u/Jellli_Star

I feel like I keep getting typed as e7 by others because I’m an ENFP and Ne dom but I relate alot more to So9 or in general e9. I had a convo with a friend earlier and she was talking about how she likes keeping busy and physically doing something as a way of ignoring her emotions but I feel like I relate more to e9 and space out or keep a mind numbing routine. I can answer any questions in the comments since this is pretty vague

I have posted before but I mainly got a mix of either type 7 or 9 so I’m making a better post (sorry for the reposts)

I am a ENFP(maybe ENTP) gal who’s 80% sure she has ADHD or OCD (my sisters already got diagnosed with one). I enjoy making art and chilling in bed, I feel pretty lost when it comes to the future especially for an ENFP and usually get stuck in toxic friendships

I was raised in a religious household but never really became religious but I do hold onto it for comfort in a way. My mom is strict and flawed, her anger is predictable but it still affects me and feel like she’s rubbed off on me. We don’t argue a lot it’s mainly passive aggressive banter that fizzles out. I feel like I can’t go for them for advice often sticking with my older sister for anything emotional

I prefer to be out and about but I quickly get tired if I have to actually interact with others (almost had a metal breakdown after my cousin kept bringing me into trying new stuff and socializing). Don’t get me wrong I don’t like being alone and I like doing new stuff just at my own pace. I will stand my ground if somebody tries to push me a little too hard like trying new food, it’s usually read as an overreaction though.

I mainly enjoy drawing and creating art in the comfort of my bed. But I do love a good walk outside or in the city, I’ve always found myself drawn to nature and love going camping. The road trip is my favorite part, I like just looking outside the window and blasting music. I would call myself curious mainly as to how stuff works and for the hell of it. I do enjoy a good mystery though and don’t hold myself to logic (I highly recommend The Complete Unexplainable/Incomprehensible Iceberg by Gordonconafa)

I like shoving my negative emotions in my head and saving them for later to avoid spiraling about what ifs and other stupid shit (genuinely blasting Matt rose in the shower to avoid thinking). I avoid conflict and confrontation like the plague especially inbetween friends, I dread the thought of being alone and have a hard time expressing my thoughts often being forgotten and left behind. But I will call out my friend if I think they’re being stupid about something (hypocrite I know). I also have a hard time picking sides in a conflict between friends especially if it’s about something stupid

I’m an A+ procrastinator about anything, homework, mental health, cleaning, literally everything and anything and I know I’m procrastinating too and I hate it. I don’t get how others have their roster full as soon as i get home I’m dead to the world, I’m also very iron deficient so that definitely has something to do with it. I also have a mentality of acceptance but crippling anxiety sneaks in there.

I over share and impulsively talk a lot but I can also be quiet and zoned out, I will say “huh” atleast twice a day. I can talk on and on about my a million interests that switch out every once in a while. I wear the weird kid patch on my chest with pride and my clothes consists of band baggy tees and sweat pants.

My art mainly consists of fanart but I do dable in writing and sewing (it’s a 50/50 chance I finish it or not) I also highly enjoy birdwatching with my shitty I phone camera and taking random photos of stuff I deem pretty. I enjoy chemistry and space exploration and a whole bunch of random stuff like historical facts

In terms of socializing I enjoy making new friends and conversating I also like helping others if I can. I usually try my best to “lead” during group projects even if I don’t like the other people. I can easily admit I’m wrong and I’m not one to be competitive. My opinions and personality is not something I keep hidden from others and I can be blunt and rude but it’s not something I’m proud of.

Emotions are weird to me I would call myself a mellow person but I know I have outbursts of childish stubbornness and passive aggressiveness, I feel like I react to a lot of things angrily but have a hard time expressing that anger. I often just angrily stand there seething in anger I don’t know what to do with.

Lmk if you need anything cleared up (don’t mind me reposting it alot I feel like I had to clean some stuff up cause I made this originally at 3am)

I have posted before but I mainly got a mix of either type 7 or 9 so I’m making a better post

I am a ENFP(maybe ENTP) gal who’s 80% sure she has ADHD or OCD. I enjoy making art and chilling in bed, I feel like I don’t have any real friends and I have no idea what I’m going to actually do with my life 🙂

I was raised in a religious household but never really became religious but I do hold onto it for comfort in a way. My mom is strict and flawed, her anger is predictable but it still affects me and feel like she’s rubbed off on me. We don’t argue a lot it’s mainly passive aggressive banter that fizzles out

I prefer to be out and about but I quickly get tired if I have to actually interact with others (almost had a metal breakdown after my cousin kept bringing me into trying new stuff and socializing). Don’t get me wrong I don’t like being alone and I like doing new stuff just at my own pace. I will stand my ground if somebody tries to push me a little too hard like trying new food, it’s usually read as an overreaction though

I mainly enjoy drawing and creating art in the comfort of my bed. But I do love a good walk outside or in the city, I’ve always found myself drawn to nature and love going camping. The road trip is my favorite part, I like just looking outside the window and blasting music. I would call myself curious mainly as to how stuff works and for the hell of it. I do enjoy a good mystery though and don’t hold myself to logic (I highly recommend The Complete Unexplainable/Incomprehensible Iceberg by Gordonconafa)

I like shoving my negative emotions in my head and saving them for later to avoid spiraling about what ifs and other stupid shit (genuinely blasting Matt rose in the shower to avoid thinking). I avoid conflict and confrontation like the plague especially inbetween friends, I dread the thought of being alone and have a hard time expressing my thoughts often being forgotten and left behind. But I will call out my friend if I think they’re being stupid about something (hypocrite I know). I also have a hard time picking sides in a conflict between friends

I’m an A+ procrastinator about anything, homework, mental health, cleaning, literally everything and anything and I know I’m procrastinating too and I hate it. I don’t get how others have their roster full as soon as i get home I’m dead to the world, I’m also very iron deficient so that definitely has something to do with it.

I over share and impulsively talk a lot but I can also be quiet and zoned out, I will say “huh” atleast twice a day. I can talk on and on about my a million interests that switch out every once in a while. I wear the weird kid patch on my chest with pride and my clothes consists of band baggy tees and sweat pants.

My art mainly consists of fanart but I do dable in writing and sewing (it’s a 50/50 chance I finish it or not) I also highly enjoy birdwatching with my shitty I phone camera and taking random photos of stuff I deem pretty. I enjoy chemistry and space exploration and a whole bunch of random stuff like historical facts

In terms of socializing I enjoy making new friends and conversating I also like helping others if I can. I usually try my best to “lead” during group projects even if I don’t like the other people. I can easily admit I’m wrong and I’m not one to be competitive. My opinions and personality is not something I keep hidden from others and I can be blunt and rude but it’s not something I do with malice and I usually apologize afterward or it’ll eat me up afterward.

Lmk if you need anything cleared up but I think this is enough yapping for tonight :)

I have posted before but I mainly got a mix of either type 7 or 9 so I’m making a better post

I am a ENFP(maybe ENTP) gal who’s 80% sure she has ADHD of OCD. I enjoy making art and chilling in bed, I feel like I don’t have any real friends and I have no idea what I’m going to actually do with my life 🙂

I was raised in a religious household but never really became religious but I do hold onto it for comfort in a way. My mom is strict and flawed, her anger is predictable but it still affects me and feel like she’s rubbed off on me. We don’t argue a lot it’s mainly passive aggressive banter that fizzles out

I prefer to be out and about but I quickly get tired if I have to actually interact with others (almost had a metal breakdown after my cousin kept bringing me into trying new stuff and socializing). Don’t get me wrong I don’t like being alone and I like doing new stuff just at my own pace. I will stand my ground if somebody tries to push me a little too hard like trying new food, it’s usually read as an overreaction though

I mainly enjoy drawing and creating art in the comfort of my bed. But I do love a good walk outside or in the city, I’ve always found myself drawn to nature and love going camping. The road trip is my favorite part, I like just looking outside the window and blasting music. I would call myself curious mainly as to how stuff works and for the hell of it. I do enjoy a good mystery though and don’t hold myself to logic (I highly recommend The Complete Unexplainable/Incomprehensible Iceberg by Gordonconafa)

I like shoving my negative emotions in my head and saving them for later to avoid spiraling about what ifs and other stupid shit (genuinely blasting Matt rose in the shower to avoid thinking). I avoid conflict and confrontation like the plague especially inbetween friends, I dread the thought of being alone and have a hard time expressing my thoughts often being forgotten and left behind. But I will call out my friend if I think they’re being stupid about something (hypocrite I know). I also have a hard time picking sides in a conflict between friends

I’m an A+ procrastinator about anything, homework, mental health, cleaning, literally everything and anything and I know I’m procrastinating too and I hate it. I don’t get how others have their roster full as soon as i get home I’m dead to the world, I’m also very iron deficient so that definitely has something to do with it.

I over share and impulsively talk a lot but I can also be quiet and zoned out, I will say “huh” atleast twice a day. I can talk on and on about my a million interests that switch out every once in a while. I wear the weird kid patch on my chest with pride and my clothes consists of band baggy tees and sweat pants.

My art mainly consists of fanart but I do dable in writing and sewing (it’s a 50/50 chance I finish it or not) I also highly enjoy birdwatching with my shitty I phone camera and taking random photos of stuff I deem pretty. I enjoy chemistry and space exploration and a whole bunch of random stuff like historical facts

In terms of socializing I enjoy making new friends and conversating I also like helping others if I can. I usually try my best to “lead” during group projects even if I don’t like the other people. I can easily admit I’m wrong and I’m not one to be competitive. My opinions and personality is not something I keep hidden from others and I can be blunt and rude but it’s not something I do with malice and I usually apologize afterward or it’ll eat me up afterward.

Lmk if you need anything cleared up but I think this is enough yapping for tonight :)

Hi! I am hoping to start making my own bras soon but a bit overwhelmed with the options lol. My best fitting bra currently is 70F bibi bm balconette by Ewa Michalak, it’s the most tiniest bit big on me but the most supportive.

I have a decent amount of projection due to the fact I have 0 boob underneath my armpit, and they practically resemble a shelf due to the fact they are self supporting and immediately projected.

I don’t really have a preference for looks so as long as it’s supporting I don’t really care 👍

This is just what I’ve observed from the two of them I have my dads kinda down but not my moms :). They are both immigrants and are stressed 80% of the time for context.

Me and my mom have never really gotten along (ENFP here) she prefers a clean and tidy environment and is very much imaged based, despising the fact me and my sister are emotional. Her anger is explosive and unreasonable but give her some time and she does a 360, apologizing and saying she’ll never do it again. She takes charge most of the time making sure her opinion is known and never letting anybody try to silence her (she got married to my dad because her dad pissed her off for Christ sake 😭). She also doesn’t take her health seriously often overworking herself and brushing it off as not a big problem. I never really go for her for advice as she usually just ends up belittling me about it. I wouldn’t be surprised if she was in a loop.

My dads practically the opposite of her, he’s more chill and understanding. He usually allows my mom to take the wheel often taking her side, having a hard time being confrontational unless he’s like really mad or has had enough of her. I find talking to him being easier than my mom, he likes to go on random tangents about stuff like I do. While he’s not exactly a traditional extrovert he likes to be the life of the party, saying that he always went to parties to dance. He also takes our interests to heart, his way of showing love being gift giving.

While are very different they’ve been together for 20+yrs with no real arguments. I think they are meant for eachother in a baffling way.

Repost with a better title

Im back with another Ted talk, I just watched the movie and binge watched Kane’s series and I have alot to say about its connections to cognitive functions as an ENFP 😼. (This won’t contain any full spoilers about what happened but more of the vibe and what I felt I won’t say anything that isn’t already talked about in the YouTube series)

I fully enjoyed the movie as a non horror fan 10/10 for me. It’s more psychological horror than a movie that is scary by jumpscares and action and I think that’s why it resonated with me (auxiliary fi). What also gets to me and makes my skin crawl was the fact that The Backrooms itself was nostalgic in a way that is fundamentally wrong.

I’ve always had trouble with remembering stuff wrong or worrying that my memories aren’t real (inferior si) but there are pieces of reality in there and some places are more detailed than others, the house shown in the series (FF3) where the two can communicate through a null zone for example but it’s still off; the time period. A big thing about this movie is change (Dominant Ne) the Backrooms itself is a constantly evolving and changing but the connections are abstract and nonsensical. But there is also still a sort of logic to it (inferior Te) as shown in the series where they cut into a ceiling tile and it looks like a normal ceiling with wires and air duct.

The characters are flawed and very real with traumas and faults which I think is part of the reason it’s being so hated. It makes you sit down and really think after but I wouldn’t call it nonsensical like others are. Anyways I highly recommend either watching the movie or series, I’ve never seen a horror movie like it. :)

(A lil bit of a repost)
Kinda in honor of the back rooms movie coming out next week (I’m so exciteddd)

Tw: dissociation kinda??

I’ve always been obsessed with urban exploration and love YouTubers like The Proper People and exploring with Josh, just the idea of going to a place where nobody’s been in years or where nobody is supposed to go is so interesting to me. Especially whenever the history of the place and why it was abandoned is known and explained.

It’s always been a dream of mine to just explore places like those with friends, I used to go with some family friends to places similar (definitely trespassing lol) but I barley have a grasp on those memories but they were always so scenic and surreal on a way I can’t describe.

Liminal spaces scratch the itch in my brain in the same way except they’re much more mysterious and can lead my brain to wander a little too much. The backrooms as a concept in general is so interesting but with constant “what ifing?” I usually have to pull my brain out of panicking about no clipping out of of reality, I’m already barley on the plane of reality most of the time no need to make to worse.

The phycology of liminal spaces and places that seem familiar and nostalgic when you’ve never seen it is also intriguing. Liminal spaces are inbetween spaces and can be places but also times in your life. It also overlaps a lot with the concept of Déjà vu which I’ve personally experienced and it’s such a bizarre thing.

Anyways thanks for coming to my ted talk and a little virtual slap if you’re feeling out of it :). I’m curious if anybody relates

This is kinda silly but I have a habit of just not being able to English correctly, I already have a shitty time articulating words but my mouth works like 10x quicker than my brain. This often leads of me repeating words until I find a way for them to make sense or mixing up certain phrases. Or I’ll ask a stupid question and answer it for them like a couple seconds later.

Honestly with how quick I speak + my shitty articulating of words my friends either A don’t know wtf I just said or B thinks I said something totally different. If anybody has seen clips from The Basement Yard (a really funny podcast) I feel like those clips where neither of them make any sense to the other lmao.

Ok so to start I am an ENFP type 2w3 who gets highly attached to others and has a hard time being alone. I am currently living with a friend who I love to be with don’t get me wrong but she’s very very I guess irritable and we often get in conflict.

I don’t know her mbti but she’s very much a confident leader who wants order and knows what she wants. But I am practically the opposite who has a hard time following orders and it irritates her a lot and causes her to get angry and frustrated at me. She often does everything herself because she doesn’t ask me to do it and just expects me to but I need to be told what to do and given time.

Her jokes are also very “haha bullying” but it often pokes a sore spot like the fact she’s younger than me yet is so much more “mature”. I try to pretend they don’t hurt me but they really do, it feels like I’m getting dragged through the dirt behind her. She’s also very meticulous about trivial stuff while I overthink she’s like overthinking squared like I don’t care a lot about farting or burping but she acts like I genuinely shat in Cheerios. She’s also much more popular and follows conventional aesthetics and doesn’t ponder about life like I do.

She’s also very controlling often being like “I’m going to genuinely kill you if you watch it without me” like I know she’s joking but it’s a little too intense for me. Another thing she says often is “you’re so odd” which I know is meant to be teasing but it feels like she’s poking fun at me. Her values and morals are much more different than mine and it often leads to arguments, I don’t really care about her being religious but when it comes to SHEIN, AI, and miss information in general I usually try to bring it up and she’s like “whatever” and I’m not like a person who’s particularly very high and mighty about it but it can still cause arguments.

It’s just so exhausting and I often cry about it but I’m so conflicted because I love hanging out with her. And I think it mainly stems from the fact nobody really talks to me after school except for my sister who comes home at 9.

(Sorry for the rant I just wanted to get this off my chest and I feel very at home in this sub)