Adidas finally made a clamshell for me, but I can't find it where I am in my size (EU39 = USW8.5/ USM 6.5 = UK6.5). Struck out in Asia, Africa, and now North America.
After a few failed parcels from Europe, acquaintances there don't want to try forwarding anything else.
This is a search for a life partner, not a casual connection.
I value emotional intimacy, partnership, and shared purpose over sexual emphasis. A stable, long-term union that moves toward children within the next few years is the goal. Clarity and follow-through matter.
Background in brief:
Looking for a man who:
Is genuinely ready for long-term commitment
Wants children and understands that conception does not need to be conventional
Is emotionally steady, consistent, and enjoys cuddling
Geography can be solved. Timing and seriousness cannot.
If you’re aligned and prefer building something intentional rather than experimental, feel free to message with a short introduction including your favourite beverage, age, height, current vs ideal location(s). Have yo skip message requests which don't.
Thank you for reading!
Marriage and family are important to me — both personally and culturally. My family hopes I’ll marry (someone 186cm+) and have children, and I’m genuinely open to building something real with the right person. I’m open-minded about personality and background — what matters most is integrity, kindness, and being serious about partnership. If you’re someone who also sees marriage as a meaningful goal rather than a casual idea, we may align.
I’m a tall, well-kept and conventionally-attractive Black woman. Single because I’m an autistic lady who prefers travel (currently wintering in SE Asia) and time alone over masking.
If you’re kind, emotionally steady, serious about partnership, and happen to live at a slightly higher altitude, please DM a short introduction including your favourite weather temperature, age, height, current vs ideal location(s).
Thank you for reading
Marriage and family are important to me — both personally and culturally. My family hopes I’ll marry (someone 186cm+) and have children, and I’m genuinely open to building something real with the right person. I’m open-minded about personality and background — what matters most is integrity, kindness, and being serious about partnership. If you’re someone who also sees marriage as a meaningful goal rather than a casual idea, we may align.
I’m a well-kept and conventionally-attractive Black woman. Single because I’m an autistic lady who prefers travel (just wintered in SE Asia) and time alone over masking.
If you’re kind, emotionally steady, serious about partnership, and happen to live at a slightly higher altitude, please DM a short introduction including the most absurd thing that would improve your life, age, height, current vs ideal location(s). Have to skip messages that don't.
Thank you for reading!
This is a search for a life partner, not a casual connection.
I value emotional intimacy, partnership, and shared purpose over sexual emphasis. A stable, long-term union that moves toward children within the next few years is the goal. Clarity and follow-through matter.
Background in brief:
Looking for a man who:
Geography can be solved. Timing and seriousness cannot.
If you’re aligned and prefer building something intentional rather than experimental, no need to comment here. Feel free to message with a short introduction including the name of this subreddit, your favourite dessert, age, height, current vs ideal location(s). If not, I'll have to skip the message request.
Thank you for reading!
Marriage and family are important to me — both personally and culturally. My family hopes I’ll marry (someone 186cm+) and have children, and I’m genuinely open to building something real with the right person. I’m open-minded about personality and background — what matters most is integrity, kindness, and being serious about partnership. If you’re someone who also sees marriage as a meaningful goal rather than a casual idea, we may align.
I’m a tall, well-kept and conventionally-attractive Black woman. Single because I’m an autistic lady who prefers travel (currently wintering in SE Asia) and time alone over masking.
If you’re kind, emotionally steady, serious about partnership, and happen to live at a slightly higher altitude, please DM a short introduction including your favourite weather temperature, age, height, current vs ideal location(s).
Thank you for reading
Marriage and family are important to me — both personally and culturally. My family hopes I’ll marry (someone 186cm+) and have children, and I’m genuinely open to building something real with the right person. I’m open-minded about personality and background — what matters most is integrity, kindness, and being serious about partnership. If you’re someone who also sees marriage as a meaningful goal rather than a casual idea, we may align.
I’m a well-kept and conventionally-attractive Black woman. Single because I’m an autistic lady who prefers travel (just wintered in SE Asia) and time alone over masking.
If you’re kind, emotionally steady, serious about partnership, and happen to live at a slightly higher altitude, please DM a short introduction including the most absurd thing that would improve your life, age, height, current vs ideal location(s).
Thank you for reading!
This is a search for a life partner, not a casual connection.
I value emotional intimacy, partnership, and shared purpose over sexual emphasis. A stable, long-term union that moves toward children within the next few years is the goal. Clarity and follow-through matter.
Background in brief:
Looking for a man who:
Geography can be solved. Timing and seriousness cannot.
If you’re aligned and prefer building something intentional rather than experimental, no need to comment here. Feel free to message with a short introduction including the name of this subreddit, your favourite dessert, age, height, current vs ideal location(s).
Thank you for reading!
Is the spray nozzle unique? Is the bottle refillable? Could I put baby powder or other powders in there? Or is the formula specific to the bottle?
I was looking for a way to spray baby powder on the go, but this bottled product was the only one one I could find. Open to other suggestions
EDIT: product in question https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B17NB28N/ref=emc_bcc_2_i
Am I not representing information overload of chats well? Many skipped over important details in my search (being taller than me at 186cm, wanting to marry, wanting kids, enjoying travel), and I'm getting cussed out for suggesting a questionnaire to check if we're aligned. Despite noting throughout, that full legal names aren't needed, and that no information would ever be shared with anyone - not even the person filling out in case we married - I'm being accused of speaking like AI (not out of the ordinary for me) or being a scammer (new complaint to me).
>I'm struggling to keep up with mismatched conversations after so many didn't read my post to the end. Would you mind filling out the questionnaire in the landing page in my profile?
I put up personal search posts, and the majority of people didn't read them to the end. At the end I included a request for a neat thing (e.g. "if you want to connect, DM a belief you used to have that now feels embarrassing, your age, your current vs ideal locations."), that almost no one included. The failure of that test now has my inbox full of messages from men shorter than me, from f-bois and marriage-haters, from folks who wish to remain child free, from folks who do not travel, and from bored folks looking to waste time on their lunch hour - all of which I'm supposed to filter with small talk even though it's my weakness. Keeping track is daunting, and potentially quality people might slip through the cracks. I tried posting questions in the chat for those who preferred that, and they just skipped questions marked important, answered long-form for simple questions, misordered, or did nothing.
How do I ask people nicely to fill out the questionnaire? It's difficult to tell if I'm being cussed out by time wasters who dislike my boundary, or if my boundary is to excessive.
This is a search for a life partner, not a casual connection.
I value emotional intimacy, partnership, and shared purpose over sexual emphasis. A stable, long-term union that moves toward children within the next few years is the goal. Clarity and follow-through matter.
Background in brief:
Looking for a man who:
Geography can be solved. Timing and seriousness cannot.
If you’re aligned and prefer building something intentional rather than experimental, feel free to message with a short introduction including your favourite dessert, age, height, current vs ideal location(s).
Thank you for reading!
Marriage and family are important to me — both personally and culturally. My family hopes I’ll marry (someone 186cm+) and have children, and I’m genuinely open to building something real with the right person. I’m open-minded about personality and background — what matters most is integrity, kindness, and being serious about partnership. If you’re someone who also sees marriage as a meaningful goal rather than a casual idea, we may align.
I’m a well-kept and conventionally-attractive Black woman. Single because I’m an autistic lady who prefers travel (just wintered in SE Asia) and time alone over masking.
If you’re kind, emotionally steady, serious about partnership, and happen to live at a slightly higher altitude, please DM a short introduction including the most absurd thing that would improve your life, age, height, current vs ideal location(s).
Thank you for reading!
Marriage and family are important to me — both personally and culturally. My family hopes I’ll marry (someone 186cm+) and have children, and I’m genuinely open to building something real with the right person. I’m open-minded about personality and background — what matters most is integrity, kindness, and being serious about partnership. If you’re someone who also sees marriage as a meaningful goal rather than a casual idea, we may align.
I’m a tall, well-kept and conventionally-attractive Black woman. Single because I’m an autistic lady who prefers travel (currently wintering in SE Asia) and time alone over masking.
If you’re kind, emotionally steady, serious about partnership, and happen to live at a slightly higher altitude, please DM a short introduction including your favourite weather temperature, age, height, current vs ideal location(s).
Thank you for reading
This is a search for a life partner, not a casual connection.
I value emotional intimacy, partnership, and shared purpose over sexual emphasis. A stable, long-term union that moves toward children within the next few years is the goal. Clarity and follow-through matter.
Background in brief:
* Well-kept, conventionally attractive, tall (so 186cm+ is important), Black woman Digitally mobile, currently wintering in SEA, globally lived
* Independent, structured, future-oriented
Looking for a man who:
* Is genuinely ready for long-term commitment
* Wants children and understands that conception does not need to be conventional
* Is emotionally steady, consistent, and enjoys cuddling
Geography can be solved. Timing and seriousness cannot.
If you’re aligned and prefer building something intentional rather than experimental, feel free to message with a short introduction including your favourite beverage, age, height, current vs ideal location(s).
Thank you for reading!