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I have been noticing a trend on social media lately, and I want to see if others are seeing the same thing or if I'm just crazy.

I see a lot of women on the internet openly stating that they are man haters. What surprises me the most isn't just the videos themselves, but the comment sections. There is almost always a massive wave of support, validation, and agreement from other women cheering them on.

On the flip side, I haven’t seen guys openly posting that they hate women in that same casual, mainstream way and honestly, I’m damn sure that if a guy did post a video like that, other men in the comments would immediately bash him and call him out for it. He wouldn't get that same level of public, open support from his peers.

It makes me wonder about where this resentment actually comes from and from what I observe, it seems like a lot of the women who reach this level of public bitterness often have a double digit body count. Why does it take going through that many casual partners or negative experiences to become a man hater?

Just to be clear I am not saying any of this out of anger or frustration. I am genuinely curious about this social dynamic. I am completely open minded and would really appreciate some logical arguments or insights that might change my perspective or help me see what I might be missing.

I have been noticing a trend on social media lately, and I want to see if others are seeing the same thing or if I'm just crazy.

I see a lot of women on the internet openly stating that they are man haters. What surprises me the most isn't just the videos themselves, but the comment sections. There is almost always a massive wave of support, validation, and agreement from other women cheering them on.

On the flip side, I haven’t seen guys openly posting that they hate women in that same casual, mainstream way and honestly, I’m damn sure that if a guy did post a video like that, other men in the comments would immediately bash him and call him out for it. He wouldn't get that same level of public, open support from his peers.

It makes me wonder about where this resentment actually comes from and from what I observe, it seems like a lot of the women who reach this level of public bitterness often have a double digit body count. Why does it take going through that many casual partners or negative experiences to become a man hater?

Just to be clear I am not saying any of this out of anger or frustration. I am genuinely curious about this social dynamic. I am completely open minded and would really appreciate some logical arguments or insights that might change my perspective or help me see what I might be missing.

Salam everyone,
I could really use some advice on a situation at uni. I’m 22M, currently studying CS, and I have about 2 years left until graduation. I’ve already brought up the topic of marriage with my parents, and thankfully they’re completely supportive of me finding someone myself, so my family is fully on board.

There’s a girl in my batch that I want to approach for marriage. She’s a hijabi, super friendly, but mostly keeps to herself. We aren’t close at all. She’s helped me out a couple of times with different projects and assignments, but other than that, we don’t really talk. She also doesn’t hang out with guys and just sticks to a small circle of female friends, which I really respect.

I want to do this the right way. I have absolutely zero interest in dating or a haram relationship my intention is strictly marriage. If I ask and she says no, I am 100% okay with that and will completely respect her decision.

My biggest issue is that I have no idea how to actually approach her. I really don't want to come off as creepy or make her feel uncomfortable, especially since we share classes and I’ll be seeing her around campus for the next two years.

How should I go about this? Should I just go up to her directly after class and keep it brief? Give her a respectful note with my number for her wali? Or should I try to figure out a way to ask through one of her friends?

Sisters, how would you want a guy to handle this in a way that makes you feel safe and respected? Brothers who have been in a similar spot, what worked for you?
Jazakallah khair for any help!

Salam everyone,
I could really use some advice on a situation at uni. I’m 22M, currently studying CS, and I have about 2 years left until graduation. I’ve already brought up the topic of marriage with my parents, and thankfully they’re completely supportive of me finding someone myself, so my family is fully on board.

There’s a girl in my batch that I want to approach for marriage. She’s a hijabi, super friendly, but mostly keeps to herself. We aren’t close at all. She’s helped me out a couple of times with different projects and assignments, but other than that, we don’t really talk. She also doesn’t hang out with guys and just sticks to a small circle of female friends, which I really respect.

I want to do this the right way. I have absolutely zero interest in dating or a haram relationship my intention is strictly marriage. If I ask and she says no, I am 100% okay with that and will completely respect her decision.

My biggest issue is that I have no idea how to actually approach her. I really don't want to come off as creepy or make her feel uncomfortable, especially since we share classes and I’ll be seeing her around campus for the next two years.

How should I go about this? Should I just go up to her directly after class and keep it brief? Give her a respectful note with my number for her wali? Or should I try to figure out a way to ask through one of her friends?

Sisters, how would you want a guy to handle this in a way that makes you feel safe and respected? Brothers who have been in a similar spot, what worked for you?
Jazakallah khair for any help!

Pata hai Aaj kya hua?
So my brother and I are dealing with a really weird family situation and I could use some outside perspective. We have a second cousin who lives in our area. We have been living near each other for over 10 years, basically grew up together, and my brother and I have known him since the literal day he was born.
He just had a birthday and went all out, booking a luxury farmhouse for the party. But he completely left me and my brother off the guest list. The part that really stings is who he decided to invite. He specifically invited my first cousins who live in another city. To give you an idea, my first cousins did not even know his name until he was 5 or 6 years old. It feels super disrespectful that he bypassed the guys who have been around his whole life just to invite relatives who barely knew him growing up.
The day of the party made things even more awkward. One of my first cousins has actually been staying in my city for the past month. He and his sisters were invited to the party. Since we are super close, they decided to come hang out at our house first before heading to the farmhouse, fully knowing my brother and I were not invited.
We were having a great time and making plans to go out together later this week. But while they were at my place, the birthday boy kept calling them to hurry up. My cousins actually hid the fact that they were at my house from him and eventually had to rush out so they could meet up with him.
Now I am just trying to figure out how to handle this. I dont wanna confront him because its his choice but Idk how and what to feel now.