u/Few_Long7178

There's nothing wrong with getting older and acting older. I'm seeing too many people acting ashamed of being older. Men I've spoken to this past year either lied about looks or finances, even lie about them eating healthy lol. Just be yourself. If someone wanted younger, they'll go get one. I personally think baldness is attractive, and if your back hurts, hell my knees do too! Embrace the age and be grateful. Stop with the ai photos ugh ..It's so unattractive to me when you try to act younger.

If we're attracted to you, but observing you first instead of talking a whole lot, are you attracted as well? Notice I said easygoing caps, not the very strict and close minded ones

I started working in a male dominated field a few months ago. I have no issues at all. We work in construction and we usually pick at each other and make funny jokes. I'm a little feisty. A new worker recently came on the scene so we did team work. However, I noticed everytime I asked the new worker a question, he doesn't respond. This is on day one.

Before I made assumptions, I asked a few more work tasks questions and he ignored me. So I just stop communicating with him. He was responding to all the men though. I thought that was odd. He did say hi when we saw each other clocking in for work. The next day, same thing. He said hi but once we begin working , all day no response when I tell him something. I even called him once to ask something important about the task and he didn't answer lol. I just finally decided to leave it alone. He is over 40. Anyone have any insight on quickly treating a worker like that? Is this a gender reason or maybe he blackout when I speak? Lol.. should I just completely not talk to him again? This is a teamwork job

I was wrong. I thought I wanted a cancer husband. I thought most of them like a down to earth, cool, funny, easygoing lady. I was wrong. From what I see they overlook that and chase after the wild lady who shows half naked bodies for attention. I am not that. I'm not showing my butt and breasts on social media to attract cancer man. I'm sure another sign will appreciate a sweet loyal down to earth woman.

I've been working in a male-dominated job for years now. no issues at all. There is a new coworker who recently started. On day one I noticed he only ignores me and responds to everyone else when they check on him or tell him what to do. So I back off. Then when I was talking to someone else, I said a fancy word I guess lol ... He responds to me and says "Little Miss uppity said a big word". I was confused and just laughed it off. The next day again I'm the only one being ignored. So I finally decided to stop initiating questions and communication . I don't know what I did or what he's thinking. Everyone is casual and cool with me. Like he has something against women or something.. anyone else ever come across this?

I recently crossed paths with a Sag and I am attracted. He has been kind of teasing me and initiating conversation so far, so I'm not sure if he likes me or not. We are older mid ages. When I research about Sag, I see so many terrifying stories about their temper. I don't want to go back to that, I've been traumatized by a Pisces in the past. How do I know if he's unevolved or evolved? Immature or mature Sag? How to know?

There is nothing creepy or bad if you approach a woman you are interested in. There is nothing wrong if you are checking her out when you can.. The problem lies when she gives you "I'm not interested" signals and you still pursue anyway. I know people will say but they don't give any signals... Most of them do. Now I'm not taking about younger early 20s women, because I'm not sure how they operate.. But older mature women will somehow let you know they don't want to be bothered.

If there give one word quick answers. "Uh huh" "yea" 'no", plus don't smile, just move on. If they barely look in your face and eyes as if they're talking to a ghost lol, move along. If they never even ask you a question ever, move along. If they roll their eyes before you even speak move along. Yes approach people but just be aware of the aura and if it doesn't work out fine. On to the next person. Makes no sense how people have to switch jobs, or hide, or get anxiety because someone won't move along after getting told no non verbally.

Hello, just wondering what's your opinion on dressing up and going out, to hopefully cross paths w and find someone? Would that be better than the dating apps? So far I've tried a couple of times, but it was only couples around. But I'll definitely keep taking myself out and making myself available. I think it'll also weed out some bad people. People who don't have their life together may not be at a restaurant at the time. I personally love the in person attraction and experience rather than swiping and messaging first. Would you all try going out solo to meet someone?

I've never encountered this behavior before. This man mid forties started off staring and waving excitedly at me and even kept being around me and complimenting me. Then when I act kind back and wave, he just stands there like I'm a fool. He did that about twice so far. There are also few times he would call me for work related stuff.. But when I called, he ignored it. One time he ignored but called right back when he was alone. It was only work discussion.

The last straw is recent he called just to tell me happy birthday. So sweet.. But then when I texted him happy Father's Day, no response. That was the last straw. I'm not even going to talk to him anymore besides hello. I always feel stupid when he does those things. Anyone else seen or done this behavior before? Why?

Is there something happening in the planets and stars this week? All the water signs around me are acting weird as hell this week. Even my best friend who usually is cool. They all fading away like their upset or something. Any other caps having weird things happen lately?

I have been self improving this past year since being single. I am a lot better socially but still need improvement. I feel scared and so nervous when a man pursues me. I am use to nonchalant guys who slowly talk to me. But if the man not scared to approach and speak and ask me questions omg I get the shakes. I don't know why but I'm working on that. After months, I finally became nice to someone and I said hello. I was so mean and standoffish to him for months. But now when he says have a nice day, I said it back.

The man I am interested in, acted very flirtatious for months. But I was always dodging him and running. Then I had to breathe and tell myself to be nice. But by then it's too late... People tell me to ask me him out.. But you don't understand I'm working on myself yet I feel like throwing myself in lava rather than risk embarrassment. Once a week we speak on the phone for work purposes. I plan on telling him happy birthday and asking what he's going to do. I accept that we will never be more, since I think we are both scared. Plz pray for me .. thanks

Okay water signs... (Scorpio, Cancer, Pisces). How often do you like to talk to your friends, co-workers, new love interest????

Ok Pisces., I didn't think this was real until I noticed a pattern.. As an earth sign, all my life I had cool Pisces friends and co-workers and family. They ALL ended the same way. We start off having a great connection and laughs and share personal details from the start. Months go by and everything is great. Then it can be a day or few days I'll be to myself.

I won't be rude or mean, I just won't initiate communication.. I'll be in my head thinking about stuff. After that, we start back the old way again and then.... POOF they're gone.. They don't respond to messages, calls, nothing. This happens after they left the job. So I just don't see them again. To me it's so fake to pretend everything is alright and smile then soon as you get a chance to disappear you do. I never known what the problem was from each person. But it's the same exact way I swear. What's the deal?? Do you get offended when someone is off their energy for a few days?? Or maybe they didn't like me the whole time who knows

At work, We butts heads alot! When we first met, he flirted and I declined.. Then he started picking at everything mistake I make and watches when I do a task. He even slowly walks behind me as I do tasks. It pisses me off. I started being petty and calling his mistakes out and even cussed him out once in front of everyone. He still won't back up. Still watching and saying sarcastic things which triggers me to lash out a bit. How to scare the Virgo away? Seems like only Pisces can do that

Hi I am new to traveling. Never been on a plane (I know)... I want to go to Vegas from Texas just for a weekend in a few months. I want to stay at a decent hotel where I can awake and see the sphere emoji outside from my window. I will mostly sightsee and eat regular food and drinks, nothing major. Where do I begin? When to book? How much to have saved?? Help please

A percentage of the reason dating is so bad, is because people have these unrealistic standards.. There are people saying you should call or text always within this time frame, or we should have a date within one week, etc.. do people not realize what's going on in real life?

Aging parents where anything can happen at any moment, family emergencies, financial things popping up, crime rates are increasing, work related issues pop up, plus you still have to take care of your house and lawn ,etc. life can make you busy sometimes. I think it's selfish for people to assume you're sitting at home picking your nose when they text you. If you don't text within a few hours they move on lol. I don't experience this but I'm just reading and listening to people. No wonder it's hard in dating.

Tina Turner, Katie Holmes, Robin Givens, Teyana Taylor, etc... Those are examples of how horrible it can get when sag mixes with a water sign. Although they may be unhealed, even the mature ones still have the potential to get dangerous when becoming resentful. You keep letting them dim your light.

Hello, just asking the sincere good hearted people here, to pray for us as I am very interested in this man. We are both mid ages. It's a long story but upon first meeting I was so mean to him. It was a misunderstanding, but over time he always kept his kindness and nurtured me with care in a friendly manner. I ended up liking him.

The problem is we are both socially awkward, so nobody has made a confirmed clear move that we actually like one another. I did find out he preaches sometimes at his church. If that's not suppose to be my husband fine. But pray for me that if we are good together, can God give us bravery and courage needed to move things forward. I think about him a lot.. Thanks in advance everyone