u/Fancy-Stress4194

So this guy and I have been talking for almost 2 weeks. We’ve talked on the phone and everything has went well. We live about 2 hours from each other and we have opposite work schedules. He said he’d be willing to drive the 2 hours to meet me to hang out with me after I get off work (it’s on one of his days off).

Should I let him come all that way? I feel a little stressed and pressured if he’s coming this far for me. He offered to come to me. Am I overthinking? Should I just let him?

So this guy and I have been talking for almost 2 weeks. We’ve talked on the phone and everything has went well. We live about 2 hours from each other and we have opposite work schedules. He said he’d be willing to drive the 2 hours to meet me to hang out with me after I get off work (it’s on one of his days off).

Should I let him come all that way? I feel a little stressed and pressured if he’s coming this far for me. He offered to come to me. Am I overthinking? Should I just let him?

My family uses “speedy lemon” instead of “speed limit” lol

I feel like I can’t take any more. The tipping point has been the SA and then having a lockdown at work due to a dangerous person with a weapon. I am barely surviving. I do not have plans to hurt myself and I don’t want to leave this earth but I just want to feel better. I want to not be mentally sick. I want to not cry everyday and question my self. I want to feel better. Everyday is a challenge.

Thank you for letting me post here.

Does anyone else get freaks out/weirded out/cant comprehend the fact that our brains can work automatically without us telling them what to do? It makes me go crazy knowing I can tell my brain to do something and it does it, like writing this. Or the fact that you can read these random characters and they have meanings that we all know and recognize. I’m not high I swear lol

Hi! So I’m 29 and just learned how to squirt in the last 6 months. When I start I literally can’t stop. Do other women try to stop it or do you let it just come out? For me it’s more like super soaking and gushing and at this point feels like pee bc there’s just so much of it. Feels like gallons lol so I guess I am just reflecting on the fact that I didn’t realize it could gush. I thought it would be a few cute spirts. Can I make the small ones happen or is my body just going to do its thing and literally let the flood gates break and drown everything in its path. Thanks!

I don’t know what else to do. I’ve been in therapy for the last 17 years, I see my therapist weekly and I love her. We always run out of time. I am on medication. I have support group starting next month. I am switching psychiatrist to hopefully get better medication management and maybe even ketamine. My mental health hurts so bad that my body is physically hurting. I cry everyday and I’m just so hurt. I want to get better so badly. I want to be loved so badly. I feel so alone.

Tonight my algorithm showed me wedding vow videos and then videos of little kids hugging and loving on their parents. I have a very complicated relationship with my parents and haven’t had a partner for 8 years. I cry and long for a partner and a better relationship with my parents. I just want to be okay. I’m so tired of always being in survival mode, even since I was a baby. I was born not breathing and I have always been in distress.

Thank you for letting me get that out.

I had never heard this before, but yesterday my therapist brought it up. It made so much sense. I have an appointment with a psychiatric nurse and I’m hoping to figure out what else is going on besides anxiety and depression. I suspect OCD, ADHD and CPTSD.

I feel everything SO deeply and I’m so sick of it. I know there’s a silver lining but right now I just want to turn my emotions off. I want to exist without thinking about every single little thing multiple times.

Just wanted to vent. I’m almost 30 and I am ashamed with how mentally unwell I am despite all the work and progress I’ve made. I feel unlovable and cry about the fact that I don’t have a relationship. I want to be loved so bad.

I don’t know what else to do. I’ve been in therapy for the last 17 years, I see my therapist weekly and I love her. We always run out of time. I am on medication. I have support group starting next month. I am switching psychiatrist to hopefully get better medication management and maybe even ketamine. My mental health hurts so bad that my body is physically hurting. I cry everyday and I’m just so hurt. I want to get better so badly. I want to be loved so badly. I feel so alone.

Tonight my algorithm showed me wedding vow videos and then videos of little kids hugging and loving on their parents. I have a very complicated relationship with my parents and haven’t had a partner for 8 years. I cry and long for a partner and a better relationship with my parents. I just want to be okay. I’m so tired of always being in survival mode, even since I was a baby. I was born not breathing and I have always been in distress.

Thank you for letting me get that out.