u/Dadiable36

Bonjour, actuellement je suis saisonnière à Cannes et mon employeur a proposé de me loger à l’année. Je suis originaire de Strasbourg de base.

J’aimerais savoir un peu comment c’est de vivre ici toute l’année. L’été ça à l’air très animé mais l’hiver ?

Socialement je ne me suis pas encore fais de groupe d’ami mais je pense que ça viendra avec le temps mais je sais pas j’ai peur d’un peu m’ennuyer avec le temps.

C’est quand même une ville plus petite que Strasbourg et comme je ne compte pas travailler toute ma vie en restauration j’ai peur d’après avoir un peu de mal à trouver une autre voie.

Qu’en pensez vous ?

Hello!! Je m’appelle Océane je serais à Cannes pour 2 mois voir +, de base je suis de Strasbourg, j’aimerais faire des rencontres amicales dans cette belle ville le temps que j’y suis!!

Salut à tous !

Je prévois d'emménager à Toulouse très prochainement et je viens y passer quelques jours à la fin du mois d'août pour démarcher et passer des entretiens en service en salle.

J'ai déjà pas mal d'expérience dans le métier, mais ne connaissant pas encore parfaitement le terrain toulousain, j'aimerais bien échanger avec des personnes qui travaillent (ou ont travaillé) dans la restauration ici.

Si certains d'entre vous bossent en salle ou en gestion :

• Quels sont les groupes, brasseries ou quartiers sympas où ça recrute bien en ce moment ?

• Des adresses/ambiances à recommander (ou au contraire des pièges à éviter) ?

• Si jamais vos établissements cherchent du monde pour la rentrée de septembre, je suis preneuse de tuyaux !

Mercii

Bonjour, j’emménage début septembre à Toulouse, sur un coup de tête, j’ai déjà trouvé le logement, j’envisage de trouver un travail sur place une fois arrivé. Je suis de Strasbourg ici à chaque fois que j’ai voulu trouver du travail (dans la restauration en général) j’ai toujours trouvé en 1/2 jours, je me demande donc si c’est sûrement la même chose là-bas? Surtout en septembre avec la reprise des cours beaucoup d’étudiants vont partir.

Aussi si vous avez des conseils a donné à quelqu’un qui arrive bientôt là-bas je suis preneuse!

I haven't had a consultation with a maxillofacial surgeon yet, but one of my motivations for potentially pursuing double jaw surgery is related to my posture.

I believe I may have a recessed chin and jaws, and I've always had a forward head posture. I also have a noticeable bony hump at the base of my neck. One thing I've noticed is that when I try to stand completely upright, I sometimes feel like it's a little harder to breathe than when my head is positioned further forward.

Because of this, I'm wondering whether my posture could be a compensation for a restricted airway. For those who have had double jaw surgery with advancement, did you notice any changes in your posture afterward? Did the increased airway space make it easier or more natural to keep your head and neck in a more upright position?

I'd be interested to hear about your experiences.

I feel like everything is wrong with my face, I don’t really have good features at all. My lips, my nose, my eyelids all have something wrong/not attractive to it, and I do need double jaw surgery because both my jaws are recessed.

I feel like I should go with double jaws surgery first because it’s what can make the most difference, as well as a rhinoplasty, and then I should tackle the other issues.

I know that I don’t likely nose, lips eyes etc… and I wan’t to change them but I don’t know what would suit me, I feel like I should let the surgeon chose maybe ? Honestly no idea.

I’m in a pretty particular situation. My (kinda ex) boyfriend didn’t technically cheat on me, but right before we got together when we had already confessed our feelings to each other and everything (it was complicated because we worked together and I didn’t wan’t to have a relationship with a coworker because usually it ends badly, well it made things even worse lmao), we weren’t officially together,and during that time he was seeing another girl for about two months.

During those two months, he told me he hated me, compared me to her, gave me false hope, etc. I don’t want to go into every detail, but it honestly messed me up mentally.

Eventually he came back to me for some reasonthat idk and we’ve been together for six months now (huge mistake, I know, but thankfully it’s ending). I even quit my job because I felt humiliated. All our coworkers knew we were really close, and everyone saw him flirting with the new girl. Everyone saw how sad I was at work, and I didn’t want to keep working with her there, so I decided to resign.

To make a long story short, I’ve been deeply unhappy ever since we got together.

She’s prettier than me, and since he came back to me, I don’t even know why. I feel like the “safe choice,” because she’s more carefree / frivolous, so I feel like he came back simply because I was the safer option for something serious. Before he met her, I know he genuinely loved me, but after her… I don’t know. I feel like a placeholder, like the less attractive girl he thought he could maybe build a stable future with.

At the beginning of the relationship, when I asked him to add me back on Instagram, he refused. I ended up having a huge breakdown over it because I was jealous and because he clearly didn’t want me to see that he was still following her instead of simply blocking or removing her while he was supposedly with me.

At first, he also wanted to hide our relationship from everyone.

I could honestly write a whole novel about the things he said that hurt me. One night when I said I didn’t want to cook, he said that she would have cooked for him. When I said I wasn’t ready for marriage, he told me she was ready to get married and have children. He refused to show me their conversations. He even lied to me, swearing on his mother’s life that he didn’t have her on Snapchat, and later I found out he actually did, and that she had sent him pictures.

Since then, I’ve become extremely jealous. I cry every day and constantly compare myself to her, even though we’re completely different people. Normally I’m not a jealous person at all.

The worst part is that I feel stuck with him. I don’t even know why I decided to get into a relationship with him after all of this I was sad and felt like if I didn’t sleep with him he would continue to pursue her, I just wanted to be confortable in the job I used to like so much. It was a mistake. But he had to leave his apartment, and now he’s staying with me until he finds another place.

I want to know how I can move forward even while he’s still living here.

I think about it every single day, all day long. Sometimes even one simple word can remind me of something he said to her or something he said to me.

I really hate becoming jealous like this. I already didn’t have much self-confidence, and all of this completely destroyed it.

I started a new job, and even in conversations with my new coworkers I can feel this lack of confidence in myself. I swear it feels like mental torture. I constantly think about what she has that I don’t and how I can improve myself.

How can I move on with my life and stop obsessing over this while he’s still living with me? I can’t just kick him out because he’d literally end up homeless.

I resent him so much that during arguments I’ve insulted him, and I’ve even slapped him before, especially when I catch him lying. He has never hit me except once, after I told him how deeply hurt I was by the fact that he refused to add me on Instagram. Instead of just adding me, he kept saying he would simply delete Instagram entirely. I didn’t even know he had followed her at one point, but he kept talking about deleting the app and it drove me crazy because I couldn’t understand why he didn’t just want to add me normally but it was just because he didn’t want to delete her.

I know I’m being extremely toxic too because I constantly want to question him, I argue with him everyday about this, constantly text him to tell him how angry I am and how much I hate and resent him.

This is the first time I’ve ever been like this in a relationship and I hate it, especially the fact that I sometimes want to hit him.

I know the solution is simply for him to move out, but that’s not possible right now. And even after that, I know my self-confidence will still be destroyed mentally. What can I do?

TL;DR: My boyfriend didn’t technically cheat, but before we got together he pursued another girl, compared me to her, lied to me, and made me feel humiliated. We still ended up dating, but the relationship destroyed my self-esteem and turned me into an anxious, jealous person I don’t recognize anymore. He currently lives with me, so I feel stuck and don’t know how to move on mentally.

I have the possibility to get one of these 2, which one would you choose?

Budget: Around 200€

Country: France

Condition: Used

Type of Camera: Compact point-and-shoot

Intended use: Everyday carry, travel, street photography, social media

If photography; what style: Mostly aesthetic/travel/street photos, city shots, cafés, museums, low light/night photos, casual portraits

If video what style: Not very important, mostly photo-focused

What features do you absolutely need: Good image quality, compact size, decent low light performance, nice colors/rendering

Portability: Very important, I want something pocketable

Cameras you're considering: Canon PowerShot S95 and Canon SX260 HS

Cameras you already have: iPhone 13

Budget: Around 200€ used, maybe up to 250€ max if it’s really worth it

Country: France

Condition: Used

Type of Camera: I honestly don’t know, I’m a complete beginner

Intended use: Mostly photography / everyday photos / travel / friends / scenery

If photography; what style: I mainly care about beautiful vibrant colors and a nice overall look straight out of the camera, also if possible good in low light

If video what style: Not important

What features do you absolutely need: Good colors without needing editing, decent sharpness, preferably okay in low light

Portability: Preferably not too big, but not a dealbreaker

Cameras you're considering: none for the moment

Cameras you already have: iPhone 13

Notes:

I know absolutely NOTHING about cameras or photography, so sorry if my expectations don’t make sense for this budget.

The main thing I care about is colors. When I take pictures with my iPhone, the colors often end up looking kind of flat/faded to me, and I’d really like something that gives more vibrant/nicer colors naturally straight out of the camera.

I’m also very bad at editing and I’ve basically never done photo retouching in my life, so I’d prefer something that already looks good immediately without needing Lightroom/Photoshop/etc.

I might learn editing later on, but right now I just want something simple that makes photos look pretty naturally.

If possible, I’d also like decent low-light performance, but I don’t know if that’s realistic in this price range.

Thank you!