How badly have I messed up?
I let my maid of honour borrow a bracelet of mine for my wedding ceremony at the beginning of July. A couple days ago I asked for it back.
Some contexts to the rest of the texts:
I have a chronic illness, so I split my ceremony and reception by a couple of weeks so I had time to recover. Unfortunately, my family made some nasty comments the days before and after my wedding, which I told my maid of honour about and she said I should really consider cutting them out of my life because the comments were so bad. So between the ceremony and reception I was in a mental health crisis, which she knew about in detail. I haven't seen her since then and have been very mentally and physically unwell since. She's having a Halloween party next weekend.
The day before my wedding, my mum put together some bouquets from artificial flowers (and made nasty comments that night too implying I was ungrateful, even after I already thanked her), and she told my maid of honour she could take one home, I didnt want to upset my mum and cause even more drama on my wedding day, and being exhausted and ill, so when my MOH asked if that was okay I said "we'll talk about it later", so a few days before the reception we went to collect them, she asked why I didn't just say no to her taking them, so I explained about my mum.
She arranged my hen do and also helped with fundraising for my wheelchair and donated some money.
She had told me that her fiance had lost his job earlier this year, but never said they were struggling and he found another job a month maybe before our wedding ceremony.