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I am currently - on weight loss, new job starting coming week, kid bday planning next week, working on a paper, strength traininh in addition to the usual - managing the house, kitchen etc. I am literally seeing myself jumping from one task to the other. I start something and get reminded of oh I have to do that too and thats more urgent so I move to that. Like I want some structure and I definitely want like the feeling of ‘being relaxed’.
How do you guys do it?

My fellow adjuncts, I have been offered to take three courses A, B and C. Now I want to take up C and B but the program leader is insisting on A and B. I just feel that I won’t bring justice to it and plus a lot (a lot) of preparation will go in it. I did tell him my pref. my colleagues are suggesting to just take up A and B and maintain a good relation with the Uni.

I live in a place that is full of bling. People are such sweet talkers and care a shit behind your back. I want to stop meeting all such people socially. I can’t hide my dislike and then questions are asked like ‘are you sad’ ‘did something happen’ - not that they care but because they’re smarter than me in being cunning.
I am done talking with such people.

I had an amazing life till 21. I thought that I was the luckiest person in the world. At 40, I don’t think so anymore. Any advice as to how to make this life of mine better. Thank you.
You can be cruel and rude. Its alright.

Its been more than three weeks to my third and final round with the Provost/Dean. I haven’t heard from the Uni till now.

I have been trying from the last ten months. On and off. I’m almost 40. Practically I should just give up but I’m an over optimistic person. My first born is almost 7 . How does one explain oneself that its over?

Hello we are travelling with our 6.5 yrs old kid to London this week for 7-8 days. We plan to stay around St James street. Following is what we have decided to do (tentatively) -

1. Bus to oxford street
2. london zoo - regent’s park - camden market
3. lunch in covent garden plaza - hamley store
4. london transport musuem
5. tower of london - beefeater tour
6. borough market - strawberry chocolate and thanes river cruise speed boat ride
7. kensington palace - kensington garden
8. diana playground memorial (
9. hyde park

Questions -

1. I know I haven’t locked in a theme park. Any recos?

2. Any more places to add/remove from the itinerary?

3. Any food recos? Heard a lot of good bakeries are in London and we are visiting from the UAE.

4. Please could you throw some light on the weather in London. I saw 30 degrees but feels pleasant.

5. Any other tips are most welcome.

Thank you.

My teaching demo is done. Got a feedback from one panelist that maybe the students will already have left mentally middle of the class. Another panelist said that he liked how I connected the principles to this topic.
So what do you think? Will I get the offer or not? Its been 5 days.

I’m really struggling with a school decision for my daughter who is almost 7.

She is currently in her school where she has been for the last three years. She has almost every single night told us how she didnt want to go to school. We continued in the second year as things improved and she was set but again third year wasn’t great. Academically she is doing fine, and recently her drop-offs and daily routine have actually improved (last 4 weeks to be precise). She does have friends there, but socially there have been ongoing challenges. From my observation (and some teacher feedback), the class dynamics are a bit fixed, with certain groups and some peer conflicts/exclusion that have been affecting her emotionally at times. She is quite sensitive socially and takes friendship issues very deeply. She has singled out and also instances of kicking and pushing happened which when she told us we told the teacher about and it was addressed.

We recently got an offer from another very established, highly reputed school in our area. We visited it, met the teachers, and it seems very structured and strong academically. It also has good long-term prospects for secondary school admissions, which is a factor for us. However, it would mean a complete reset for her socially—new classmates, new environment, and starting from scratch again.

We have already told her about the change, and she had a very emotional reaction. She cried, said she doesn’t want to leave her current friends, and also swung between bargaining and curiosity about the new school. Now she is calmer but still resistant at times.

We are now stuck between:

keeping her in a familiar environment where she has friends but some social difficulties, vs

moving her to a very strong new school where she will have a fresh start but go through a big emotional transition.

I’m really unsure what the right decision is for a child of this age, especially considering her sensitivity to friendships and change.

Thank you for reading such a long post.

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Hello, my kid recently got an offer from DESS OM for Y3. I would love to get your honest feedback (good/bad). How is the level of teaching, infrastructure, bullying, EAPs? We plan to transfer his from another outstanding rated school in Dubai. His current school is massive, collabs with big names etc.

But we are thinking of secondary school options and hence planning to move schools. TIA.

Hello, my kid recently got an offer from DESS OM for Y3. I would love to get your honest feedback (good/bad). How is the level of teaching, infrastructure, bullying, EAPs? We plan to transfer his from another outstanding rated school in Dubai. His current school is massive, collabs with big names etc.

But we are thinking of secondary options and hence planning to move schools. TIA.

Have an upcoming teaching demo. 15 mins demo followed by 15 mins QnA. Have prepared the ppt but not sure whether to consider the panel as participants or as themselves (faculty)? Its online and I would take the same course quite differently offline. Should I email the assumptions like I’m assuming that I’m teaching an undergrad class or something like that?

What are they generally looking at? 15 mins is quite less for a quants teaching presentation. My interview is already one. TIA.

I tried getting an honest feedback on two schools that we are considering for our kid. But the post was removed by reddit filters. Anyone has any idea why? Thanks.

Hello, looking for some honest (good/bad) feedback on NAS DUBAI for year 3.

Hello, looking for any hack that keeps the hair dry. My kid’s hair is back length and we have tried a lot of different swimming caps. Still hair do get wet. I am thinking of putting a showe cap first and then the cap. Does that work? Or maybe any other trick? Thank you.

Any idea which is the bank in UAE for FDs in terms of best interest rate offering. Also, a bank that is considerably safe. TIA.

Hello, I am almost 40 yrs old female trying to conceive. My period has been regular throughout. Any multivitamins or tablets that I should start taking? Or any food items that I should include in my diet? Or breathing exercises/yoga poses?

Basically anything that could help. TIA.

So ny kid threw a lot of hand in my hair and I have washed my hair twice but the sand is still there. Any hacks to be sand-free? Thank you.

My kid’s application is approved and on waiting for Y3 for 2026. I would appreciate any input on how quick or slow does it take to convert. Its for DESS Oud Metha. The school did tell us that its fluid given the present scenario. What to make of it. Also, does the waiting list move during summer vacation like does school communicate to parents during summer break too. TIA.