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Mixed feelings

Im 25f and hes 32. We both have kids. He has two boys and i have twin boys. We have been seeing each other for a month. Almost 2. Things have been great. Hes respectful, kind, we have a bit in common, he shows he genuinely likes me and is looking for the same as me. He also gives me space and isnt clingy. He did ask me to be his girlfriend last week 😅 i was okay with it at first as we have hung out a bunch of times but now im second guessing and im not sure why. Im used to meeting people who end up ghosting me or putting bare minimum effort and i always seem to like guys who dont like me back instead or liking those who like me back. I do enjoy spending time but dont necessarily feel a spark. Should i just end things or give it more time? I feel like i have the worsr luck with dating and that i have to settle for partners because im a single mom. Society tends to look down on single moms so i figured i should be lucky anyone would be into dating me. Thoughts?

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3 weeks post MA Pls help

Had an MA on 07/22. Took mife and 2 doses of miso. Bled and cramped within 2 hours of first dose. My breast tenderness and symptoms went away. They are lighter in color. The only issue is ive had a tight feeling in my stomach all week. Tightness starts above belly button and finishes mid to below stomach. Im terrified im pregnant still. Florida is a 6 week state. I feel huge and have been eating a lot. I had mucusy discharge 2 days ago but not anymore. Also started working out again last week and i slipped in the shower yesterday. Does this tightness feeling and me looking bigger mean im pregnant? Clinic gave me a special test i can use but im terrified. I got my period at 4 weeks exactly last abortion but dont remember the stomach tightness…. I was 5 weeks pregnant when i had this abortion

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 6 days ago
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How to emulate KH2?

Hi (: i have the pcsx2 emulator downloaded already and have the first kingdom hearts game downloaded on it. If like to download the rest of the games. Someone walked me through years ago how to emulate games but i dont remember how and dont talk to them anymore. Can someone guide me on where i can download games for this emulator and how to add them? Ty! Sorry if i sound dumb lol. Ive been a console player all my life and am new to pc gaming

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 10 days ago

2 weeks post MA symptoms.

Had MA with both mifepristone and misoprotol. Had mifepristone 7/21 and 2 doses of misoprotol 24 hours later orally 7/22. Being 8 pills in total 4 hours apart. Bleeding and cramping happened within 2 hours of first dose. Bled and cramped with clots all night as normal. My bleeding was normal and breast pain and nausea went away within a week. My breasts are lighter in color and not tender. They slightly hurt now and then similar to a period. Ive had slight stomach cramping as well. My bleeding stopped two days ago. Today i also had a lot of clear discharge that was not foul or anything. Could i still be pregnant? Could i be ovulating? I have not had intercourse since procedure. Clinic two days ago said the cramping feeling could be uterus shrinking.

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 12 days ago

Stomach cramps and slight breast pain 13 days post ma

Had an MA at 5 weeks pregnant two weeks ago. I bled within 2 hours and took mifepristone and 2 doses of misoprotol. 8 in total. I cramped and releases blood clots as supposed to. Breast tenderness died down as well as nausea and headaches. Breasts got lighter as well in color and feel. My stomach has been cramping this week and a bit bloated similar to when i was pregnant and im scared. Clinic said its part of the healing. Any advice? Im scared. I stopped bleeding yesterday. I keep googling every symptom. This is my second ma and worse than the first. Im scared and want it ro be over with. I feel fine and no pain besides slight breast pain thats not tender and stomach tightness/cramp

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 14 days ago

Viral infection started same time as MA

Everyone in my house was sick with a viral illness(low fever/feeling warm, vomiting, cough and some throat pain.) i had my first dose of mifepristone Wednesday and the misoprotol thursday. Everything went as supposed to with misoprotol. I threw up 5 hours after but the clinic said that was normal. This is not my first medical abortion either. Ive been sick since thursday and didnt eat or drink much for 4 days due to feeling sick. Got appetite back 2 days ago. The main issue is feeling dehydrated and my body being warm. Is this a sign abortion failed or part of my sickness? Pregnancy symptoms have been fading and bleeding has been normal. Im in no pain and no discharge. Im terrified…

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 23 days ago

Second MA in 3 months

Had my first MA in mid/late april and everything went as planned. I had a plan b fail for the first time in my life due to flo not predicting the right date of ovulation. I took mifepristone Wednesday and two doses of misoprotol (8 pills, 4 on each cheek every 4 hours) i bled within 2 hours of the first dose and have the symptoms i was told. Ive also been sick with a virus for a week so have felt horrible. Ive been super depressed and terrified this abortion will fail. I dont feel bloated or tender breasts. I have some cramping in my upper stomach but havent ate much due to being sick. Can someone please reassure me. I am terrified of having to go to another state as my family doesnt know. Im 25 but have twin boys.

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 24 days ago

MA twice in 3 months

Hi ): back in april i had to have an abortion at 5 weeks and took the pill. Everything worked fine for me. I found myself in the same situation again this month. I have an appointment scheduled for the pill tomorrow but im terrified it will fail because of the fact that i had one recently. The clinic reassured me that theres s less than 5% chance but still possible. As they did last time. But I’m terrified id have to go ti another state. Id have to dissapear fromcmy family to get it done. I cant ever let them find out. Please help me calm down. I cant do the surgery because i have no one to drive me home. Unless I endure the pain.

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 29 days ago

Second abortion experience?

i had a MA and took the pills back in may and they worked for me. I was almost 5 weeks pregnant. Sadly found myself in the same situation again and have an appointment this week. Im terrified the pills wont work this time since i took them in may. Has this happened to anyone? Should i get the surgical abortion? How painful is the surgery? Im pretty good with managing pain.

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 1 month ago

Feeling dissapointed

I had my first abortion back in April and feel horrible for it. But i cant afford another child. Well i took a pregnancy test today and it came back pregnant. I had intercourse with the pull out method and plan b 2 days before ovulation. Ive been trying to get on birth control between April and now. Had trouble affording it and insurance. I cant believe i let this happened and was so irresponsible. I feel so morally wrong. Plan b has never failed for me and i wish i was more educated oncmy body. Im an adult. I feel so gross for having two abortions in one year. I have an appointment next month for an iud as my appointment for this month got rescheduled before i got pregnant. I know this all could have been avoided but can i please ger some kind words? Im heartbroken.

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 1 month ago
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Super scared

Took a plan b july 2nd after unprotected sex via pullout method a few hours after intercourse. Flo says ovulation was july 4th. I havent had breast tenderness or pain like i did when i was pregnant. Was only low energy one day. Ive had acne and normal pms symptoms. Tried taking a pregnancy test yesterday but it was invalid. Plan b has worked every time i used it. Period is supposed to be july 19th and isnt here yet

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 1 month ago
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Am i wasting my time

Im 25f and hes 29. Ive been talking to this guy consistently for almost 2 months now. We have hung out 3 times. He talks to me daily or almost daily. He has a very busy job similar to blue collar so he will take long to answer. Sometimes he will be on social media and not answer. But he always communicates why he takes long. I dont expect him to answer quick by the way. The subject of what our intentions are with each other havent been brought up. He doesnt really flirt with me by text but will say i look nice or look good. We did the deed together for the first time a few weeks ago. I did ask him jokingly if he liked me and he did say yes. Hes been texting less than usual but hes also been busy. He doesnt really like my stories. Am i wasting my time? Hes been super respectful, goes to church, and remembers a lot of what i tell him. And when we hang out, its just us talking and watching stuff for hours. The time before hooking up we kissed. I just dont wanna get hurt again or my
Hopes up. I havent brought up any of these feelings because i dont wanna ruin anything or scare him off.

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 1 month ago
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Negative test?

Can i trust my negative test? Last period was 05/22. Had unprotected sex via pull out method 06/07 and ovulation was either 06/05 or 06/06. Flo ( i know not reliable) says my period is in 3 days. I used an early detect today. It came negative. I took another negative test 5 days before period and also negative. I also took plan b the same day as sex happened.

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 2 months ago

Am I wasting my time?

Im 25f and hes 29m. Ive knoen this guy for a month or two. (Talked consistently for a month). Hes kind, extremely respectful, goes to church? works a good job and doesnt seem to be into multiple women at once or like other guys ive met. We talk about everything. Things we enjoy, things we want to try and etc… we have hung out twice in person. He wont outright call me beautiful or pretty but he will say i look good/nice. He kissed me the last time we hung out which i didnt expect. Nothing more than a kiss. Hes never spoken to me sexually or in a disrespectful manner This was two weeks ago. We had plans to hang out again since but i had to cancel sadly. I genuinely like this guy but i feel like i may be wasting my time since he doesnt flirt with me. Im not looking to rush, but im also not looking to get hurt or ruin things by overthinking. Ive just continued to let things flow naturally but im deep down dying to know if hes at least somewhat interested.

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 2 months ago

Pregnancy scare 😅please help

My last period was 05/22/2026 and lasted 5 days. I had unprotected sex stupidly a day after ovulation. Flo predicted ovulation 06/06/26 but i feel i may have ovulated the day before. We used the pull out method and i took a plan b after. Flo says my period is 6 days away so i took a pregnancy test and it came back negative. I plan on retesting the end of the week but is this a good sign? I dont have a heavy persistent tender breasts or pregnancy symptoms. I feel a bit bloated and have been overeating as well as cramping. Im scared

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 2 months ago

Unprotected sex and Plan b 1-2 days after ovulation?

I stupidly had unprotected sex 1-2 days after ovulation. I say 1-2 because my flo app (not always reliable) says ovulation date is june 6th but all other ovulation calculators have said june 5th. I had intercourse june 7th and he did not finish in me (it was swallowed tmi lol). I took a plan b a few hours after. I know pull out method isnt reliable and i know plan b only works to stop or delay ovulation. But does anyone have any advice? I am getting sn iud next month and couldnt get one sooner. Ive used plan b before around ovulation and its worked each time.

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 2 months ago

Unprotected sex 8 weeks after abortion 😅

Very stupid decision but i had sex with someone last night with no condom. I had my first period after my MA two weeks ago. According to flo (which may not be accurate) i am ovulating. I took a plan b 5 hours after intercourse and he did not finish in me. (I swallowed lol) Is there a chance ill be pregnant again. Im scared and disappointed in myself

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 2 months ago

Ovulation symptoms

I had my first period since my MA two weeks ago. This week im ovulating according to the Flo app i use to track my periods. Ive had on and off headaches all week which isnt normal for me. Tension headaches. Im really scared and was wondering if anyone else gets headaches like this or if they got new ovulation/pms symptoms after their abortion they didnt have before.

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 2 months ago

Signs someone likes you

Im 25(f) and hes 29. Talked to this guy consistently for a month but have followed each other on social media a bit longer. Hes sweet, respectful, works a lot during the week, and is really easy to talk to. We talk about everything. Our days, hobbies, pasts and where we are from. He doesnt outright call me pretty but he will say i look good or nice. He has been respectful the two times we hung out and did not try anything which im okay with. He showed me his collection of cards and opened up s lot about himself in person. He did kiss me the last time i saw him without me initiating anything and has said multiple times he would like to hang again (this was last week.) does him not flirting mean that he may not like me?

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 3 months ago

Online resources to boost self esteem?

25f and a single mom of twins. Im s plus size girl id say but am actively in the gym. Id like some resources or videos that could help me with tips on how to boost my confidence 😅 i try to reassure myelf when im overthinking and feeling low. Im hesitant on therapy too.

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u/Comfortable_Mud_6341 — 3 months ago