How to deal with getting attention from men but not from women?

I don’t understand why this is tbh. On all my dating apps i primarily get hit on by gay men (i have my tinder set to both but overwhelmingly it’s guys who hit on me). The same happens at bars and clubs.

I’m 6,3, in shape and have been told by several women and men that i am attractive. Im also 23 and i have had a few girlfriends but nothing crazy.

I just don’t understand because i never receive messages from women unless i start the conversation. I never get hit on or flirted with in public unless i start the conversation and even then it’s 50/50. Idk why i receive such little interest from women but an overwhelming amount from men.

Maybe i just look feminine or something and guys are reacting to that more positively than women are? I have always been told i have a soft pretty boy type look and i will admit i’m not exactly a big masculine guy that plays rugby or something.

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u/External_Star5234 — 9 hours ago

Do women who like you actually pursue you?

I’m 23 and i have genuinely never been pursued in my life despite having multiple girlfriends and one night stands.

For some reason women just don’t approach me or show interest in me despite me trying to be as approachable as i can be.

However despite this it’s obvious to me that women like me because i have been told i am handsome many times and i have never had any issue finding a woman that was attracted to me.

So i don’t understand why all of my other friends have been approached but i haven’t. I am 6,3 and pretty muscular. Idk if maybe that makes me more intimidating to people as i often feel people are nervous around me even when i’m being friendly.

The only women who don’t seem to be nervous around me tend to be women over 50 who are often the ones who flirt with me the most and actually do approach me first and all that stuff.

Like genuinely i have a bunch of likes on tinder and i will often see women smile at me but never approach me. Some women even seem to just hate me before i have even said or done anything.

Can anyone relate to this or know why this happens?

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u/External_Star5234 — 1 day ago

When did your intuition turn out to be right?

I have had several moments in my life where my intuition about a person or a place was right. Sometimes other people can’t sense things that i can sense but i have noticed that my intuition is pretty much always right in the end.

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u/External_Star5234 — 2 days ago

Remember that things that are meant for you will not leave you

I think this is hard to understand especially for myself however it is important to remember that what is meant for you will not leave you when times get tough or if you change.

It was hard for me to understand this as unfortunately i have had to say goodbye to many people throughout my life but once i realised that what is meant for me will be and what isn’t will not be is when i was able to understand.

That job you got rejected from was only making space for a better job that you will enjoy more, that relationship that ended was only making space for the relationship that will heal you. Remember this.

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u/External_Star5234 — 2 days ago
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It is always best to be the man who doesn’t react than to be the reactive man

Reacting to a situation can only bring dire consequences for the individual. Choosing to take a deep breath and either walk away or remain unresponsive is by far the best option when dealing with bad situations or bad people.

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u/External_Star5234 — 2 days ago

8 is ruled by karma

The 8 in numerology is ruled by karma. This means that’s any actions that someone does as an 8 will have either positive or negative effects.

If you act selflessly and help people you will find people will also help you and will do good for you. But if you act selfishly or do bad to people you will be hit with a lot of bad karma and the worst things in life will happen to you.

I have experienced both first hand in my life. When i was living bad i would constantly have things break, get fired from jobs, have good women breakup with me and lose my best friends. I was also poor and unhappy when i was selfish or acted badly.

But now that i have done everything i can to be a good person and show kindness and help people i have so many blessings. I always end up meeting the right people at the right time and people show me a lot more kindness and warmth when i am being a good person.

Life is essentially a mirror as an 8. What you put out into the world will come back to you ten fold. However this also applies to other people that do things to you.

If someone does bad to you they will also be punished with bad karma and i have seen this firsthand in my life. But also if someone is nice to you or helps you they will receive so many blessings so life as an 8 is completely balanced.

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u/External_Star5234 — 2 days ago

Left the job that was disrespecting me today. Feeling great.

Pretty much as the title says. I finally had the courage to walk out of the job that was disrespecting me today. There was this one manager who was just one of those stereotypical workplace bullies who constantly would try to belittle me and make me feel small.

But today i said no more and walked. Leaving him with having to deal with the mess he created. I feel great i should have done this sooner because it feels so freeing to actually choose your own peace over a job.

The best part is i have another job lined up which is much better and with nicer people so i am so happy i made the decision to just leave that toxic workplace that i was in.

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u/External_Star5234 — 2 days ago

You have everything you need already

This has been the only mindset that has produced real results for me when manifesting. I have found you can’t manifest from a state of lack only from a. state of abundance even if your physical reality don’t show abundance if you feel internally abundant you will be able to manifest much easier.

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u/External_Star5234 — 3 days ago

What’s your experience with karma?

I find it difficult sometimes to be a good person. My life is set up to where if i do bad things i always get punished by life. To the point where i can’t even laugh at someone or life will just get considerably worse for me.

It’s especially hard when dealing with other people who are not good. I always want to get revenge but i physically can’t as i just get hit with bad karma for taking revenge.

I have seen instances of people who have received bad karma for doing bad things to me sometimes. However it’s not enough or proportional to the amount i experience as a spiritual person.

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u/External_Star5234 — 3 days ago

The only trine that doesn’t get along with each other is the goat, pig and rabbit trine

Mainly due to all three signs being selfish. I can’t lie i’m a goat myself and i have been selfish a lot throughout my life but after living with a pig for three months i honestly can say i dislike pigs.

I like pig years and i have been successful with pig companies and brands but when it comes to actual relationships and friendships i really dislike them.

I find pigs to mainly be lazy, not loyal and overly selfish and often they eat my food. I would say i’m very gentle and soft and i honestly can only get on with rabbits sometimes. I find rabbits to also be selfish but they are definitely more caring than pigs in my experience.

It’s crazy coz the goat and pig are supposed to be best friends but as an 03 goat i have never got on with any pigs.

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u/External_Star5234 — 3 days ago

I have noticed that only women of a certain age show romantic interest

I’m not sure why this is as i am only 23 however women that are in their 50s and 60s have by far been the most flirty and romantically interested in me since i became 18.

I have dated women my age mostly but i noticed that they care less about me than women that are these ages do for some reason. Like i always feel like i’m just an option to women my age but to women over 50 it’s like they make me their whole world and do all the romantic things that you see in the movies.

No lie they remember everything about me and always greet me first and try to make me happy. I know this is just simple things but honestly when most people you meet don’t do this it becomes something much more meaningful.

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u/External_Star5234 — 3 days ago

You were never supposed to release seed

This may sound obvious to anyone that has been doings semen retention for a while now but it’s the truth. There is literally no reason other than making a baby that would involve releasing semen.

Animals in the wild don’t do it. Humans in the wild also don’t do it. It’s unnatural and bad for you. It’s honestly crazy that some people release even 3 times a day when it’s really only meant to be released a few times in someone’s life.

That’s why people are so weak, sick, unhappy and unwell nowadays. I mean i can even use my own experiences to justify this. I am 23 years old now and i used to do it several times a week. I noticed temporary balding, acne, weak bones and grey hair at 22!!

i also had so many illnesses when i released too much and it only clicked a few months ago that this was caused by excessive releasing. It weakens your immune system and stops your body from being able to regenerate itself as well so rapid aging and illness come a lot faster than they would naturally.

Honestly after 21 i would say semen retention is no longer a choice but a lifestyle. If you don’t want to be old, balding, unhappy and have back pain at a young age then stop releasing so much.

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u/External_Star5234 — 3 days ago

Is there any point reaching out?

Idk i always find that when i initiate conversations with women it goes much worse than when they initiate them with me.

Whenever i have had a girlfriend it is because they reached out to me first whether that was in person or through social media.

Every-time i try to do it feels forced and awkward and they are either dry, uninterested or just simply don’t like the attention so start avoiding me afterwards.

Im fairly certain that the dynamic for me is just better when I’m being pursued more than the other way around.

It’s even happened with girls i have been dating. For example will usually be fairly sporadic when texting and usually will only text a few times a day sometimes even once a day because i am so busy with life that i honestly don’t care about texting tbh.

However whenever i have put more effort in and texted more than this they start ghosting me and leaving me on read.

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u/External_Star5234 — 13 days ago

The life path Number is what you have to be

The life path number is the most important number in your chart. Yes it’s cool to see about destiny numbers and birthday number but what matters is your life path.

This is what you have to be in life and if you aren’t being that you will be forced into it by life.

I am a lifepath 1. Although i have tried so hard to fit in i just can’t. People hate me and abuse unless i can do everything myself. That’s when people love me and follow me.

Life has literally forced me out of jobs where i had no progression, out of my parents home where my dad was overbearing and away from friendships where i was more of a follower because life doesn’t want me to be a follower it ensures that i am an independent leader even if that means taking everything away from me.

It’s not just me either look at the backstory’s of many life path 1s and you will see the same pattern of being alone, starting things themselves and becoming successful on their own and amassing millions of followers because of it.

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u/External_Star5234 — 14 days ago