u/ImaginationAny2254

All the colourful frocks and the dresses women used to wear, did you dress like that back in the days?

Everything shown was so colorful and cozy. I don’t know when the world turned monochromatic. They used to dress so well too. The dresses shown were so well made with proper stickers for breasts in the dresses and everything seemed intentional. Was it really the case?

Any old people here from the 80s and before?

I have one genuine question for survivors- have you ended up having multiple personalities?

I have but it’s not that I am pretending by to be.

When I was little and growing up , my household was very different than what it was shown to the outside world . And we were asked to switch like nothing happened between places , and time and between people as well. Like if we get a visitor or if my family wants to go somewhere or if it’s been night or the next day they would expect me to be a different person in a split sec and not show the actual state of the house or the emotional state.

So growing up my work personality is very different that when I am with friends or with certain people

And by that I mean u whole personality changes, my voice changes , my choice or words and my expression and my whole demeanour changes which is not something under my control. My handwriting changes a lot too

Probably you wouldn’t recognise my in different places if you not take into account my appearance.

Have you experienced something similar? Like you become a new person and it’s very different with and without narcissistic parents being around

The only voice I can hear that says to myself is to calm down it’s no biggie over and over. Because I M either scared/anxious all the time

MS reached out to me last month for two roles and although I was injured I prepared and gave 5 rounds for one role and 2 round for another and I withdrew that role because I understood that the role is not for me, and there was a mismatch in profile and job requirements.

Now I after a couple of weeks I sent a follow up email and as usual there was no reply . Another week in I got an email to set up a 15 mins feedback meeting. Now due to xyz reason I missed that call and send an email again to set up another time.

Have I screwed up my chances of getting selected? I didn’t have much hope when I saw the feedback meeting set and there was no straight forward response of selection/rejection. It’s been more than a month since I gave my interviews and I have no outcome for them.