u/IMeMJ

Hi. I am f23.

Please ask questions as I am sure ill miss important details.

I am living at my boyfriend's house with his family there are 8 people and 5 animals. I was at home, but unfortunately, I could not stay there healthily, primarily for physical health but also mental health reasons.

My bf has a dog who had been through abuse in and outside of the home. This abuse is no longer occurring. When my bf goes to work, his dog is bound to his room, he had a peeing problem in the past and excessively barks, some people work midnight shifts. He is a grumpy guy, and only tolerates 2 people: my bf and I.

When i came over in the past, he wouldnt pay attention to my bf at all, it was just me, which was overwhelming. I love the dude very much, but now that I live there, I can't handle the suffocation of attention. He barks at me every second of the time he can't get to me or physically touch me, I can't be alone anymore or else he scream hyperventatedly barks. I am not usually an angry person, but I find myself yelling at him all of the time now. I have a cat at my parents' house, cats are definitely more my speed, granted this doggo is a small breed, which are known to be yappy. I

have migraine and sleep disorders, and AuDHD, and clearly he has separation anxiety. I just don't know what to do to make it work, i can't stay with family. In september I am continuing my undergrad, so I am trying to figure this out now. I am looking for employment, but where I am is a iob dessert.

Thanks for your help.