Would you take a job?

If you are getting a decent job at a very young age like before clearing any group and start your work life and with no experience would you take it?

Or will it be properly dedicated to studies only and land directly a high paying job?

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u/GBroad_kadalal — 14 days ago

Is a girl hitting on me? 🫪

So I got an internship in August 😭 and I met many people there and a girl I met on the day of the interview so when the internship started i shared instagram with many people including that girl so now that girl is sending me few strange reels 😭

Like in a reel said "deleted scenes from my office life" and it was a romantic Bollywood kind of scene with a girl falling and the guy catching her

And she literally says things that blows my mind like she said "I can die for you", "you are husband material" , "i really like your personality" she also complimented me that I don't judge her and corrects her mistakes without making her feel dumb and she likes that also she said i sound masculine 😭😭

She deactivated her account 2 times and re-activated again and i jokingly said "reels ki yaad aa jati hai kya" she replied "aapki" and i replied "this isn't common between friends" she said "we are not common" 🥀

I dare I am not showing any interest 😭 cause we dont even know each other that well, we can't get to meet each other at the office so there are just 4-5 face to face interaction 🥀

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u/GBroad_kadalal — 1 month ago

How to console someone?

Bro how the hell do you console someone?? Like what should we tell them, on call and in person both

I am a very emotionally intelligent person but I do not know how to console someone?

If someone is crying in front of me or calls me while crying I can't just say don't worry, don't be sad and stop crying just drink water? What?🥀

I use different ways to engage in the conversation I share my personal experience and mostly I start to explain them 😭 like bro it happens with everyone it happened with me also that's life

Isn't there any way or some tips on how to make the crying person feel great again🥀

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u/GBroad_kadalal — 1 month ago

Rapid metro? Delhi one?

Rapid metro kiske under ati hai? DMRC ke yah GMRL ke? Aur us par Delhi one wale card chalte hai kya?

Aur usme NMRC ki aqua line trah line change karte hue exit kyu nahi karna padta?

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u/GBroad_kadalal — 3 months ago

Why no one loves me?

Why am I like this? Why? Why am I so unloved and unwanted? Why can't I have a friend that treats me as their friend too, treats me like I do? What's wrong with me? Am I that bad?

I am not, I am literally the most kind and empathetic person. I am literally the most empathetic person i have ever met in my life but people are always mean to me, I used to never have someone for me But I didn't even think that much about it. But in 2020-2021 I met someone and literally my life changed that person was the first person in my life that showed me what love and affection feels like and I was on the ninth cloud and we started to share a very very good bond but after 4 years of friendship (or more idk) when school ended everything fell apart she met a new guy and I didn't have problem with that either way it's her life, but the thing is she never told me about him and we stopped talking and that was the first time I literally crashed out emotionally in my life I literally felt how detachment is and I almost wasted my 3 months but I knew I have to get together and that time my place changed I got distracted so I got over easily thanks to other situations but this time I literally falling apart and there is no one that can hold me. Why am I so unloved? Why don't I have someone that treats me as their best friend? Most importantly I don't have any exposure, I don't have college or any other friends that I can go out with, I am just in my home surviving alone, none of my family members are that understandable that I can share anything with them.

This time I just couldn't survive this cause I started to talk with that girl again and everything is complicated but still wanted to talk with her cause I wanted to, I wanted to talk with her daily and she told me that she had feelings for me but I never got the hint (I was immature) but she's single now and talking with me i thought we can fix that together, but yesterday she invited her best friend (male) on the call with us I was kind involved with them in the conversation, and she said to her friend that her birthday is coming what are gifting me and she demanded that just wrap yourself and come to me as my birthday present my heart dropped I started to feel waves of joy and extremely sadness because that's the thing I always wanted I literally got happy cause wow that's so good that's so sweet but I got said because why can't I have someone who can tell this to me? Why can't I be the person like him? She also shared with him that she always calls him while crying or breaking out I got more sad cause, why can't I? And she asked why he never calls her? Like wow I really liked their bond and I don't want to break anything, also I don't want that she come to me and make me as her best friend like him.

I am just miserably sad, cause the girl I considered a very important person in my life cause she gave and showed me what I never had, I literally shared my every single feeling, thoughts, and every incident of my life but she never cared to share anything about her but always used to say that she had feelings for me there's no one can like me and I am her favourite person

That's just bs from my pov, I want someone to treat me like she treated her best friend

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u/GBroad_kadalal — 3 months ago

Why no one loves me?

Why am I like this? Why? Why am I so unloved and unwanted? Why can't I have a friend that treats me as their friend too, treats me like I do? What's wrong with me? Am I that bad?

I am not, I am literally the most kind and empathetic person. I am literally the most empathetic person i have ever met in my life but people are always mean to me, I used to never have someone for me But I didn't even think that much about it. But in 2020-2021 I met someone and literally my life changed that person was the first person in my life that showed me what love and affection feels like and I was on the ninth cloud and we started to share a very very good bond but after 4 years of friendship (or more idk) when school ended everything fell apart she met a new guy and I didn't have problem with that either way it's her life, but the thing is she never told me about him and we stopped talking and that was the first time I literally crashed out emotionally in my life I literally felt how detachment is and I almost wasted my 3 months but I knew I have to get together and that time my place changed I got distracted so I got over easily thanks to other situations but this time I literally falling apart and there is no one that can hold me. Why am I so unloved? Why don't I have someone that treats me as their best friend? Most importantly I don't have any exposure, I don't have college or any other friends that I can go out with, I am just in my home surviving alone, none of my family members are that understandable that I can share anything with them.

This time I just couldn't survive this cause I started to talk with that girl again and everything is complicated but still wanted to talk with her cause I wanted to, I wanted to talk with her daily and she told me that she had feelings for me in the past but I never got the hint (I was immature) but she's single now and talking with me i thought we can fix that together, but yesterday she invited her best friend (male) on the call with us I was kind involved with them in the conversation, and she said to her friend that her birthday is coming and what are you gifting me and she demanded that just wrap yourself and come to me as my birthday present my heart dropped I started to feel waves of joy and extremely sadness because that's the thing I always wanted I literally got happy cause wow that's so good that's so sweet but I got sad because why can't I have someone who can tell this to me? Why can't I be the person like him? She also shared with him that she always calls him while crying or breaking out I got more sad cause, why can't I? And she asked why he never calls her? (Nobody never told me that) Like wow I really liked their bond and I don't want to break anything, also I don't want that she come to me and make me as her best friend like him.

I am just miserably sad, cause the girl I considered a very important person in my life cause she gave and showed me what I never had, I literally shared my every single feeling, thought, and every incident of my life but she never cared to share anything about her but always used to say that she had feelings for me there's no one can like me and I am her favourite person That's just bs from my pov, I want someone to treat me like she treated her best friend Ik i have to be strong and focus on myself and trust me I am trying but the loneliness, the emptyness in me, is eating me inside out I literally can't focus on anything I can't study, I used to watch movies I used to play games but now it's just emptiness nothing entertains me anymore, few things that used too comfort me can't comfort me anymore, i can't eat, my hands start to shake sometimes I try heal i just laugh continuously and then I get emptyness in me again

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u/GBroad_kadalal — 3 months ago

Can I take avomine?

Can I take avomine medicine that is used to cute motion sickness? As it calms down the nervous system, blocks signals and after all make me relaxed and for once in a day help me to not to think of a single thing and empty my mind

I am just tired of thinking and all these thoughts about me and my life

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u/GBroad_kadalal — 3 months ago

Is this the online/skill training or something?

I received a few emails about "the mandatory Skill Training Program for CMA Intermediate Students" and there was google from link so I filled that form and now today I got this mail

What is this? Is it compulsory to attend all the sessions? What if I can't complete all the sessions?

u/GBroad_kadalal — 3 months ago

Suggest some good products for my curly hairs

Anyone suggest me some good budget friendly hair conditioner and curl cream,

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I haven't used any of that before it's my first time but my hair started getting frizzy and dry that's why I want to use that

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Also can anyone tell me what products to use like what is hair mousse? Why to use it? And what's the difference between hair mousse and curl cream?

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u/GBroad_kadalal — 4 months ago

19/M: is it really concerning?

Is it really concerning? Or what should I do to stop this? I don't use many products just minimalist shampoo

u/GBroad_kadalal — 4 months ago