Asking because I’ve seen a lot of communist talk down on feminism.
I’m still learning on marxism and strongly believe that a communist revolution will be the 1st stone for female liberation.
I just don’t understand why so many communists seem to dislike feminism?
Like I can have empathy for an individual who’s a guy, but I don’t empathize with the problems men have in our society, I used to but after a while you realize they are just snakes biting their own tails.
Men are just so stuck onto that idea that men and women are two different that it comes out even in the slightest way, they have this very fixed idea of what women are like, what they that they have this overbearing tendency of labelling things that everybody experiences as specifically masculine or male.
Someone criticized the way men barely know personal stuffs about each other and all the men replied about it’s because they bond differently than women, that women bond over personal stuff and men over hobbies and I just hated the way everybody in the thread was acting as if women don’t also bond over shared hobbies.
I know it’s not that deep but I just hate how easily it is to understand that women are 1 dimensional beings for men.
I’ve hated this since my teen years, it first started when I realized treated female sexual desire as non existent and acted as if only they had sexual thoughts, and it still irks me when they talk about being unable to show their emotions as a purely male experience as ifff you are allowed to show a wide range of emotions as a woman.
I think I just hate how men don’t care about women overall.
I (21F) have had a high sexual drive since I was a teen and it has plummeted lately, I’ve been thinking about getting into the hook up scene but I’m not sure since I can’t have penetrative sex.
I am also bisexual, do you guys think I should limit myself to sex with women until my vaginismus get better.
So to preface this I have autism and ADHD so I have very strong hyperfixations and K-pop is my special interest.
I am multistan but I feel like no other groups (except for Loona) compare to BTS for me. I have other groups that I stan and love but I feel like none of them compare to BTS, none of them give me the level of serotonin that BTS gives me, like I get so freaking giddy when talking about them, just mentioning tiny stuffs like what Yoongi said in the concert about wanting to keep going on for 32 years put the stupidest smile on my face, being an Army genuinely makes me so happy in a way that other groups can’t. (APOBANGPO.)
I get so happy whenever I have a chance to have a conversation about them with anyone, a huge part of that is the fact that they are such a stable group, no member leaving, no problem with their label, the hardest time was just them leaving for the military, it’s such a peaceful experience for me.
BTS were my teenage years and I genuinely love them so much.
Anyway, does any other multi feels like this?
Edit : It’s to a point where I feel so happy whenever I think about the day I bought my tickets. I love them so much.
For context I am an autistic woman in my early 20s and one of my special interests is feminism and I also have a strong sense of justice.
I know I’m attracted to men, but I’ve never been able to actually date one because they (the men in my area) never actually care about feminism/women’s issue and this is something I heavily value in the people I form a connection with whether friendly or romantic.
The only man who remotely seem to care, only used feminism as a way to lure me in, so he could sexually assault me.
Anyone here struggling with dating men?
I always here about bi women who have trouble dating women due to the sapphic dating pool being smaller, but rarely about those who struggle to date men.
I am a pretty optimist person overall except when it comes to feminism, because I truly think women are doomed.
I don’t even think gaining right is our hardest fight, the problem lies in the fact that patriarchy and choice feminism are so fucking pervasive, that talking about feminism with other women just feels depressing, they genuinely enjoy the dehumanization that comes with it.
The “I’m just a girl mentality” is so fucking pervasive, it feels like most women are not aware of the extent of their oppression.
And I wish I wasn’t attracted to them, I hate the fact that despite knowing how evil they are, I am still attracted to them and I feel weak and braindead for still being attracted to such vile people.
Is there any way to lessen attraction towards male?
I became an army when I was in middle school and at the time most of my friends were armys, I was on stan twitter for a few years (pre elon) and use to have lots of army oomfies that I lost contact with because I kept getting suspended.
Fast Forward to now, I pretty much don’t talk with my middle school friends anymore, and I tried to go back on army tweet but ngl it has become toxic as hell and most people don’t fuck with multis over there.
So how do army who are also multis, connect with other armies?
For reference I live in Paris. (if someone knows any place where they usually meet other kpop stans)
And I’m asking about Armys because despite being a multi, I have an hyperfixation on BTS lately, so I really need someone to talk about them with.