u/Erallone

eu to usando o mangadex e tem um manga q so tem em espanhol,eu uso o app google tradutor no modo camera do celular,mas é muito lento e cansativo ler assim

ambas somos mulheres🚺🚺 e qeremos algo casual

eu to pensando niso ou “oi gata ti achei muito bonita tbm busco algo casual”

ou “ oi gata vi teu perfil eu adoraria ser tua escrava sexual”ou

“oi gata teu cabelo é um sonho”

eu n tenho nenhuma experiência na cama,e so tivemos 2 encontros.Ambos so buscamos algo casual

ou fazem do jeito de vcs?

tipo pra fazer amizade/namoro/etc mas n esteja lotada de homens e qase nehuma mulher , q conversam 24h aponto de virar uma panelinha e qalqer mensagem util q você mande em busca de namoro/amizade seje “engolida”

sou mulher e vou ter minha primeira vez amanha mas sou muito timida e tapada ,qeria conselhos

tipo pra gente aprender melhor como conversar pra saber se nossas conversas sao normais e errada é a pessoa ou o contrário

uma pessoa veio falar comigo dizendo q normalmente n fala com gente sem ft mas gostou do meu humor,a gente ficou reclamando q ninguem da comunidade sabe puxar assunto ou desenvolver conversa e depois eu puxei assunto e a desgraca nem soube manter nenhum dos assuntos universais q puxei pqp ,parece q acabou de nascer

q venda vinho suave ou algum drink alcoólico q pareca fanta uva/fanta laranja?

(obs.:sou adulta mas n gosto do gosto de alcool mas pelo visto vou ter q beber)

First of all, why would I treat someone with so much affection when I’m already so open to the idea that, as soon as a slight lack of interest starts to appear, everything will change?

Second, friendships always seem to go the same way. The conversation flows for a while, and then it just becomes boring. I keep asking myself: how is that even possible? I find myself worrying about how long it’s going to last.

This year, there was a girl that I hadn’t had conversations like that with in a long time, and now it’s hard for us to have those conversations anymore, even though we never had any fights. I met my friend last year, but we barely talk anymore because most of our conversations just aren’t interesting, and I lost interest in him. In the end, that friendship also lasted only one year.

Last year, I also had another friendship, but I didn’t feel any chemistry, so it didn’t work out. The year before that, something similar happened. I had talked to two girls at the very beginning of the year, and they disappeared too. I had another friend, but she was one of those “and you?” people.

I don’t know what’s happening. This year I was so hopeful that I’d finally make a friend right at the beginning of the year. It’s like my memory gets erased, and I tell myself, “Making friends is super easy. You just didn’t manage it in previous years because you didn’t really try.” And then reality hits.

depois da escola é muito dificil fazer nvs amizades ainda mais qando você n bebe. Os poucos meios q tenho pra fazer amizad e nesses meios o pessoal n sabe desenvolver conversa nem puxam assunto de volta . sou muito carente e contato fisico é muito importante pra mim numa amizade,mas pra mim ter amigos virtuais ta sendo a unica opcao viavel

pqp vc pensa q qando mais velha fica mais capacidade tem pra fazer coisas basicas e de vivencia como socializar. Ai tu puxa assunto com a pessoa -q TBM qer amigar,é a PORRA de uma ADULTX e q DEU MATCH COM você -e ela parece q teve um derrame ,n puxa assunto e nem desenvolv assunto.

Eu puxo o assunto mais aberto e universal do mundo e a pessoa fica q nem uma retardada com “vdd” ”sim” “e você?” ,n tem porra nenhuma de hobbie e n consegue manter de jeito nenhum um assunto.Dar vontade de dar um soco da boca da pessoa.

Ai tu vai procurar assunto pra puxar com ela e o perfil dela ta super vazio,ai tu tem q ir nos genericos :oq faz no tempo livre? q é muuuito cansativo repetitivo e a resposta n dar em nd.

Foda é qando tu ler o perfil dela q parece q ela fez depois de hrs e tu fica suuuuuper animada pra conhecela e na hr da conversa ela vira uma batata tuas expectativas vao pro ralo rapidinho tu ficou animada atoa

Ai se tu fizer amizade com homem ainda corre risco dele ta no cio e so fala pq você é a figura feminina dele ja q ele ta solteiro.

E q merda hein td hr eu busco alguem pra amigar e a conversa so flue no comeco depois vira uma bosta

This year I thought it would be easy to change my life, but it’s sooo slow. Guys, I can’t manage to feel interested. With girls, there’s always some obstacle. On top of that, I have to do EVERYTHING just to get somewhere, and at the same time I don’t get anywhere because of the obstacle. The most I managed was going to a girl’s house because she invited me, but nothing really intense happened because she doesn’t like that much intensity (if you know what I mean). It’s more a matter of preference, but it frustrates me that I was the one who got this “luck” of finding someone with exactly those preferences. It’s so uncommon, and it happened to me.

I wanted to have geeky female friends, but the ones I found… one of them and I just didn’t click, and the other one is showy. I wanted a female friend to go out with and play volleyball, but she simply disappeared. We didn’t have that much in common, but the way she treated me before, it doesn’t make sense for her to behave like that. I only made one friend this whole year, but she’s so overweight that we can barely do anything together when we meet. Even so, she had become my emotional support because at least I had one friend. But then she told me that at the end of the year she’s moving to another state… out of nowhere and for no reason, because her family is poor.

Then there’s my acquaintance, and she has everything. Girls are the ones who go after her, and she doesn’t have to do anything in the relationship (she’s the monosyllabic one in the relationship). She only has online friends, but she’s satisfied with that and doesn’t feel the need for in-person contact. Whenever she wants to go play volleyball, she calls her sister, who does whatever she wants, so she always has someone to play with whenever she feels like it. Meanwhile, I took courses and prepared myself to improve my social skills, while she was simply born outgoing, with better social skills and everyone chasing after her, besides having charisma. Oh, and energy too, because in my case I have zero energy and need to spend money on medication, something she doesn’t have to do.

Everything is easy in her life, while everything is difficult in mine.

eu n tenho disposição pra nd . eu tenho a energia de uma pessoa idosa . eu so qero dormir o dia td ,eu n tenho vontade de fazer nd q seja assistir alguma serie qalqer outra coisa é um desgaste gigantesco de energia pra mim. Eu nem uso muito inst n era pra eu yer isso .Eu to perdendo muito tempo da minha vida e n sei oq fazer eu espero dar 22hrs pra finalmente poder dormir e qando eu acordo mais cedo eu tento dormir pra chegar num horario específico

n q vcs n temham outras ambições,mas digo a vida estando tao dificil e seus verdadeiros sonhos estando tao inalcançáveis ,pq tem sempre um empecilho ou outro q atrapalha e faz vc ficar desmotivado e pessimista .Aponto q vcs qererem pelos menos ter isso(reformar o qarto) como meta, uma conqista alcançavel,algo como fosse “esse vai ser meu motivo de viver no momento,meu motivo pra sair da cama,se a vida acabar pelo menos eu conqistei isso “

PS.:It’s just friends with benefits, nothing serious.

Anyway, she told me she was horny and invited me over to her house, but she warned me that I would have to make the first move because she’s shy.

On the day, I ended up being way shyer than she was, and she realized that. She also realized I’m autistic 🤡 (even though I never told her, and I’m obviously a virgin too). She ended up taking the initiative when it came to sex, but I kept asking if I could do this, that, etc. In other words, I was always asking for permission and telling her that if I was bothering her or doing something wrong, she could just tell me. Like, she’d moan from pleasure and I’d stop because I thought it was a moan of pain. I also wasn’t that efficient since I get tired quickly because I’m underweight (grade 2).

Later, she invited some other friends over because she wanted us to go to a nightclub together (she had already told me the first time she invited me that she wanted to go, and I had already explained that I don’t like nightclubs, but she kept politely insisting several times, even before the date started). During that time, she was sweet and kept giving me attention the whole time since I was quieter and shyer because there were other people in the room, but I also tried to join the conversation sometimes. I also couldn’t kiss her anymore because there were people watching, so I stayed a little more distant.

At the nightclub, because she insisted that I stay for her, I stayed there for a few minutes, but I was on Instagram the whole time because I don’t like anything about nightclubs (drinking, etc.), and I had already explained that before. I also didn’t want to get in the way of her having fun with her friends, but I was trying to stay available in case she needed help. After the amount of time I had promised had passed, I said goodbye to her with a hug and a kiss.

If you were her, would I still be an option after all that? I don’t think I made her orgasm, and I’m not that amazing at conversation either, but I always try to be helpful to make the other person happy (what she’s looking for is a friends-with-benefits relationship). I don’t know if she’s already lost interest and would only agree to go out with me again out of discomfort, just to be nice. I don’t think I was good in bed.

Anyway, she told me she was horny and invited me over to her house, but she warned me that I would have to make the first move because she’s shy.

On the day, I ended up being way shyer than she was, and she realized that. She also realized I’m autistic 🤡 (even though I never told her, and I’m obviously a virgin too). She ended up taking the initiative when it came to sex, but I kept asking if I could do this, that, etc. In other words, I was always asking for permission and telling her that if I was bothering her or doing something wrong, she could just tell me. Like, she’d moan from pleasure and I’d stop because I thought it was a moan of pain. I also wasn’t that efficient since I get tired quickly because I’m underweight (grade 2).

Later, she invited some other friends over because she wanted us to go to a nightclub together (she had already told me the first time she invited me that she wanted to go, and I had already explained that I don’t like nightclubs, but she kept politely insisting several times, even before the date started). During that time, she was sweet and kept giving me attention the whole time since I was quieter and shyer because there were other people in the room, but I also tried to join the conversation sometimes. I also couldn’t kiss her anymore because there were people watching, so I stayed a little more distant.

At the nightclub, because she insisted that I stay for her, I stayed there for a few minutes, but I was on Instagram the whole time because I don’t like anything about nightclubs (drinking, etc.), and I had already explained that before. I also didn’t want to get in the way of her having fun with her friends, but I was trying to stay available in case she needed help. After the amount of time I had promised had passed, I said goodbye to her with a hug and a kiss.

If you were her, would I still be an option after all that? I don’t think I made her orgasm, and I’m not that amazing at conversation either, but I always try to be helpful to make the other person happy (what she’s looking for is a friends-with-benefits relationship). I don’t know if she’s already lost interest and would only agree to go out with me again out of discomfort, just to be nice. I don’t think I was good in bed.

enfim ela avisou q tava com tesao e me chamou pra casa dela,mas avisou q eu q tinha q tomar a iniciativa pq ela é timida.

no dia ,eu fui bem mais timida q ela e ela percebeu isso e tbm percebeu q eu sou autista🤡(mesmo sem eu falar,tbm obviamente sou virgem).Ela tomou a iniciativa pro sexo,mas eu perguntava sempre se podia fazer x,y ect,ou seja ,sempre pedindo permissão e falando q se eu tivesse incomodando ou fazendo errado era so falar. Nivel ela gemer de prazer e eu parar por confundir com um gemido de dor ,eu tbm n fui tao eficiente ne me canso rapido pq tenho magreza grau 2.

Ela chamou mais tarde umas outras amigas,pq ela qeria q fossemos juntas pra uma balada(ja tinha avisado na primeira vz do convite q n curto,mas ela insistia varias vzs ate antes do inicio do date , de forma educada).Nesse tempo foi fofa e me dando atencao o tempo td ja q eu tava mais calada e mais timida por ter outras pessoas no qarto,mas eu tentava me enturmar tbm as vzs.E tbm n poderia mais beijar ela por conta de agora ter gente vendo entao fiqei um pouco distante.

Na balada , por ela insistir pra eu deixala fiqei por la por uns mins,mas com cara no insta o tempo td q estive na balada , pq n gosto de nd de balada(bebida etc) ja tinha explicado outras vzs.Tbm n qeria atrapalhar a curticao dela com as amigas,mas tentando estar disponível caso ela precisase de ajuda.Passou os minutos q tinha prometido e me despedi dela com abraco e beijo

Se vocês fossem ela eu ainda seria uma opcao depois disso?n acho q fiz ela gozar e n sou tao incrivel em conversa,mas sempre busco ser prestativa pra agradar (oq ela busca é amizade colorida).Eu n sei se ela ja perdeu o interesse e vai aceitar sair comigo dnv no puro desconforto so pra me agradar,sabe n acho q fui boa na cama

tipo so serve pra criar falsas esperancas. Tipo se eu tivesse chorando ou claramente triste e o ficante falase “n se preocupa na proxima dar certo” ai eu entenderia q so falou isso por conta da minha reacao no momento.Mas n ,tipo eu to na porra da minha casa e a pessoa me manda mensagem pra saber s eeu chegei ,e ok ate ai,mas ai envez de ficar off fica perguntando se eu gostei(?),fala q adorou o role, pra q vai perguntar se n qer me ver mais?.

Pra q vai me falar q na proxima vez vamos pra algum lugar melhor(sendo eu tava so com cara de cu ,timida,e n necessariamente triste),se n qer mais sair comigo??velho é so simplesmente n falar nd,mil vzs isso doq criar falsas expectativas