Looking for books that have a blend of Praise & Degradation

I love a praise kink, and I love some degradation, but what I love is when they get mixed together like the chocolate and vanilla of a swirl soft serve ice cream cone.

Some examples (not drawn from any sources in particular) would be:

“You’re such a good little fuck toy.”

“You’re quite the anal whore, taking my [phallic object] so well.”

“Be a good slut for me, baby, and I’ll give you a reward.”

FF preferred, MF, acceptable

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u/Kumirkohr — 1 day ago

Looking for two songs by a singer-songwriter who was a contestant on a reality dating show about 5-6 years ago.

We can’t remember the guy’s name or what his song’s were called, but at least one of them went viral on TikTok. It was upbeat, either a guitar or ukulele.

My wife and I swear the show was called *Perfect Match*, but it was on Discovery+ and not the *Perfect Match* that’s on Netflix which started airing in 2023. The contestants all answered a questionnaire when they were cast and then production paired them off white whoever they were most compatible with except they kept the pairings a secret and the game was that the contestants had to figured out who their “Perfect Match” was.

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u/Kumirkohr — 6 days ago

Looking for two songs by a singer-songwriter who was a contestant on a reality dating show about 5-6 years ago.

We can’t remember the guy’s name or what his song’s were called, but at least one of them went viral on TikTok. It was upbeat, either a guitar or ukulele.

My wife and I swear the show was called Perfect Match, but it was on Discovery+ and not the Perfect Match that’s on Netflix which started airing in 2023. The contestants all answered a questionnaire when they were cast and then production paired them off white whoever they were most compatible with except they kept the pairings a secret and the game was that the contestants had to figured out who their “Perfect Match” was.

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u/Kumirkohr — 6 days ago

Looking for two songs by a singer-songwriter who was a contestant on a reality dating show about 5-6 years ago.

We can’t remember the guy’s name or what his song’s were called, but at least one of them went viral on TikTok. It was upbeat, either a guitar or ukulele.

My wife and I swear the show was called Perfect Match, but it was on Discovery+ and not the Perfect Match that’s on Netflix which started airing in 2023. The contestants all answered a questionnaire when they were cast and then production paired them off white whoever they were most compatible with except they kept the pairings a secret and the game was that the contestants had to figured out who their “Perfect Match” was.

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u/Kumirkohr — 7 days ago

Looking for books where the MC comes out to her parents and it does not go well.

I’m feeling angsty and need recs with the energy that Violet had when she screamed at her mother “I! AM! A! LESBIAN!!!”

Books where a theme is “familial bonds are choices you don’t have to keep choosing”

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u/Kumirkohr — 8 days ago

Sapphic romance/erotica with breeding kink? “Just because we can’t, doesn’t mean we won’t try.”

Inspired by a post here from a lost Redditor, I’m now looking for what might not exist: stories involving women want to impregnate/be impregnated by other women. (What would you even call this? FemPreg?)

Whether or not they succeed is entirely moot. I just need them to try.

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u/Kumirkohr — 14 days ago

So when we say “Coke Can Cock”, which can dimension are we talking about? Assuming 12fl.oz.

We’ve all heard it, we’ve all seen it, but what are we talking about?

The “traditional” can with a height of 4.83” (122.7mm) and a diameter of 2.6” (66mm)

Or

The new “sleek” can with a height of 6.125” (155.7mm) and a diameter of 2.25” (57.2mm)

u/Kumirkohr — 17 days ago

Books that take place, at least in part, at a Renaissance Fair?

Ren Fare season is upon us, so I’m looking for romance books where they have a run in at such an event.

Preferably with one of them in wench attire which flusters the other one.

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u/Kumirkohr — 20 days ago

Looking for books with a throuple, triad, or other poly relationship where none of the other characters know each other well before the start of the book.

Every poly book I’ve read so far involves a pre-existing couple finding their third or is a harem/reverse harem/open relationship situation where a non-zero amount of the others are either involved, were previously involved, or know each other well.

{*Forever Theirs* by Anna Stone}

{*Indigo: Three* by Adrian J. Smith}

{*Triple Sec* by TJ Alexander}

{*Nights of Silk and Sapphire* by Amber Jacobs}

{*Voyeur* by Nicole Pyland}

So I’m looking for books where, ideally, none of them have met before or at the very least don’t know each other that well.

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u/Kumirkohr — 24 days ago

Books with a throuple, triad, or other poly relationship where none of the characters know each other well before the start of the book?

Every poly book I’ve read so far involves a pre-existing couple finding their third or is a harem/reverse harem/open relationship situation where a non-zero amount of the others are either involved, were previously involved, or know each other well.

{Forever Theirs by Anna Stone}

{Indigo: Three by Adrian J. Smith}

{Triple Sec by TJ Alexander}

{Nights of Silk and Sapphire by Amber Jacobs}

{Voyeur by Nicole Pyland}

{A Lady of Rooksgrave Manor by Kathryn Moon}

{An Inheritance of Monsters by Cate Corvin}

So I’m looking for books where, ideally, none of them have met before or at the very least don’t know each other that well.

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u/Kumirkohr — 24 days ago

Books with an MC who’s a vagrant or drifter, maybe lives in a van.

Looking for books about a character who’s always on the move until they finally settle in one place for someone, or convince that someone to come on the road with them.

I’ve read That Summer Feeling by Bridget Morrissey and Broken Beyond Repair by Emily Banting which both feature MCs who live in vans

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u/Kumirkohr — 27 days ago

Books where the “inciting incident” is an MC finding out they’re being cheated on or are the other person.

Looking for books where an MC has their faith in love destroyed before they find the person who convinces them not to give up.

I’ll take anything, but FF preferred

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u/Kumirkohr — 1 month ago

Contemporary MFF, FFM, M/F/F, MF/F, FF/M, or any other permutation thereof without any “gimmicks”?

I’ve been looking around for romance where the final coupling is between two women and one man, but everything I’ve found so far seems to be either dark romance, fantasy romance, and/or involve BDSM.

I’m not opposed to any of those things, and I’m sure I’ll get around to reading those eventually, but I want to start off with a contemporary, “vanilla” story

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u/Kumirkohr — 1 month ago

Books with the prose of “For Her Consideration” by Amy Spalding, but without the Hollywood setting?

I loved the prose of *For Her Consideration* by Amy Spalding, but I’m somewhere between hesitant and reluctant to finish the rest of the series just because of the Hollywood/LA setting.

I think that between *I Love LA*, *Euphoria* and a half dozen other books set there, I’m a little “SoCal-ed out” as it were.

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u/Kumirkohr — 2 months ago

Books with the prose of “For Her Consideration” by Amy Spalding, but without the Hollywood setting?

I loved the prose of *For Her Consideration* by Amy Spalding, but I’m somewhere between hesitant and reluctant to finish the rest of the series just because of the Hollywood/LA setting.

I think that between *I Love LA*, *Euphoria* and a half dozen other books set there, I’m a little “SoCal-ed out” as it were.

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u/Kumirkohr — 2 months ago

At the risk of committing heresy, I think Longhorn’s Texas Tonion is better than Outback’s Bloomin’ Onion

In an effort to try suburban chain restaurant’s onion offerings, I did back to back nights at steakhouses for the sake of science and these are my findings.

The Tonion is more onion forward in its flavor and “lighter” (as far as deep fried foods go) compared to the Bloomin’ Onion’s heavy use of spiced batter and structure that holds onto a lot of that grease.

The Bloomin’ Onion felt more like a vehicle for the batter than a biblically accurate allium angel but even with my wife’s help we were unable to finish it, and we had to drink a ginger ale each and go through several rounds of Tums when we got home.

But with the Tonion, it’s plate was cleaned (almost entirely by myself as my wife is, for better or worse, not an onion lover) and I wasn’t so bogged down that entrees had to go home in doggie bags.

In conclusion, Texas Tonion > Bloomin’ Onion

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u/Kumirkohr — 2 months ago

Question about Bridget Morrissey’s “Anywhere You Go”

Is this two romance stories sewn together with the final couplings being Tatum & June and Eleanor & Carson, or do Tatum & Eleanor wind up together?

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u/Kumirkohr — 2 months ago

Looking for romances with women fisting women.

Whether it be something she’s never tried or her preferred way to spend a Tuesday night, I am looking for depictions of girl-on-girl fisting action.

F/F and F/NB preferred, FFM+ acceptable

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u/Kumirkohr — 2 months ago

Seeking books with fisting

I’ve been putting this off for months out of embarrassment, but I’m looking for romance novels involving a non-zero amount of fisting.

There’s no tag for this on romance.io, and searching the sub gives no results.

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u/Kumirkohr — 2 months ago