I became blonde today... did I cook or get cooked? πŸ”₯

I made a post about a month ago asking for color advice and the entire world was basically screaming at me to stay dark. Needless to say, I did not obey... sorry but I love my new look ❀

I've never done lowlights before but I'm so excited to try it so I'd like some advice on tone, intensity and consistency. Also like foil vs balayage? Let me hear it!

u/DeppeJ β€” 2 months ago
β–² 442 r/Transcars

STORY: My biggest flex as a girl will forever be fixing my own car(s)

Image context: Serpentine belt tore off on neighbors sh*t box, seized alternator pulley

My dad was a professional mechanic for Plymouth back in the day when I was a kiddo. He would show me all the tools around his shop and he even let me work on cars with him during weekends and breaks. I think we were rebalancing a drive shaft or something like that when he suddenly looked at me with a really serious expression. At first I was like "oh no what did I do??" But his voice was very calm, and he told me "Son... women love a real handyman. How do you think I pulled your mother? Just trust me on this one and the rest will happen naturally..." he smiled at me and went back to working. At that exact moment, he probably for real thought that he was shaping my entire future just like his father had done to him a generation prior. Unfortunately, we don't really talk anymore...

Sorry dad πŸ˜…
Sincerely, your daughter πŸŽ€β€

u/DeppeJ β€” 3 months ago
β–² 1.1k r/RoastMe

29F at work. Fucking bring it Reddit πŸ”₯

u/DeppeJ β€” 3 months ago
β–² 23 r/OUTFITS

Princess of darkness πŸ–€

Nothing special, just something casual for a day off

u/DeppeJ β€” 3 months ago
β–² 1.9k r/orangecats

Found this distinguished gentleman while out for a walk

Yeah.. I should've known what was coming with that facial expression πŸ˜‚
Collar had no name tag on it and he wasn't too friendly unfortunately
God speed little orange fella

u/DeppeJ β€” 3 months ago
β–² 38 r/Nightshift

Confused citizen thought our data center was the county jail

Short but sweet one for ya. I'm on the maintenance/operations team at a local data center where we have 24/7 on-site security. We usually step over to the surveillance room during really quiet nights just to have a chat with security (it makes their nights go by faster as well, they appreciate us, we appreciate them). The guards observed a suspicious indvidual through the cameras near the main gate to the complex and time was about 2am. She sort of just paced back and forth for a few minutes until they decided to go out and investigate so we left them be and went on with our tasks.

About an hour later they joined up with up us in the cafeteria and I was literally fighting to stay awake at that point. They came in giggling to themselves and we were like "what have you done now?" They went "oh that woman at the gates? Yeah we approached her and the convo went like this: G=Guards, W=Woman

G: Hello! Security! What's the purpose of your visit?
W: He-hey, I'm he-here to drop off clothes for m-my son, he's supposed to be here
G: *Confused and looking at eachother* What's his name?
W: *states his name*
G: There's no one working here by that name, ma'am
W: No no no he doesn't work here. He was taken into... custody
G: *Even more confused and looking at eachother* Custody?!
W: Yeah... this is the jail, right?

So, apparently the data center looks too much like our local county jail which is just further down the same dead-end street πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ That kept me awake for the rest of the shift

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u/DeppeJ β€” 3 months ago
β–² 792 r/OUTFITS

Never too early to start building your fall collection πŸ‚

#AmIRight?

u/DeppeJ β€” 4 months ago
β–² 2 r/Nightshift

New to nightshifts, need advice on resetting the day/night cycle

As the title says, I'm pretty new to working nights and I need solid advice on how to effectively switch from day to night and night to day. I'm really tired through the nightshifts even towards the end of the rotation so idk what I'm doing wrong as I'm getting the right amount of hours of sleep. I do shift rotations day/night with a few days off inbetween but it's not on a regular schedule.

Yeah I know that everyone's different and what might work for you might not work for me etc but I still want to hear what everyone's routine is for setting and resetting yourselves from day to night and vice versa. I still want to have a functioning social life when I have the days off 😊 Thanks

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u/DeppeJ β€” 4 months ago

Should I go lighter?

I'm a natural very dark brown almost black and want to switch it up for something lighter over the summer but idk what would work because of my dark base. Been looking at a light ash brown or even like natural red/orange. Maybe a bit blonde? Added a few pics with my style

u/DeppeJ β€” 4 months ago
β–² 1.2k r/femalefashion

Hi, I'm Marty from Madagascar πŸ¦“

Why yes I'd like to star in the next movie thank you

u/DeppeJ β€” 4 months ago
β–² 17 r/malenails

Lady press-on tried doing soft gels

How'd I do? Feels like they're just a little rough around the cuticles

u/DeppeJ β€” 4 months ago
β–² 19 r/findapath

29F stuck with a dead end job looking for something meaningful

Hey! So yeah, as the title suggests...
I graduated college with a bachelors in computer science. My first ever job before and after graduating was at a gas station which funnily enough made me realize that I never ever want to work in a store again. I decided that I needed to make good use of my degree and started applying to IT companies and eventually got onboarded with a big international one where I still work today (I'd rather not give names, thanks). I started off as a trainee within customer support but also helped some teams out with cyber-security projects on the side as that's what I found interesting during college. An opening for a trainee-role in UX appeared so I applied and got it. I worked that field for about 2 years but wanted to try something new again. I heard that the company was looking for workers to their 24/7 server maintenance and response team. I was like "omg I really want to try this, it sounds so cool!" The odd hours and night shifts seemed different and would probably provide a interesting contrast from what I had been doing... I thought to myself.

So that's my current role, working shifts with a 4-person team and the actual work itself is so boring you wouldn't believe. Most of the time we just sit around watching some monitors flash and doing our rounds in the rack halls every few hours. Stuff rarely breaks but when it does it's not really that eventful at all. (We had very small "thermal event" once, that got my adrenaline pumping) The hours are nice though... I really needed to switch it up from working my regular 9 to 5 Mon-Fri.

However, I've recently found that I don't want to work in IT at all. I'm abroad atm on company PTO but I'm really dreading getting back on that plane because I just know that I'll be back to that predictable enclosed workplace. And to link back to the title... it's a dead end. I'm so done with everything that IT work brings that I almost want to puke just thinking about it. The pay is good but that's literally about it for me. My only degrees and certs are within IT so idk what I could do that aren't entry-level jobs while still trying to fill the cracks between what I like about my current job and what I need in a new job... while not needing a brand new 2-4 year education. I'm from Maine, US.

Basically, I need a massive change of scenery or else HR might hunt me down soon lol
(For legal reasons, that last part was a joke... maybe)

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u/DeppeJ β€” 4 months ago
β–² 232 r/happy

4 years with babe celebrated in Cabo San Lucas ❀

u/DeppeJ β€” 4 months ago
β–² 13 r/adhdwomen

"I'm taking a break from sociala media for a few days..."

"... she foolishly told herself while scrolling and updating Reddit."

No like seriously what kind of dark sourcery do other people possess?😭
I promise that it'll be back in my hand again barely FIVE minutes after posting this and I won't even realize that I'm doing it again, and again... and again

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u/DeppeJ β€” 4 months ago
β–² 2.1k r/femalefashion

How do I complete this outfit?

Lemme tell ya that I felt way waaaaaay out of my comfort zone for a few hours with this look but it actually grew on me throughout the night and now I really feel like something is missing instead... any ideas on how to complete the look? I'm not done with it yet β€πŸ˜‚

u/DeppeJ β€” 4 months ago
β–² 1.6k r/mtfashion

Saturday club drip check πŸ”₯πŸ₯‚

Ma'am Dani broad-shoulder reporting for duty! πŸͺ– πŸ‡²πŸ‡½

u/DeppeJ β€” 4 months ago
β–² 44 r/transplace

Vacay!!! πŸ‡²πŸ‡½

Enjoying our ten day PTO in the best way possible πŸ‡²πŸ‡½ ❀❀
But hey, hear me out on this one... living as my truth authentic self brings so much genuine joy, peace, and beautiful moments that I wouldn't trade for anything in the world. Yet, even when everything feels like it's finally aligned, there are still quiet days where a familiar heavy shadow creeps back in making me feel slightly disconnected from my own skin. Things are just.. difficult sometimes, ya know.
Now excuse me while I drift away in my own thoughts as seen here.

See ya'll later! (Unless we get kidnapped by the cartel or something lol)

u/DeppeJ β€” 4 months ago