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I'm currently in my placement year and so far few companies have visited our college now and i haven't done as much as i thought i would in those companies. I went through 3 drives and in one of them i got to the last round which is the personal interview round but i got so nervous in front of the interviewer that i actually started sweating and i was stammering even in the basic questions which I've been preparing for a while also in one question where the interviewer asked me to explain any topic in under 30 seconds, i went completely blank , nothing was coming to my mind at that moment.

Question from early 20s population what do you do when you feel extremely overwhelmed, seeing everything that's going around you like parents getting aged and having extremely high expectations, the 20 year old building a business earning in lakhs, people enjoying their life doing parties, travelling, and so on , or somebody from your childhood is already married and started a family while you're here building your life from scratch no roadmaps , no guidance, no god father just you and struggle.

I'm not some old user of reddit I'm new here but i have heard a lot about reddit like there is no restriction we can post anything. Reddit is somehow connected to the dark web everything is anonymous etc. But it's nothing like in fact it's more restrictive than any other platform don't mind I'm not complaining about reddit as a whole because obviously the purpose of reddit is clear and it's doing it's best but the restrictions on every subreddit like fr whatever i post somehow gets removed by moderator even some posts gets a good amount of views still they get removed by moderator and many subreddits doesn't even approves the post and it's not like I'm posting some wrong stuff you can just scroll through my profile it's mostly about tech and advices related to that and still most of my posts gets banned after few hours or even worse never gets approved idk what should i think. Am i doing something wrong? Or am i missing something? I get it every subreddit has rules but aren't those rules much more restrictive than it needed to be?

The audacity of indians to shame other countries for not surviving the heatwaves is unreal you all are glorifying our country for going through 50°c which is not normal and calling out Europe for not handling heat properly let me tell the heatwave there is much more harsh then in india not because the temperature but because of the environment, not polluted air and most of all the infrastructure there is designed to survive cold more than heat if indian goes through excess cold the same is going to happen here too it's so dumb of people to making fun of country just to glorify your own struggle. And this is not the first time we literally glorify everything bad happening to us some other country has dirty water due to data centers and indians are like ye to humare delhi ka normal pani? Bro that is the issue when every country has standards why don't we? Why are we on Survival mode instead of questioning the government? Those countries literally provide for people and hence the inconvenience feels like revolting against the government. But in our country the condition is so bad that instead of questioning the government we find ways to survive it because everything takes water , air , education, infrastructure everything is so bad that how many things we're going to question so instead we just find ways to cope with it. It's high time we should start questioning instead of living on survival always.

Tomorrow is my first face to face interview and I'm quite nervous although i have given mock interviews in college but still and today was also my mock interview it was online but i don't know i was so nervous even today during technical round although hr round was pretty good for me but during technical round i was getting so nervous that i forgot things and somehow got confused and answered wrong even after knowing the answers any suggestions on what and what not to do tomorrow and is it normal?

As a fresher developer i have skilled myself in my domain but still while working with a large codebase of some client i get confused over the code and layout also sometimes i just get stuck on a bug and the hours passes i couldn't find any resolution even after using all the resources google , ai , notes everything. And then i ask that from a mentor and the resolution is literally the most basic error correction. Is it normal or am i lacking in my skill and if i am please tell me what I should do to make it right.

Hello I'm 21(F) currently in college with an internship side by side i want to start investing idk why i just heard and saw too many videos about the benefits of it and i even tried to learn something about it through YouTube but all the videos are not very beginner friendly and i come from science background so i literally have 0 knowledge of finance if you can help me out please tell me where and how do i start anything you know about SIP , mutual funds , investments you can explain me in a little bit easier and more familiar terms that would be great.

Thank you.

If you were in college right now in the final year what would you do to or learn to get the best of your placement drives?

Hey everyone so I'm currently in my 3rd year of engineering and currently doing an internship work from home and my sister is 19 she's recently given NEET exam and all the drama around you'll must know and i actually didn't wanted to come back home for internship but i felt guilty for not spending enough time with my parents and also the financial burden of living in another city the internship is paid but not enough to live in other city completely on my own and also my parents love me and they were missing me so much that almost everyday they used to ask that when I'm coming back home again so i came back to home .

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And the first month was pretty okay but I'm no longer habitual of anything going around now, the continuous pressure, daily taunts of not doing enough, fights, parents frustrating over others and taking all that out on me and my sister . Being a girl my dad has always been protective for both of us but the overprotectiveness is also harmful sometimes as now he's also tired of protecting but he doesn't want to change and that's frustrating for him as well as for us . Like not letting us travel to cities for our work alone and after traveling with us taunting for not doing enough. He has to travel to another city because of exam centers 2-3 times in a month and also he has to travel with me to which i told him that I'll manage myself but he still came with me for my placement drive which was the very first drive and obviously i couldn't clear it and he was so frustrated about it but he couldn't say it directly so after coming back to home he just started shouting over different things .

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Tbh i get it the frustration is real but what's our fault in it if we can't earn without a job we ain't the son who'll sit with him at shop? And he even never let us go out of our ways to do something and expects us to do everything at such a young age that too with a straight path of studying and job? And when we make some kind of mistake even if it's not related to education and all the blame goes to it like what's the purpose of education when we can't even do this? It's literally his words on everything even on the smallest mistakes he's like " kisi kaam ki nahi h pdhai likhai tumhari padhe likhe gawar ho tum" is this a way to talk?

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Before coming here i was feeling guilty for not spending enough time with them and now i feel guilty why i came back when i knew this would come.

I go first - AKHIL REDHU is the name of singer and oh my god the lyrics of almost every song hits so hard idk if you've heard his songs but if you haven't started yet start with "live without regret" i bet you'll be obsessed with lyrics as i am and most of song lyrics are too good to be missed out .

There is a cousin who's the daughter of my father's first cousin her mom used to be so egoistic and her daughter since childhood was a very loose character girl I know i shouldn't say this but wait it will be justified till the end. So the very first time someone caught her was when she was in 8th grade when in the name of coaching she went to a park with a guy and her uncle's friend saw her and her aunt caught her red handed now i know it's not a big deal but it was just the start . After this incident her brother used to drop her coaching.

Cut to a few years later one day we all cousins were at their home we used to have night stays there so her elder brother was just going through her mom's phone (Smartphones were not that common but not that rare also) he opened chrome for something else but found out her instagram id was logged in and so many guys were in her dm and even worse she sent n*des to some of them now this was when she was in 9th grade perhaps she said the n*des were not hers they were downloaded from google but who knows, after this her brother beaten her up a lot .

Cut to a year later me and one of the other cousins used to go for dance classes and we somehow convinced her mother to send her too with us . And after a few weeks i left the dance classes because I didn't find it useful or worth it but both of them continued so there were 2 male dance teachers that cousin started talking to one of them she even tried to pull the other one for another dance teacher and she almost got into it but she saved herself but that cousin was already into him she used to talk to him at night from her dadi's phone her dadi had a jio keypad phone she used to message on facebook from that phone and the other cousin's father caught her again red handed . And this time he not only made her leave the dance classes he also asked her to stay away from his daughter btw the two brothers used to live in a duplex where the upper floor was of the elder brother and the group floor was of the younger brother and parents. So he asked his daughter to stay away from now . They both grew up together like sisters and now they are not allowed to meet each other .

Cut to one or two years later this girl was caught in a cafe raid with some guy it was all over the newspaper and her parents were embarrassed her brother stopped talking to her completely. But this was not the end

The very next year after Diwali she left her home and ran away with her lover and this was not the end . Her father's real brother cut off all ties from their family. They had to leave that duplex and settle somewhere else overnight and her real brother hated her so much . Even her father never talked to her after that. Her mother after a few months started talking to her on phone calls but his father never did neither his brother

There's more to the story I'll post the other half only if i see people interested in it to know more.