u/CocteauTwinn — 3 months ago

What can you tell me about blue diamonds?

The jeweler is holding these for me. 10k white gold and the blue diamond is not like any I've seen before. Should I spring for them? Is 10k a good a good option? Sorry for the low-quality pic.

u/CocteauTwinn — 3 months ago

Finally received last week. It only took 2.5 months…

However, the fit is weird. Unisex medium, but it’s tight through the back and the sleeves are snug. I want to cut a few inches off the bottom and an inch off the sleeves as I think it would improve the fit. Should ?

Edit: autocorrect

u/CocteauTwinn — 3 months ago

Pap Smears and Vaginal Atrophy

62F. BC survivor with extreme vaginal atrophy. Last years’ attempt at an internal exam made me scream in pain. I had to make my Dr. stop. Even without the speculum I was in extraordinary pain.

I’ve been her patient for years. She has stated that she does not advise local vaginal estrogen therapy due to my history. My onc said the same. My endo (who I no longer see) suggested Vagifem & Imvexxy reassuring me that the data suggests it’s safe. I tried Imvexxy for a bit but stopped out of fear.

I’m due for my annual & this is Pap smear year. I’m terrified as I cannot attempt to undergo this again. What are my options, if any?

To make matters worse, she was barely conciliatory after what I went through.

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u/CocteauTwinn — 3 months ago

Do Argos Fragrances Live Up to the Hype?

Not many online shops offer samples and I don’t blind-buy anymore.

What are your thoughts on this house, and what are your favorites?

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u/CocteauTwinn — 4 months ago

Is it normal to feel dissociative after the tragic death of a family member?

It’s hard to explain how this feels, but I’m trying to recall thoughts that connect everything together and I can’t. Am I grieving in this way?

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u/CocteauTwinn — 4 months ago

Acid Horizon Podcast

I’d hoped there’d be a podcast discussing this phenomenal record & I found this one really quickly. If you’re as fervent a fan as I, you’ll find the discussions to be very adroit and interesting. Really well done!

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u/CocteauTwinn — 4 months ago
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Can anyone provide info on this piece?

It’s been in my family for years. I inherited it from my mother & my aunt who recently passed had one in slightly different colors.

u/CocteauTwinn — 5 months ago

Could this be why I feel so lousy?

Dx’d 35 years ago. I’ve been on Armour thyroid for years and have tolerated it very well. I was behind on my bloodwork as my new Endo was on medical leave. I’m especially super sensitive to the warm weather, (always have been but it’s markedly worse & it’s not even really hot out) feel nauseous and have severe malaise. How bad is my TSH? Finally saw my Endo & she’s lowering my dosage.

u/CocteauTwinn — 5 months ago