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I don't know what to do. I know im trans, genderfluid/bigender and bisexual. My family is unsupportive. I'm not going to be kicked out/in danger, but i've tried many times to come out as queer and trans, and they've basically brushed it off, and said they'd get a therapist for me because they didn't know what to do. They found out I went by a different name at work and school and they got very upset and staged an intervention. I will say, the intervention snapped me out of my spiral, but it didn't stop me being trans or queer. If I do get HRT and/or top surgery, I wouldn't know how/if to tell them because I feel like they'd try to stop me or tell me its a mistake, but I feel like I'd be going behind their backs, like I did when I used a different name without them knowing. I'm 18 in about a year, so I have time to get onto the waitlist for HRT and top surgery. I don't have my license yet, but when I do, I can go to the GP when/if I need to by myself. I'm not 1000% sure about HRT or Top surgery, so im researching to see pros, cons and info. sucks bc im also genderfluid/bigender. Advice/thoughts? No hate in the replies please

I don't know what to do. I know im trans, genderfluid/bigender and bisexual. My family is unsupportive. I'm not going to be kicked out/in danger, but i've tried many times to come out as queer and trans, and they've basically brushed it off, and said they'd get a therapist for me because they didn't know what to do. They found out I went by a different name at work and school and they got very upset and staged an intervention. I will say, the intervention snapped me out of my spiral, but it didn't stop me being trans or queer. If I do get HRT and/or top surgery, I wouldn't know how/if to tell them because I feel like they'd try to stop me or tell me its a mistake, but I feel like I'd be going behind their backs, like I did when I used a different name without them knowing. I'm 18 in about a year, so I have time to get onto the waitlist for HRT and top surgery. I don't have my license yet, but when I do, I can go to the GP when/if I need to by myself. I'm not 1000% sure about HRT or Top surgery, so im researching to see pros, cons and info. sucks bc im also genderfluid/bigender. Advice/thoughts? No hate in the replies please

I don't know what to do. I know im trans, genderfluid/bigender and bisexual. My family is unsupportive. I'm not going to be kicked out/in danger, but i've tried many times to come out as queer and trans, and they've basically brushed it off, and said they'd get a therapist for me because they didn't know what to do. They found out I went by a different name at work and school and they got very upset and staged an intervention. I will say, the intervention snapped me out of my spiral, but it didn't stop me being trans or queer. If I do get HRT and/or top surgery, I wouldn't know how/if to tell them because I feel like they'd try to stop me or tell me its a mistake, but I feel like I'd be going behind their backs, like I did when I used a different name without them knowing. I'm 18 in about a year, so I have time to get onto the waitlist for HRT and top surgery. I don't have my license yet, but when I do, I can go to the GP when/if I need to by myself. I'm not 1000% sure about HRT or Top surgery, so im researching to see pros, cons and info. sucks bc im also genderfluid/bigender. Advice/thoughts? No hate in the replies please

I don't know what to do. I know im trans, genderfluid/bigender and bisexual. My family is unsupportive. I'm not going to be kicked out/in danger, but i've tried many times to come out as queer and trans, and they've basically brushed it off, and said they'd get a therapist for me because they didn't know what to do. They found out I went by a different name at work and school and they got very upset and staged an intervention. I will say, the intervention snapped me out of my spiral, but it didn't stop me being trans or queer. If I do get HRT and/or top surgery, I wouldn't know how/if to tell them because I feel like they'd try to stop me or tell me its a mistake, but I feel like I'd be going behind their backs, like I did when I used a different name without them knowing. I'm 18 in about a year, so I have time to get onto the waitlist for HRT and top surgery. I don't have my license yet, but when I do, I can go to the GP when/if I need to by myself. I'm not 1000% sure about HRT or Top surgery, so im researching to see pros, cons and info. sucks bc im also genderfluid/bigender. Advice/thoughts? No hate in the replies please

I'm genderfluid/bigender, but also identify as non-binary and trans. My family is supportive of my sexuality but not my gender.

I'm afab, but have/ have had gender envy of men and sometimes trans women (which is super weird bc I'm afab, and I don't to sound/be weird bc of this). This gender envy is from people such as Sam and Colby (ghost hunters), Noel Fielding, Rodrick Heffely, Loki, and the singers Dylan and Renee Rapp

I want to take T, but not full doses because I'm not 10000% a trans man. I don't know where to start. I'm underage, but in a year I can go through the process without needing parental consent. I don't know what to do and if I'm the only one feeling this way/in this situation. Advice please? No hate in the replies please xxx Thank you

Hey guys, I really like my friend, and I don't know what to do. We've known each other for a couple of years. We do soccer together (*cough* gay *cough*) and we always joke about how we are going to get a farm together when we're older, with a big veggie patch, lots of animals, and also a cafe with me cooking and her bossing me around when i bake (in a funny way, because that happened when we cooked together for school). I burnt her a cd with her fav artists, but also obvious songs like 'sparks fly', 'you belong with me', 'i love you always forever', 'i really like you', 'home' and songs by girl in red (not 'girls' though), and i'm giving it to her soon.

I also said "you should listen to girl in red" and she did and said she liked her music. We also call each other "darling" and "love" and we are sometimes touchy feely (hugs/arms over shoulders/leaning on one another). She's less mature (as in, innocent) and she's christian. I have mentioned non-directly that i like girls, but I don't remember her reply. she also hasn't had any crushes on guys (that I know of)

I also kinda like my other friend, who is a trans lesbian, because we always make deep eye contact (the 'look') when we speak to one another, and sometimes we look for a while and then both break eye contact, but i might be reading into it too much. She knows im bisexual and genderfluid/non-binary too.

I don't know if I'm making myself like either them or if there's something deeper, and i feel weird for liking two people (I'm not polyamorous). Please give advice and thank you xx (also, no hate in the replies please)

Hey guys, I really like my friend, and I don't know what to do. We've known each other for a couple of years. We do soccer together (*cough* gay *cough*) and we always joke about how we are going to get a farm together when we're older, with a big veggie patch, lots of animals, and also a cafe with me cooking and her bossing me around when i bake (in a funny way, because that happened when we cooked together for school). I burnt her a cd with her fav artists, but also obvious songs like 'sparks fly', 'you belong with me', 'i love you always forever', 'i really like you', 'home' and songs by girl in red (not 'girls' though), and i'm giving it to her soon.

I also said "you should listen to girl in red" and she did and said she liked her music. We also call each other "darling" and "love" and we are sometimes touchy feely (hugs/arms over shoulders/leaning on one another). She's less mature (as in, innocent) and she's christian. I have mentioned non-directly that i like girls, but I don't remember her reply. she also hasn't had any crushes on guys (that I know of)

I also kinda like my other friend, who is a trans lesbian, because we always make deep eye contact (the 'look') when we speak to one another, and sometimes we look for a while and then both break eye contact, but i might be reading into it too much. She knows im bisexual and genderfluid/non-binary too.

I don't know if I'm making myself like either them or if there's something deeper, and i feel weird for liking two people (I'm not polyamorous). Please give advice and thank you xx (also, no hate in the replies please)

Who am I? that is a question I've been asking myself for the last 9 months.

I constantly feel at war with myself with my gender identity. I know that it may change over time, and I'm okay with that. All I know is that I am not cis. I'm afab, but I haven't realised until last August that I'm trans or genderfluid. I've adopted both labels I guess, and I hate labels but I also feel lost without them. My family unfortunately aren't supportive, I think. They say they're accepting no matter what, but they dismiss my trans-ness when/if someone brings it up. I've been told maybe they need time and that they might need time to process. what in the world do i do?? I have queer friends which is great but I don't know know them well enough to speak about it. Oh my god and the gender envy I get is SOOOO annoying. Like, every guy I've had a crush on I usually also have gender envy. Some crushes have only been gender envy {I didn't know at the time though, until a guy I 'liked' cut his hair off and I was sad because I liked (*cough* wanted *cough*) his hair. I've been speaking to a counsellor which has been a lot of help. My fem and androgynus side wants to be presented sometimes, but I get so dysphoric, I end up wearing baggy T shirts instead. I also don't know how to tell my friends my preferred pronouns. Advice? (no hate in the replies please)

Who am I? that is a question I've been asking myself for the last 9 months.

I constantly feel at war with myself with my gender identity. I know that it may change over time, and I'm okay with that. All I know is that I am not cis. I'm afab, but I haven't realised until last August that I'm trans or genderfluid. I've adopted both labels I guess, and I hate labels but I also feel lost without them. My family unfortunately aren't supportive, I think. They say they're accepting no matter what, but they dismiss my trans-ness when/if someone brings it up. I've been told maybe they need time and that they might need time to process. what in the world do i do?? I have queer friends which is great but I don't know know them well enough to speak about it. Oh my god and the gender envy I get is SOOOO annoying. Like, every guy I've had a crush on I usually also have gender envy. Some crushes have only been gender envy {I didn't know at the time though, until a guy I 'liked' cut his hair off and I was sad because I liked (*cough* wanted *cough*) his hair. I've been speaking to a counsellor which has been a lot of help. My fem and androgynus side wants to be presented sometimes, but I get so dysphoric, I end up wearing baggy T shirts instead. I also don't know how to tell my friends my preferred pronouns. Advice? (no hate in the replies please)

Who am I? that is a question I've been asking myself for the last 9 months.

I constantly feel at war with myself with my gender identity. I know that it may change over time, and I'm okay with that. All I know is that I am not cis. I'm afab, but I haven't realised until last August that I'm trans or genderfluid. I've adopted both labels I guess, and I hate labels but I also feel lost without them. My family unfortunately aren't supportive, I think. They say they're accepting no matter what, but they dismiss my trans-ness when/if someone brings it up. I've been told maybe they need time and that they might need time to process. what in the world do i do?? I have queer friends which is great but I don't know know them well enough to speak about it. Oh my god and the gender envy I get is SOOOO annoying. Like, every guy I've had a crush on I usually also have gender envy. Some crushes have only been gender envy {I didn't know at the time though, until a guy I 'liked' cut his hair off and I was sad because I liked (*cough* wanted *cough*) his hair. I've been speaking to a counsellor which has been a lot of help. My fem and androgynus side wants to be presented sometimes, but I get so dysphoric, I end up wearing baggy T shirts instead. I also don't know how to tell my friends my preferred pronouns. Advice? (no hate in the replies please)