u/Helpful_Brother_9529

Pata hai aaj kya hua so

23F here.Met a guy online months ago, we became really close friends, exchanged contacts, talked daily, helped each other with studies etc. We used to roast each other a lot but still genuinely cared about each other. He wasn’t the sweet talker type, but he’d do thoughtful things and send sweet texts in his own way without sounding overly romantic. I slowly started liking him because he seemed very genuine and respectful.

He used to say things like:

- he’s very honest/blunt

- he’s not like guys who sweet talk girls just for sex

- he barely watches porn/masturbates

- he doesn’t flirt much

Whenever I flirted he would usually shut it down. His way of caring was more through actions like helping me, ordering food for me, checking on me etc. We were even planning a trip together.

Recently I made a new account on the same app where we first met. I recognized his profile pic there and texted him anonymously out of curiosity. He had no idea it was me.

And he acted COMPLETELY different. Very sexual, asking for nudes, sending explicit pics, talking in ways he never talks to me. Now I feel genuinely shocked because the image I had of him kinda cracked.

Men honestly is this normal? Does this mean he’s fake/manipulative or is this just a side guys don’t show female friends?

Also what would you do in my situation? Should I tell him it was me or just never bring it up? He shared very private stuff and I feel like it would deeply embarrass him, but if I don’t tell him I also feel awkward continuing normally. And now idk if I should even go on that trip anymore. (Used ChatGPT to organize my thoughts properly because my brain is genuinely all over the place rn)

23F here. Met a guy online months ago, we became really close friends, exchanged contacts, talked daily, helped each other with studies etc. We used to roast each other a lot but still genuinely cared about each other. He wasn’t the sweet talker type, but he’d do thoughtful things and send sweet texts in his own way without sounding overly romantic. I slowly started liking him because he seemed very genuine and respectful.

He used to say things like:

- he’s very honest/blunt

- he’s not like guys who sweet talk girls just for sex

- he barely watches porn/masturbates

- he doesn’t flirt much

Whenever I flirted he would usually shut it down. His way of caring was more through actions like helping me, ordering food for me, checking on me etc. We were even planning a trip together.

Recently I made a new account on the same app where we first met. I recognized his profile pic there and texted him anonymously out of curiosity. He had no idea it was me.

And he acted COMPLETELY different. Very sexual, asking for nudes, sending explicit pics, talking in ways he never talks to me. Now I feel genuinely shocked because the image I had of him kinda cracked.

Men honestly is this normal? Does this mean he’s fake/manipulative or is this just a side guys don’t show female friends?

Also what would you do in my situation? Should I tell him it was me or just never bring it up? He shared very private stuff and I feel like it would deeply embarrass him, but if I don’t tell him I also feel awkward continuing normally. And now idk if I should even go on that trip anymore.

(Used ChatGPT to organize my thoughts properly because my brain is genuinely all over the place rn)

Preferably someone good at Maths because I really need accountability there 😭

I can study for long daytime hours and want someone equally consistent so we can share targets, keep each other productive, and stay disciplined.

DM if interested

She’s so cunning and chalak it’s actually impressive 😭 like did she genuinely think nobody would clock what she’s doing? Every breath around her must feel like unpaid emotional labour.Tayne really saved himself props to that man for surviving the final boss battle and escaping alive.

I'm planning a solo trip from Jharkhand to Banaras soon to explore the ghats and city.Girls who’ve been there need some quick advice on

Safe areas/hostels to stay?Best time to explore ghats? Safe to roam alone?Any scams or things to avoid? Also if anyone from Banaras is open to sharing tips, would help.