Confusion about self growth improvement?
Everyone always says that “Once you figure out the pattern in the loop of this situation of yours” then you can change, it what if your highly self aware pattern recognition self could already recognise it from the second go/time it happened but you don’t know to how let it go so something else can happen instead?
(Not sure if this is going to be the right thread that I even select it in, because I’m also confused.)