The hashtag "Manon was the problem" is trending on tiktok

Not so surprised but what do u think triggered this?

In my opinion people saw it for what it is. It was indeed a little late to grasp for some people but most people understood it now and stopped blaming the members calling out hybe, Manon's patterns and her parasocial fans bc it gets to point.

Everytime I scroll I see people sharing their perspective saying this is what she wanted. Just fame and no work and others saying if Manon can't speak up and say what her problem is then neither can her bandmates and others irritated at the parasocial behavior ongoing since February. All these losers making tiktok videos abt Manon being the victim will soon regret it.

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u/Lapindahaha — 18 hours ago

Prk on ne parle pas de Djibouti sur ce sub reddit ??

Prk a chaque fois que je vois une publication c'est un sujet autour de la 🇸🇴 on a quasi rien à poster sur notre culture Djiboutienne ?? Genre nous on existe pas ??

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u/Lapindahaha — 2 days ago

I always argued abt Mahr with Muslim women

Which I stopped after being deconstructing

And some may find this not so sympathetic but hear me out. It was my need to constantly defend women from injustice as a woman that got me here but I completely stopped that when it comes to Muslim women bc it's the only group I wouldn't waste my energy on no more to protect my peace.

Now speaking about the Mahr, I was born and raised in the middle east. I don't have 4 ways to say this just the honest way, the Mahr is rarely used by the woman. It's a financial decision of the father or the men of the house to sell the daughter and make money out of her. They say it's your Mahr then say oh the father raised U the brother deserves gold this person wants thus and that. Even deadbeat father's come back to ask for the Mahr this is a real fact but when you speak up these women throw fists to say you're misrepresentation of their beautiful Deen is problematic.

Women do but not men btw. Men tell me yes I deserve the Mahr, or at least shares in it. I'm sick to my stomach

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u/Lapindahaha — 5 days ago

Synthwave vocal mixing question: what creates that dreamy vocal sound?

Hi I'm a beginner teaching myself music production and synthwave is the genre I love most!

I've noticed that in a lot of synthwave, dreamwave, and city pop the vocals often sit a little farther back in the mix than in pop. They dont just sound heavily reverbed they have this smooth wide, dreamy shimmer that still keeps them on 😭 Idk how to describe it further

Is that mostly the result of reverb, delay, chorus, saturation, stereo processing, or a combination of techniques?

I'd also appreciate any general mixing or engineering tips that are common in synthwave, especially for vocals. I'm trying to learn how to produce this style on my own thank uuu

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u/Lapindahaha — 7 days ago

This sub has lost me

I'm not the only one who made a post ABT this I've made abt a several times we are definitely dominated by solo stans and katseye fans.

I literally saw someone call manon the queen of visuals a minute ago

They started with slow complaining abt oh you snark more abt this person or that person to 100% complaints ABT every snark subject like this some positive space for them to be the moral police or sum and I can count a few users that strongly defend each member under every member I snarked about.

Is There is a rule to remove people who exhibit fan behavior? Or we should just let them dominate us on our space like that and migrate to somewhere else

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u/Lapindahaha — 7 days ago

This is how I see katseye and it's terrifying

For me it was never abt individual behavior of the girls but the artistic direction as a whole.

u/Lapindahaha — 8 days ago

Can these crackheads sofie and dav get a job

The other ones getting dragged under the mudd since Feb keeps saying she's their sister in interviews and people still wouldn't get a grip on this nonsense this is so immature knowing things like this shouldn't be handled publicly. Ew just ew bye

u/Lapindahaha — 9 days ago

I hate Christians who fight Islam only to say christ is the way

I want these two religions to leave us the f alone I don't even understand why they go on debates online (I watched the dean vs conservatives debate) and say why they hate Islam not Muslims as people but Islam as a religion make good points then defend Christianity to market it as smt better than Islam when it's the same man made bullshit to keep the poor poorer, fearmong and do more low iq propaganda like Christianity hasn't harmed people as well hello?? . U can't look me in the eye tell me you want less Islam then try to promote christ propaganda I've literally had enough of these abrahamic religions and their followers.

They're all abt this is my book 📚 follow it or go to hell, how abt u leave us alone ugh

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u/Lapindahaha — 11 days ago

Refused to do my friends wedding invitation card design, rightfully so

Not just that but I'm not attending his wedding either.

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His wedding is in August. We've been friends for the past 3 years and I was kind of surprised he first reached out to invite me and attend then a few days later asked to design the wedding card bc I was avoiding him. I'm kind of a introvert and I was fatigued by how much he always tried to get into my personal space and force me out. Or try to convince me why we're soulmate to which I set good boundaries and later ghosted.

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I congratulated him I was finally happy, two days later he asked me to design his wedding cards ( I'm an illustrator I do portraits on clip studio paint and comic art). I was surprised, I said idk how thus can be done but I'll try my best. He sent me an Ai generated version of what he wanted instead of answering my questions telling me to copy exactly what the Ai did for him to which I believe I'm entitled to be angry abt and I said so. But bc I didn't want to refuse helping out knowing he wouldn't spend a dime to make his fiancé happy by getting her a professional photographer and a wedding card designer I accepted to help.

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Pressured me through I was moving out of my old apartment and preparing for a job interview, I squeezed him in my schedule and did the design. He ranted abt how it's low effort ( I need more creativity) and sent me the ai one again and more pictures of a place they had their first date and asked me to squeeze all that in. I ofc said I won't be able to design that respectfully and this is his final response in the screenshots an hour ago to which I decided to ignore.

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TLDR

​Expected premium custom human illustration on a zero-dollar budget.

​Insulted my work during the process by calling it "not creative enough" because it didn't look like an AI prompt.

​Threw a petty guilttripping tantrum when I officially pulled the plug.

​Tried to flex by sending a botched AI invitation layout and liking his own text.

Update : he sent me the ai made invitation card and said "here is your wedding invitation ❤️"

u/Lapindahaha — 14 days ago

Guess what, the Album Promotion is on the way

I fkn hate these hypocrite celebrities this was literally going since 2023 and she never publicly said anything but when it's time to promote her album oh yea

u/Lapindahaha — 16 days ago

Honest opinion abt Megan hear me out

I know she has a decent fan base but it's obv she's the least favorite member easily forgotten member, she isn't either easy to like and doesn't exhibit star quality and isn't as funny as they try to portray her.

I think hybe really tried to push Megan during dream academy era and invested into her they wanted her to be the breakout star but she faces so much scrutiny from the public, heavily over shadowed by other members even yoonchae being bored asf is more popular and liked tho her dance skills are slower.

Also megan has no identity idk what y'all think but the whole I'm Chinese Cantonese thing sounds forced and a lot of chinese fans pointed it out. Her outfits are the worst makeup too, she sounds very insecure and tired. She also comes off as an entitled bully.

Admitted to taking her stress out on other members and being sneaky. She also won't survive as a soloist.

u/Lapindahaha — 24 days ago

Did they lie tho

The way their lyrics get worse and worse everytime when they are on the top of the music charts and can't write a song?

Who is the target audience with low standards bc we had enough

u/Lapindahaha — 24 days ago

Feminism doesn't apply to women like Ariana for me idc

I see people defend her and say we're blaming the woman for the homewreckin and that itself has misogynistic undertone completely dismissing she went all the way to hurt other women when she could like what she did to lily doesn't count at all. As a woman myself I'd go as far as I can to defend a woman but I can't defend these bird hoes I can't defend a woman who destroys and hurts another woman like that I just hate how everyone is trying to defend her with hat argument. Ethan was hated and dragged it's not like we didn't drag that man in every way possible but why is her behavior dismissed?? She's such a narc she's just a terrible person and I wouldn't do anything to defend women like that Idgaf abt these sick insecure h@oes she should stay away from other women this is not even abt snarkin Ariana is very unlikable, disgusting spoiled brat that all the money in the world can't fix ugh

u/Lapindahaha — 24 days ago
▲ 39 r/Dogfree

I never leave my building due to my fear of dogs

I live in a compound and there's 15 stray dogs inside in every parking especially mine, threatened me so many times I can't even throw away my trash. We tried getting rid of them I mean the residents who have children and other families and some pro dog neighbors sued the security for animal abuse saying they have no where to go. I have a serious fear of dogs I get paralyzed and sick in their presence I become paranoid of dog barking but ofc most people tell me I'm overreacting. Also the average dog size is as tall as my torso I'm 153cm I feel like I'm dead when they look me in the eyes I remember it everytime . I'm literally hearing 5 harassing someone outside as I write this and I'm so mad. I thought I was the only one until I saw this sub

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u/Lapindahaha — 26 days ago
▲ 50 r/NJZ

I'm new to NJZ fan space I've never had an interaction with another fan

It breaks my heart bc after so many years of seing kpop down fall new jeans was bringing me back to kpop music. Their Playlist has no skips, can sing and has a good concept. When I found out abt the illit controversy (which I don't really understand what truly happened feel free to explain) it broke my heart to know NJZ disbanded. They're will never be another group like NJZ for me

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u/Lapindahaha — 30 days ago
▲ 362 r/GrantGilmore_Snark+1 crossposts

This is a snark sub, that's why you see snark posts that hurt its not a fan space

Imagine limping all the way here to defend companies with burger music ruled by nepo babies who can't sing where not even the choreographer himself can dance so they gaslight you into thinking you're just hating on their lame work?

This is a snark sub, I'll snark. I'm not a fan and most people in the sub aren't and they shouldn't feel dominated by eyekons in their own space.

" don't call the girls ugly and that" I will, they all look like botched LA influencers with Botox. If you're worried about that trust me they will be fine, their mouths and closets full they got wealthy institutions buying them dreams and awards a snark sub is the least of their worries, that's why their therapist tells them to put the phone down so maybe you should too.

TL:DR this is a snark sub and snarkers space shouldn't feel dominated by frustrated eyekons . Fans have their own spaces too

u/AcceptableBet9163 — 6 days ago

How can I boost a post without it having the ad thumbnail

I remember it used to be different before I don't want my music post to look like an Amazon ad I just want to boost it to reach the needed audience. Any advices?

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u/Lapindahaha — 30 days ago

She's soft launching whimsical genz girl persona after years of D bicycle music

Taking someone's boyfriend or husband, we got that hood love or whatever era she had that she's trying so hard to get rid of after failing as an actress.

u/Lapindahaha — 1 month ago

They don't feel attacked they're throwing rocks to be picked by other men

There's absolutely zero reasons for them to feel attacked by someone else's upbringing and victim blame, most of us were forced I went through hell and trauma and self hate and I would peacefully let the hijab go years ago but unfortunately when I look at it I'm terrified and I hate the fabric. All that bc of the way it was forced upon me, why does some b word who absolutely doesn't know how to exhibit empathy towards others need to tell me how to feel about it??

u/Lapindahaha — 1 month ago