u/Glass-Sorbet3606

I just sang should I stay or should I go by the clash. The follow up was the bartender. He did you should probably leave by Chris Stapleton. I probably should go home.🤣

When I noticed I was walking him into the wall. I apologized and he said that it was fine.

I said I still think my behavior was out of line.

About a month ago I was turned down for a date after I already made the reservation. I decided to keep the reservation, went alone and made this playlist to keep me company. I will take recommendations.

I (m33) broke up with my long distance girlfriend friend a month ago. We together 3 years. I had fallen out of love with her and I should have ended it a year ago.

That same night I went out to the karaoke bar, met a woman, I call her Jenny and went home with her. This was a Sunday. The next Saturday I took her out for lunch, we kept finding things to do together and I stayed the night again. The next evening (Sunday), she texted me saying it was probably a bad idea but invited over to watch a movie. I went, I stayed the night.

In the morning I said some stupid shit. I told Jenny I was already feeling possessive of her. She rightly was scared of that. We are both going through it, and things were already pretty intense between us after only a week of knowing each other. She told me she needed space. I thought we were over.

She texted me a few days later. We lost her job and needed a friend. I thought I could be that friend. I took her out to dinner. After we went to a bar and played some pool. She started initiating kissing and touching. We went back to hers. I stayed the night. That was last weekend.

Jenny keeps texting me saying she has a lot on her plate and that she not ready for a serious relationship. That we are friends, and I okay with that. I'm not ready for a serious relationship either.

Yesterday Jenny tells me that her SIL and her were going to a concert, but her SIL couldn't make it. She ask me to be her date. It a great time. She initiates touching and kissing. Jenny ask me to stay the night. I say yes.

I know I need to clarify the relationship, but I'm thinking it's fwb situation. I really should have had this conversation before we had sex, but TIFU. After the bedroom event we are laying there naked. She rubbing my back and I'm loving it. She ask me about my plans tomorrow. I tell her and say it will make good pictures for the tinder profile. She laughs nervously and says, "yeah?"

I, in my postcoital brilliance, decide now is the time.

"Will we still be friends if our sexual relationship ends?" I ask

"What do you mean?" Jenny

"If I choose to be sexually active with somebody else, you won't want to have sex with me."

"I wish this didn't come up after we had sex. I want to go to sleep. Good night."

"Okay. Good night." I say

"... Actually, I think you should leave." Jenny says

We both get dressed and I don't understand why or what is happening. I think "is she just using me for sex?" I put on my shoes and Jenny asks if i had sex with other people while with her. I answer truthfully, no.

As I'm walking out of the apartment the idea strikes me when it should have been the door.

She really likes me, but was afraid because of the shit she has to deal with right now. Then I told her to her face, right after fucking her, that I have every intention to fuck other people. I'm a prick.

TL;DR - Broke the hearts of 2 women in as many months because I suck.

I'm a big weezer fan, but I was wondering if a couple songs would be cool to sing at a gay bar. Gay bars really are the most forgiving crowds I've seen for karaoke. So I would like to do hash pipe and or pink triangle, but as a I wouldn't want to make a place that's meant to be inviting for everyone uncomfortable. What are your feelings?