u/Dramatic-System3992

I can get along with intuitives well, but cant’t have a conversation with a sensor for more than an hour because it just gets boring.

Every time I take the test I get INTJ but I think I experience emotions and feelings very strongly.

Could I have been mistyped ?

The most selfish and inconsiderate type, I really hate that they get the stereotype of being kind and chill while they’re absolute psychos in real life
Avoid INFPs at all costs

We were getting along incredibly well and she seemed perfect for me. We had great conversations, easy chemistry, and no red flags or fights at all. Then out if nowhere and without any warning, she completely stopped responding.

Why do people ghost like this when things appear to be going great?

As an INTJ have never seen a type so unpredictable, not because they’re smart but because they are genuinely stupid, so incredibly stupid that they even don’t understand themselves.

Don’t approach INFP romantically and if one approaches you, run.

And if you’re already with an INFP, I suggest getting the hell out of there because something WILL happen, and it will be ugly. They are literally incapable of genuine companionship, empathy, and basic communication.

It’s up to you.

We keep getting told how wholesome and cute INFPs are and they’re constantly portrayed as these gentle, peace loving hippies think Bob Marley Keanu Reeves wholesome energy, you know just floating through life with flowers in their hair and unconditional unlimited love for everyone. LMFAO give me a break. They’re absolute hateful judgemental psychopaths who refuse to listen to any arguments from the other side.

We ENTPs have a reputation of being insensitive and arrogant but I have literally never met someone as insensitive and arrogant as INFP… just vindictive , selfish, and insanely petty and will literally go out of their way to hurt you if you cross them (or even if you mildly inconvenience their feelings). I met one recently and holy shit I’ve never encountered someone so self-absorbed its actually crazy

I really don’t like judging whole groups of people but if you meet an INFP just run as far away as possible because they are insanely evil and have such negative energy and it will affect you and trust me, it’s not cute at all

Hey everyone,
I’m about to move into a new apartment that’s located directly on a busy roundabout. (I’ll be on the second floor) The entrance is visible to drivers and pedestrians passing by.

On one hand, I think the high visibility could be a plus cause lots of “eyes on the street” might deter burglars since it’s harder for them to act without being noticed. But on the other hand, I’m a bit worried that shady people could easily observe my comings and goings, learn my schedule, and target me when I’m away.

Has anyone lived in a similar highly visible spot? How was it?

Hey everyone,
I’m only 24 but I’ve started getting really bothered by a frown line (the “11s”) between my eyebrows. It’s not super deep (most people probably don’t even notice it) but I can clearly see it when I’m relaxing my face or looking in certain lighting. The worst part is that it’s slowly getting worse over the last year or so. Every time I catch it in the mirror it ruins my mood.

I’ve been looking into Frownies (those little wrinkle patches you wear at night). Has anyone actually had good results with them? Do they help prevent or soften the line at all, or is it mostly placebo?

I’ve also been considering Botox, but I’m pretty hesitant. I’ve heard it only lasts 2-3 months max for a lot of people, especially the first time, and I’m not sure I want to spend that money every few months.

Has anyone in their early/mid 20s dealt with this? Did you start preventive Botox and think it was worth it, or should I just stick to skincare, sunscreen, and Frownies for now?

Thanks! 😔

Would you date one or are they "too much" for you?

A few months ago this girl my age joined our team and we just clicked instantly. We had pretty much everything in common, same dumb humor, same music taste, same random niche interests, same way of seeing the world etc, I’ve never connected with someone that quickly or that deeply, even outside of work

We’d talk nonstop about mbti, life, plans,stupid things, everything, drink coffee and eat snacks together, take our smoke breaks together (even if one of us didn’t actually need one), and the workday actually flew by. It genuinely felt like I’d found a real friend, not just a “work friend.”

She left yesterday. Today I sat down at our desk (well, my desk now) and it just hit me hard. Her side is completely cleared out. No more random snacks she’d share, no more jokes, no more “let’s step out for a smoke”. The whole area feels quiet and empty in a way I wasn’t ready for.

I know it’s “just a work thing” and life moves on, but man… it sucks. Especially as an introvert who has difficulty finding relatable people to be friends with. I didn’t realize how much I looked forward to seeing her every day until she wasn’t there anymore.

If you’ve ever had a coworker who became a real friend and then they left, how did you deal with it? Did the empty-desk feeling ever go away?

A few months ago this girl my age joined our team and we just clicked instantly. We had pretty much everything in common, same dumb humor, same music taste, same random niche interests, same way of seeing the world etc, I’ve never connected with someone that quickly or that deeply, even outside of work

We’d talk nonstop about life, plans,stupid things, everything, drink coffee and eat snacks together, take our smoke breaks together (even if one of us didn’t actually need one), and the workday actually flew by. It genuinely felt like I’d found a real friend, not just a “work friend.”

She left yesterday. Today I sat down at our desk (well, my desk now) and it just hit me hard. Her side is completely cleared out. No more random snacks she’d share, no more jokes, no more “let’s step out for a smoke”. The whole area feels quiet and empty in a way I wasn’t ready for.

I know it’s “just a work thing” and life moves on, but man… it sucks. Especially as an introvert who has difficulty finding relatable people to be friends with. I didn’t realize how much I looked forward to seeing her every day until she wasn’t there anymore.

If you’ve ever had a coworker who became a real friend and then they left, how did you deal with it? Did the empty-desk feeling ever go away?

I was being scolded and yelled at today at work in front of everyone by a (ENFJ) higher rank coworker over a mistake that honestly could’ve been discussed calmly and privately, the whole room just went dead silent while I sat there feeling humiliated. What really got to me was the fact that nobody else said a word except this one INTJ coworker, he told him he was unnecessarily harsh and that’s not the way to speak with people

It’s strange because INTJs get stereotyped as cold and unempathetic but he was literally the only person who stepped in while the “people-oriented” types stayed silent

That was very nice of him

Salut, je viens de trouver un logement à 520 € hors charges, avec eau et électricité à ma consommation. Le logement est tout électrique (chauffage + eau chaude compris). Je gagne 1600 € net par mois, je vis seule sans enfant.
Comme c’est la première fois que je vais déménager seule j’ai un peu peur des charges, surtout l’hiver, et je me demande si c’est raisonnable pour mon budget. Sans APL, avec des charges estimées entre 70 et 100 € par mois, ça ferait environ 600 € au total, soit autour de 37 % de mes revenus, ce qui me semble un peu serré. Du coup le loyer effectif descendrait autour de 380-430 € + charges, soit 450-530 € tout compris.
Ceux qui sont dans une situation similaire (tout électrique avec un salaire autour de 1500-1700 €), vous en êtes où niveau charges réelles ? Est-ce que l’APL tombe relativement rapidement et sans trop de galère? Avez-vous des conseils pour limiter la consommation électrique (isolation, heures creuses, etc.)? Globalement, vous valideriez ce genre de logement ou vous me conseilleriez de continuer à chercher?
Merci!

What is it like, being homosexual in Russia ?

And why

It’s a common idea among right wingers. That and that homosexual men didn’t have a good male role model/father. I’m gay and I’ve had a healthy childhood and good relationship with my father. I just happen to prefer men? Someone please explain