Confusion about self growth improvement?

Everyone always says that “Once you figure out the pattern in the loop of this situation of yours” then you can change, it what if your highly self aware pattern recognition self could already recognise it from the second go/time it happened but you don’t know to how let it go so something else can happen instead?
(Not sure if this is going to be the right thread that I even select it in, because I’m also confused.)

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 9 hours ago

Snapchat

Ok so we all know about how Snapchat is going to start actually go through the whole deleting the extra storage space in the camera rolls. How do we like prevent it or stop it from deleting all the memories in our camera rolls, because that’s pretty much the only reason I have it now lol, besides the funny n goofy filters ofc lol.
I’ve seen a few people saying to get those usb cable things?

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 10 hours ago

Confusion lol

Why is it that when someone does something bad they always get the praise and attention for it. But when someone good does something yk good lol, they don’t get the general praise for it. Is it because it was originally expected from them? Or for the bad people it’s because those same people wanna befriend them or wtv?

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 1 day ago

Snapchat

Ok so we all know about how Snapchat is going to start actually go through the whole deleting the extra storage space in the camera rolls. How do we like prevent it or stop it from deleting all the memories in our camera rolls, because that’s pretty much the only reason I have it now lol, besides the funny n goofy filters ofc lol.
I’ve seen a few people saying to get those usb cable things?

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 1 day ago

Confused about whether I still count as a fan lol—> can be for any sort of hobby aswell

Hi ok so I’ve ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS been a book love/ a fan of books/reading, whatever you want to call it lol. Anyways you know how Taherah Mafi is now releasing a movie for the Shatter me book series (my inner me is so excited lol.) right I was confused because I’ve been a fan of her since I was 13–> which was when I also found out about her - or when I was 12. Anyways I’m now 17, and I never got round to owning the actual book collection lol, n didn’t feel like reading it online because the physical book in my hands just feels wayyy better rather then reading it online on a virtual screen. Over the last year or two, my love for reading has declined by a lot lol even though I still have sm books that I haven’t read, and IM FINALLY starting a ‘TBR’ list again (which I’ve been doing for the past few months.)
Anyways I tried to start reading again a while back in like March maybe? The book was Lolita, and idk if it was because I just haven’t read in along time it took me like forever just to even get to page 50. So I haven’t read since then n since then I’ve been wanting to get back into reading lol.
Ok sorry for the yapping lol, my point is, —> this can be for literally any sort of fixed hobby/intrest.
Can I still be counted as a fan of shatter me, and other book series that I never got to read but I’m hoping to read online soon?

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 18 days ago

Protest - Poll/Vote for the ban for children under 16 to be removed. Post might be deleted.

We all know why they’re now doing this and shutting down social media for under 16s, and giving 16-18 a time limit. With the whole Epstien Island thing btw.
They’ve already called this next generation: “the kids are doomed.” They’re barely able to form full functioning sentences. And yes of course it’s all going to their ideal plans. So that they make our generation and the next generation that’s growing up watching/ being influenced by us doing nothing.
So shouldn’t we already start taking taking steps into actually letting them know that they can’t?.
It was about, “9/10 parents” who apparently voted for this. So can’t we literally vote against this?
This post might get deleted for obvious reasons, so therefore I mentioned it in the title to.
I hope that our generation can and will do something against this whole thing that they’re doing slowly and think that we’ll just sit down and accept this just like the last generation

u/Initial-Way-4948 — 19 days ago

College or Apprenticeship?

I’m in college in the Uk, and I was wondering if I should do an apprenticeship instead or continue going to college daily.
Originally I couldn’t sit my GCSEs because I was abroad so I sat it in college, and so I was kind of a “loner” but also wasn’t yk? Because I had friends from different classes and the two ppl that
I hung out with in my own class left because of how far it would take to travel lol.
I had one of those career meetings yesterday talking about which path that I’d like to take from the two, n I said apprenticeship. What sucks is because I couldn’t do my GCSEs I didn’t have any meaning I couldn’t do A-levels so now I’m stuck with BTEC lol.
I realised that after the meeting I didn’t want to do an apprenticeship since the course I chose wouldn’t really let me focus on the class work aswell and how I’m already trying to look for a job, because I’ve always had a fear of FOMO lol and since my first year of college sucked i don’t want the next two years to end up being shitty aswell like yk the avg college experience I want to experience that lol.

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 24 days ago

😂😐😐😐

You know how people are always saying shi like
“Oh but your mum was there you/your siblings when you was growing up, possibly without a father aswell lol, but thn you later on realise in life that your mom is also just as much as bitch, and people are always saying some bs like “ok so? She was there do you and provided everything for you, she even gave you birth.”
And no matter how calm you try to be around her, because being kind to her just feels way to fucking cringey and then when you finally have enough money and people are like “hey but you should also give your mother money aswell because of how she raised you up your whole life.” So you decide to give her a decent amount of money and then that’s it and you’ll never give any again or wtv, because you probably want to move out of that place or wtv, what does that make you then?
(Sorry if this sounded confusing lol.)

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 25 days ago

Self worth?

So I’ve become sort of spiritual lol, and idk I think agnostic? (Well I wouldn’t call myself agnostic—> actually idek what to call myself lol.) I mean I don’t even want to say that I am agnostic lol, but I think the last year or two (mostly last year though because I think that that’s how I started my spiritual journey through physcosis lol)
And yk when you ask God for a specific thing like for example “hey God, if I’m going to get a job within two weeks to 3 months, please let it hail (the weather lol). Uhm yeah every time I asked, it came true lol,and now I feel like I’m just being selfish and taking and using God for granted and now idk what to do because I feel disgusted, yet I still decide to question God.

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 27 days ago

Sports/ or afterschool curriculars

Is there any sort of clubs happening Birmingham Uk (or just somewhere in the West Midlands I suppose lol) that are doing things like these, because I feel like especially for basketball, I haven’t really played it as much as everyone ik was either not into it or had some sort of trauma with the sport because they’d get hit in the face lol😂😂.
Idm it could be something like knitting, to sports, to gardening lol! I’m looking to try something new

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 27 days ago

Friendship and summertime

Anyone who’s in the Uk willing to be friends? I’m F17 and looking for around 16-22? , especially for the summer lol, I’d love to expand my area in hobbies and try out new things, for starters I’ve always been into adrenaline and I really love urbex. I’m willing to pick up on new hobbies or wtv!

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 29 days ago
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Ugh no one’s hiring!

Curious if people are actually even promoting it or they’re just doing it as a marketing tactic

So here’s my interview:

Hi so I’m F17, in Birmingham Uk, and I wouldn’t mind what sort of section I’ll do in as-long as it’s part time-> for obvious reasons as-well of course lol, I’m really good at looking after kids/children and babies (I just can’t change the diapers though lmfao)
I can look after pets, I’m good at teamwork and communication, I’m a strong team player who can communicate with others very easily, I can work in fast places —> and stand on my feet for that long time, I’m confident with the way I talk and how I hold my presence, whilst being comfortable talking to customers, working with teammates, and taking feedback. Im also able to speak up to atleast 4-5 languages (not fluent though ofc-> but learning.)
I can also do it on weekends and in the summer

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 29 days ago
▲ 2 r/UKJobs

Ugh no one’s hiring!

Curious if people are actually even hiring or they’re just doing it as a marketing tactic

So here’s my interview:

Hi so I’m F17, in Birmingham Uk, and I wouldn’t mind what sort of section I’ll work in as-long as it’s part time-> for obvious reasons as-well of course lol, I’m really good at looking after kids/children and babies (I just can’t change the diapers though lmfao)
I can look after pets, I’m good at teamwork and communication, I’m a strong team player who can communicate with others very easily, I can work in fast places —> and stand on my feet for that long time, I’m confident with the way I talk and how I hold my presence, whilst being comfortable talking to customers, working with teammates, and taking feedback. Im also able to speak up to atleast 4-5 languages (not fluent though ofc-> but learning.)

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 29 days ago

Spirituality?

Ok so last year I figured out and found out that I got physcosis from a friend after telling her what I was experiencing lol. Fast forward to now, I think late January or February, I got spiritual? Idk if you would call it spirituality but out of nowhere lol I just started getting reels on my fyp on insta talking about tarot cards n so I go interested n invested in them lol, I got invested in it mostly because it seemed pretty right lol, anyways fast forward to now, a guy tha I hadn’t talked to in like a year or two, and if we did it was like 2-3 sentences between the two of us every 3 months lol, anyways he came back into my life around the 1st of June lol, and I’m most definitely sure that he’s trying to confess his feelings for me lol (my intuition is high so I’ve always known that he’s liked me even before we stopped communicating lol.) I also know that his friends are in on it too, since they keep asking me if I’ve talked to him yet lol. The tarot cards keep and have been telling me for the past month or two lol? (Idk lol I need to rewatch the tarot videos that I have saved on my account and actually rewatch them now because it could be about him lol.)
The tarot cards keep talking about something along the lines of a “past lover” and a new lover lol. Since he came back into my life on June 1st i just haven’t been feeling any sort of connection or love towards him lol, i mean i did at first back when we first met, but I just think that it’s very one sided lol, and the videos are like always captioned as “don’t skip out!” Or “you two will be very happy together” lol. Sorry ik that this is just a stupid yap lol, but I want to know what would happen if I did miss out on this chance because it’s very one sided now lol

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 1 month ago

Zombies and Korea

Hi so I’m F17 (idk if this part was even necessary lol) but I’ve always been into conspiracy theories and everything lol, last year around the summer I got physcosis, so I became paranoid and everything lol.
So that made me get scared and be on high alert pretty much 24/7 lol feeling schizophrenic n everything lol.
Anyways what my point is lol, ever since 2020, South Korea has ALWAYS been uploading atleast one zombie movie/show a year, and I’ve been wondering ever since 2021 what the hell was up with that lol, since I was like “oh ok great now ima wait until 2022->2023 etc to see if another zombie movie from Korea would come out” and it did lol, idk if it could just be me and how I overthink everything lol, but I’ve genuinely never heard anyone talk about this before lol, so I feel like hearing your guys opinions on this would be really cool lol.
Also this post might get deleted since it’s not I. The right category or wtv lol (I’m new to posting on Reddit lol)

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 1 month ago
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Anime events in Birmingham Uk.

Hey! So ik that this post is just a tad bit wayy too late lol.
Anyways is anyone from Birmingham (United kingdom, not the USA lol, and anyone who’s possibly attending the anime con in June from the 11-14 or possibly in August around the 4/5?? I have a friend who said she’d watch the show that i suggested (AOT) and that we can go together and cosplay together but idk, the friendships growing apart n everything lol, and i kinda wanna have some more friends in the anime community lol, especially ones that i can cosplay with and hangout with lol

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u/Initial-Way-4948 — 2 months ago