my mom hasn’t healed from her trauma and sometimes acts like a child than a mother. could she still love me even though age hasn’t dealt with her own. demons. my grandma came to the us to work and my mom helped raise and care for her siblings
What is the next step? I shared what I felt and what hurt me and what she did. She was so angry and just threw a kings of lies and ways to hurt me. Why can’t people just say sorry. How hard is that, you messed up, I’m sorry. Instead I get hit back and just slammed and hurt one more time by this person. I cut her off and I can’t deal with this anymore. Good riddance 👌 am I alone here or does anyone understand. I’ve never hurt it try to harm her in any way.
Just because it’s freeing on the dance floor and sexy at the same time. No lap dance or dancing on old men that smell like pee or men.
This is specifically for my major depression. But it has my family members adding to my trauma thought my life. Making things worse instead of showing unconditional love. I don’t understand why this happens? Especially when a parent and sibling gang up together to hurt another sucking in dire need and distress. How does making things worse for someone already distressed help in any way. Is this called something?
My sister has sheets big a tomboy. In sports a middle child, I guess she feels she didn’t get enough attention with the middle child syndrome? I’m not sure. I was in dance, drill, did great in school and had many friends.
I was never competitive with my siblings, but my sister is competitive. I’m not sure if this is the problem? Does she envy me in some way it think I had it easier than her?
I’m a god person and don’t harm anyone. Is this called something? Why do I have to suffer more? Do they not knitter what they’re doing? I feel mom is a child and my sister manipulates her. Family should be there for you not cause you harm and hurt you more
This is what I’ve been holding on for decades. I was 17 now I’m 48. It’s about time I shared how she hurt and didn’t help it support me.
So when you kicked me out for not going to school it didn’t have to happen, but it did. I was ditching and still going to school as you did the same thing. Anyways that wasn’t supposed to be your problem anyways, mom always got rid of us when she couldn’t deal with us. I was staying at my Tia Gloria house and I left the blanket on the sofa. You went in being nosy And said, “ she left the blanket here, she shouldn’t do that” . Because of your remark I was kicked out of my Tia Gloria’S house. Why you were mad i don’t know? why it were so mean and cruel only you know.
So I went to a friends house to live and mom being a metiche called me because you made her. She asked for the address and u talked to the mom which was none of your business and got me kicked out of there also. What kind of sister does that? You came where I was staying and left all my belongings at the door step and called me a demo. Which is the dumbest thing ever, I stopped going to school for my own reasons. So only you being a kind and good person got me kicked out of two places with no one asked or got you involved. That changed everything and I had to live with Jose. So if you think of it, you and only you out me in the situation. I had nowhere to go and my family made it worse, like I did something wrong.
When we were living with Dax the weirdo he tried hitting on me several times.i would get really bad panic attacks but i locked myself in the room because i didn’t trust him. I told you and instead of believing me you got up and moved out. That was a slap in the face.
When you ended your business you thought it was cute to come and just throw all your stuff at my house. You didn’t ask me and just caused more problems . I didn’t realize all the things you do. So this last time I was going to do my taxes I didn’t ask for your help. I don’t know why you lent me the money when I was going to the bank. You lend it to me and I forgot about it. Not because I didn’t want to pay, but because I fled from my ex husband. So I’m at the shelter and mom calls me and says I owe you money. That wasn’t even what I was thinking about because of what I was going through. You could’ve reminded me like you did instead of telling mom first. Can you do things without mom and getting her involved ? I paid you but it was upsetting that you really thought I was going to flee and not pay you back. Instead of helping you guys make things worse.
The last straw is you guys trying to get involved after what happened. I told you guys not to go to the house and you did. Insulting my children and making things worse doesn’t make things any easier.