u/Few_Long7178

Ladies be very careful and aware. I can't believe I did this. I feel so ashamed. For months I've been having BV symptoms and trying to treat it. I became frustrated overtime and embarrassed. Today as I was shaving my area, I stumbled across a tampon. I couldn't believe it.

I was able to take it out. I have been faithfully taking probiotics and eating yogurt and taking care of my downstairs so I think I'm fine. But OMG this whole time that's what it was. Ladies be sure to check and make sure you don't have a tampon still in there.

Please help. I want to surprise my male friend, who loves cycling, with a pair of shades and a backpack. What are the top brands to get? He is mid forties, do you think he will still like backpack?

For the many people I see complaining and angry over a Capricorn switching up. Or mad that they changed their minds, or ghosted, or acted strange "out of nowhere." I'm so serious when I say Capricorn sees everything. Even when we are talking we notice what's behind us, that same person who keeps commenting on your stuff, we see. You acting extra nice around certain individuals we see. You use to talk to us around this time, now it's this time we see. You moved your tv an extra few inches to the corner we know. that lil huff and puff when we asked you to do something we hear.

Stop thinking you're going to get away with the fake stuff behind our backs. We will stay quiet and leave. No explanation you'll figure it out. Don't try to play us, don't gossip, because we will find out you're yapping. Sincerely, Capricorn

I'm late thirties and for the first time in my life, I approached and initiated conversation with the man I wanted.. I was terrified and nervous, but I listened to various men who said I should initiate. I am so glad I did. I was preparing for rejection but surprisingly this man reciprocated. We have only been talking now for few months, but since day one we speak every day.

He has a demanding career and hobbies yet he still makes times to call and text..we speak for hours sometimes and he always updates me on what he is doing, which I don't expect that. He is planning on a vacation and we both will spend all day together. We both don't play games. I don't mind texting with minutes after him, if I thought about him, I tell him. Same as he. We both are not worried about how we will look to the other..

I am cute but not way up there attractive. I recently been speaking to an attractive, single, mid forties man who is long distance. So far we speak every day and he initiates communication a lot. We talk for hours sometimes and we both also have a life and wish each other a great day. We both reciprocate and give updates. We are not official yet. He is planning to come see me soon.

The minor problem is we all know how men can just be kind, even though they're not attracted to you. I keep hearing about this. I know I'm only cute so it makes me wonder does he even like me. Back then I wouldn't think like that, but with this modern society, it's actually difficult to tell if a man is truly interested or not. What are some differences of your actions between a lady you think is "eh" and a lady you're actually attracted to??

I am late thirties...For the first time I got BV months ago. I don't know how. I haven't had sex since a year ago, but I did regularly wash with scented body washes and I used tampons. But I've been having bv for like 4 months now and it just won't go away!!!! I already spent money on two rounds of antibiotics pills, then boric acid, then the gel.. the gel worked the best, yet I still leak small fluid stains and it smells a bit.

It's way better than it use to but it still hasn't completely went away. I also ate yogurt daily and take a garlic supplement. I stopped yogurt because I'm not a big fan. But it won't go away and in two months someone is traveling to see me for the first time. I'll be so embarrassed of the smell. Please help what can make it finally go away.

It's a lot of sad posts about ghosting, hot and cold, confusion. Whether you're dating Christian or non Christian, if you've ever experienced when someone actually likes you, then dating will be easier. You would know right away if someone is kind of like "eh" or " I don't know." Then you'll move on no worries.

I have experienced it a few times and it's different than someone who just wants you around. Someone who likes you are focused on you. Call, text, FaceTime, ask about you and actually remember what you say. You will literally just sit there and they will be so interested in seeing you and knowing you. You'll be asking yourself wow what am I doing for them to want me like this. Lol

That's the difference. You can still look good but someone who likes you will like you in a ponytail or hair down, bangs no bangs, dress pants whatever. It don't matter. You won't feel the need to work so hard to impress them. You can just smile and they go crazy. Start dating while making sure they like you. X out the ones you can tell is on the fence or not sure or have excuses. Less stress and yes less dates, but when you finally go on a date, it will be with someone who likes you and you'll have a good time. I guarantee it

Yes it's sad we have to come up with a plan to get creeps off our backs. So far this is the only way the creepy weird men at work left me alone. Advice for women, and men may can use this too. This works if you can pull out your phone. When you are about to enter the area the person is at, or cross paths, have your phone playing a man's voice. It can be a video from YouTube or any social media.

Have it loud enough where they should hear it. Play the man's voice talking and just kind of smile at it as you walk past them. Don't even look in their face or eyes, pay attention to the video lol. If they speak either act like you not paying attention or just do a quick hey or uh huh and focus and smile at video. Worked for me..

My mom always had a mean personality. Opposite of me who is sweet and nice. For many years family and doctors told her about her health and she will laugh and shrug it off. Recently, she had a stroke and I found out she stopped taking her blood pressure and sugar meds, which led to stroke. Now of course she is slowly recovering with mobility and memory is still foggy. But even now she laughs sometimes and think it's funny that the whole family has to drop everything and watch her.

It's literally a bad time for this to happen, everyone works and dealing with other things, plus yes I am dating. Even before this I was never close to the family, I was always pushed out. Whenever I tried to visit Mom she ignored my calls and I don't get invited to family events. But then they ask me if I could move back in with mom. No I will not. I understand if Mom just got old and this happened, but she purposely didn't take care of herself and this happened. And she's still mean and rude to everyone helping her. I only watch her twice a week but I don't even want to do that. She's so mean. I barely paying my bills and using gas to help her and cook for her and she talks to me so mean . She was mean even before the stroke