u/IndividualCalendar81

I just learnt during the womanizer music video, the director had to fight for her to wear clothing in certain scenes and that she was really drug up during it. That grosses me out because what do you mean, you decide that u want ur daughter to be naked during a whole music video and drug her up cus she wasn’t comfortable with it.

And some of the clothing she wore during tours or other music videos during conservatorship were suggestive. (and no if Britney was lucky and picked those clothing for her tour/MV I don’t have a issue with that)

something to add I don’t even really wanna make a case against my abuser but since it happen at a facility the cops gotta get involved

So my abuser knows I made a report on him and now he messaging me stuff like “why do u like to bring me trouble“ “please don’t bring this to my work” and when I told him the thing is done I can’t change it now it “ur right I deserve it“ ”I don’t hate u for reporting me” “pls am sorry” is he guilt tripping me or he actually sorry (btw my abuser was my teacher who tried to have sex with me as a student)

anyone else do this?

I met a boy and I thought he liked me for me and I did too, until I got a lil angry cus he kept speaking sexual stuff to me and when I told him to stop he got upset and said “I thought we were just people who meet at a bar fuck and leave“ I feel like such a piece of meat (btw he never told me that until I ask him to stop sexualizing me. My sex traffickers were right once I sold myself I am just a product now. Why did I have to be the minority of sex trafficking victims I wish I never survive.

so I just learn breaststroke a couple of days ago and I been having issues with timing my teacher said that breaststroke is the hardest stroke timing wise so any advice so I can get better?

so I went to my gym pool due to the fact public pool was close today and when I swam in it burn my throat so badly and I never had a issue with a pool burning my throat, and I am not a mouth breather when swimming is this normal?

So I got bpd and I been having this FP for years, and it been hell! I tried to get over them but I can’t and then they promise all this stuff for me and that they will get me out of an abusive situation I am in.

Then they go back to being mean and ignoring me for almost 2 months! And the cycle continue and honestly I been getting Jodi Arias rage over him and behaviors like her, (no I do not have a plan to harm him it’s just a way to describe how I’ve been feeling) I am tired but when I search up ways to get over a FP they never work! I feel like when mental health websites talk about getting over a FP they usually think tiny oh they been ur FP for a month and not for YEARS almost a decade even.

sorry for the vent I just had a mental down over him like 2 hours ago :<

so basically I been having issues with turning when I am in the middle of the pool treading and wanting to go back to the wall any advice? the main issue is I can’t get into a proper swimming position when trying to go back

Hello so my teacher has been teaching me to keep my head down while swimming, I do not have a problem if I just submerge myself and not swim or move but I start having issues when I swim with head down. I don’t like moving in the water all the splashing and it driving me insane. I feel dumb that all my peers can easily do half a lap while I struggle. any advice because it really killing my drive to continue class and enjoy for swimming.

so recently I just learn how to do a backstroke and I been having issues of staying straight/floating around any advice on this? There’s a random guy I didn’t even ask for advice told me I need to kick harder and use my hands less was he right or? (I also do have a issue with kids being in the lap lane while I try to attempt to do a lap so that probably factor because I’m paranoid I’m gonna hit one)

so I have 30 minute classes 4 days a week and I have gotten really good at swimming for my level, just now I practice by myself for a hour and 30 minutes and I want to go again tomorrow but I don’t want to overdo it, should I take a break or just continue doing it 6x a week?

can you tell me what I can expect from my first lesson, I am very worried I have drowned before even had a person grab my leg and trying to drag me underwater so I am very scared

basically what she said in the tt was “you don’t know her if she was a man you wouldn’t care ur crazy if you defame her“ the thing is, her controversy and stuff that she personally decided to post! Their literal video proof of it?? me personally it honestly really confuse me and like I would still dislike her even if she was a man 🤣

basically she made a video defending her that went “you don’t know her you, don’t have her number if she was a man you wouldn’t care.” me personally it gave me a very bitter taste in my mouth. Because if she was a man, I still wouldn’t like her and the thing is her controversy is not just a she said “she said this“ like there video proof!

so since now we know the people who took Becka were the eyes, can somebody explain why did some of them look like girls? I am thinking it just a production error but I’d anyone has a reason why or know please tell me!

first of all, why is there face cover and why do some of them look like women? Also were the guns? when the eyes were guarding Daisy they had guns out and looked WAYYY DIFFERENT!

But if those are eyes I don’t think she going to die beside the trailer, we gotta remember this when a wife kills their husband they usually blame the handmaid or Martha, Becka could always blame the Martha that help her.

I am surprise it was this intense and good even tho it not the season final. I feel bad for becka tho imagine ur friend who u have a crush on is being distant and then learn what ur dad was doing.

Honestly it was a lot of heartbreak considering I am gay and it already hard to find other gay person, and when u do you have a scarce mindset that can lead to abuse especially in a place like Gileda. It hits home a bit