u/DustApprehensive2713

hi so i have a girlfriend (obviously). we were both very inexperienced when we met each other, but she moves faster than me and has already fingered me before & gave hickeys and basically just touches me in any way. anytime we get intimate it’s always her doing those things, the most i do is touch and kiss.

i want to do what she does to me but i think what stops me is the fear of messing up and making mistakes & feeling embarrassed. as for now she’s more experienced than me since she’s always doing it so now i just feel like i’ll embarrass myself, which is why i think im a “pillow princess” (unsure if that’s the correct term though sorry for my ignorance).

i don’t know how to get over this and i need help from any one please.

she never says she expects anything from me nor does she act a way but i do get scared she’ll wanna leave me because i don’t reciprocate. however i think that’s just me overthinking but i just have a fear i literally can’t. and it’s not trauma or anything

pls be kind and give advice <3

hi so i have a girlfriend (obviously). we were both very inexperienced when we met each other, but she moves faster than me and has already fingered me before & gave hickeys and basically just touches me in any way. anytime we get intimate it’s always her doing those things, the most i do is touch and kiss.

i want to do what she does to me but i think what stops me is the fear of messing up and making mistakes & feeling embarrassed. as for now she’s more experienced than me since she’s always doing it so now i just feel like i’ll embarrass myself, which is why i think im a “pillow princess” (unsure if that’s the correct term though sorry for my ignorance).

i don’t know how to get over this and i need help from any one please.

she never says she expects anything from me nor does she act a way but i do get scared she’ll wanna leave me because i don’t reciprocate. however i think that’s just me overthinking but i just have a fear i literally can’t. and it’s not trauma or anything

pls be kind and give advice <3

ive always wanted to dye my hair but i am scared of the damage. i dont want to lose any hair or anything. like stated above i have 4b/4c hair, hella hair. id like to keep it all.

how do you guys safely dye it without changing your pattern whilst keeping it hydrated? thank you.

any brand names, methods, anything helps.

I had a rough sexual experience a couple days ago (on and off fingering for ~20 minutes with a lot of pressure and multiple orgasms/squirting). I didn’t pee for a few hours after.

About 1–2 days later I started feeling bladder pressure, mild cramping, bloating, and a sore/irritated feeling in my lower pelvis, kind of like when you hold your pee for too long and it feels sore afterward. No severe burning yet, but some discomfort and “full bladder” sensation.

I’m trying hydration, cranberry juice, and ibuprofen for now. I’m wondering if this sounds more like irritation from friction/overstimulation vs an early UTI, and how long symptoms usually last in cases like this

I had a rough sexual experience a couple days ago (on and off fingering for ~20 minutes with a lot of pressure and multiple orgasms/squirting). I didn’t pee for a few hours after.

About 1–2 days later I started feeling bladder pressure, mild cramping, bloating, and a sore/irritated feeling in my lower pelvis, kind of like when you hold your pee for too long and it feels sore afterward. No severe burning yet, but some discomfort and “full bladder” sensation.

I’m trying hydration, cranberry juice, and ibuprofen for now. I’m wondering if this sounds more like irritation from friction/overstimulation vs an early UTI, and how long symptoms usually last in cases like this

I had a rough sexual experience a couple days ago (on and off fingering for ~20 minutes with a lot of pressure and multiple orgasms/squirting). I didn’t pee for a few hours after.

About 1–2 days later I started feeling bladder pressure, mild cramping, bloating, and a sore/irritated feeling in my lower pelvis, kind of like when you hold your pee for too long and it feels sore afterward. No severe burning yet, but some discomfort and “full bladder” sensation.

I’m trying hydration, cranberry juice, and ibuprofen for now. I’m wondering if this sounds more like irritation from friction/overstimulation vs an early UTI, and how long symptoms usually last in cases like this

I had a rough sexual experience a couple days ago (on and off fingering for ~20 minutes with a lot of pressure and multiple orgasms/squirting). I didn’t pee for a few hours after.

About 1–2 days later I started feeling bladder pressure, mild cramping, bloating, and a sore/irritated feeling in my lower pelvis, kind of like when you hold your pee for too long and it feels sore afterward. No severe burning yet, but some discomfort and “full bladder” sensation.

I’m trying hydration, cranberry juice, and ibuprofen for now. I’m wondering if this sounds more like irritation from friction/overstimulation vs an early UTI, and how long symptoms usually last in cases like this

I had a rough sexual experience a couple days ago (on and off fingering for ~20 minutes with a lot of pressure and multiple orgasms/squirting). I didn’t pee for a few hours after.

About 1–2 days later I started feeling bladder pressure, mild cramping, bloating, and a sore/irritated feeling in my lower pelvis, kind of like when you hold your pee for too long and it feels sore afterward. No severe burning yet, but some discomfort and “full bladder” sensation.

I’m trying hydration, cranberry juice, and ibuprofen for now. I’m wondering if this sounds more like irritation from friction/overstimulation vs an early UTI, and how long symptoms usually last in cases like this

I had a rough sexual experience a couple days ago (on and off fingering for ~20 minutes with a lot of pressure and multiple orgasms/squirting). I didn’t pee for a few hours after.

About 1–2 days later I started feeling bladder pressure, mild cramping, bloating, and a sore/irritated feeling in my lower pelvis, kind of like when you hold your pee for too long and it feels sore afterward. No severe burning yet, but some discomfort and “full bladder” sensation.

I’m trying hydration, cranberry juice, and ibuprofen for now. I’m wondering if this sounds more like irritation from friction/overstimulation vs an early UTI, and how long symptoms usually last in cases like this