I've really grown to hate this job. So I had a kid accuse me calling him gay. I made a point to say multiple times I was not calling him gay, I was not calling him bi, I was not saying anything about that. I was more worried about how this could blow up in my face so I tried everything to move on quickly
Fast forward two weeks. I wrote the same student up for disrupting my class. Apparently my comments two weeks ago upset him so much he needed to wait until he got in trouble to mention them. Except now he's all about how I totally called him gay, or bi, or both it doesn't matter.
The son's redneck father came to my school, to speak to me. I told him I'll be honest, I don't want to lose my freaking job, I will tell him whatever he wants. He reports to my principal I swore at him, because of course he did.
So I explained everything, even pointing out as a gay man I would NEVER use those terms as an insult. That got reported too as a bad thing. Now we're hitting one major reason for this. Dad and son are bigots. Isn't it nice when your job can get threatened because parents are hateful?
The dad before he left told me he knew nothing about English but "I know a lot about psychology" (no he didn't) and told me I was a liar because I looked nervous. Why would I be nervous, I had to waste my planning period to talk to the parent of an asshole because they've now decided two weeks ago I upset their kid again so much he didn't mention it until he got in trouble.
I'm going to look for an exit. I can't do this. Or in more honest words, Fuck this Shit, I'm Out.