u/Larxba

hi!! i currently don't have a game with skitty/delcatty in it and i need one for my cat team. if someone had a spare one i'd really appreciate it

i recently graduated high school, but due to this i no longer have a tuba to play on. what is the cheapest way for me to allow myself the ability to practice while i save for a nice expensive tuba? i want something more than a mouthpiece so i don’t forget how to read tuba music. i’m open to plastic instruments, concert tubas, sousas, etc. previously i was playing on a yamaha Bb four rotor tuba

hi!! idk if i have arfid but recently my partner’s parent, who works in mental health, has said she thinks i could have it. my entire life i have been told i am an extremely picky eater and i don’t like a lot of foods. because of this i’ve been struggling to keep healthy and especially recently almost all of the protein i’ve been getting is from protein cereal. i don’t know if i do actually have it because i do enjoy trying new foods even though i dont like most (as a kid i was terrified of it though), but how can i go about it? now that i’ve found people who are at least similar to me i figured it was worth asking for help

i know this is kind of like. not a huge deal but i have a partner and we’ve agreed its ok if i don’t wanna do that. but both of our parents have been talking about protection around sex and i understand why but it makes me feel so yukcy and uncomfortable. it makes me feel like i’ll have to do that stuff and i dont wanna and i just feel so gross and bad :(

i like. need to get testing done soon as a precaution because cancer around that area runs in my family but i’m actually terrified. the thought of letting someone see or touch anything like that makes me feel extremely and deeply uncomfortable to the point of near tears. i don’t know what to do

also please do not refer to me as a woman in the replies i am trans

hi!! i recently was given my aunts old clarinet, and its a selmer cl200. i see them going online for very cheap, so i’m just curious about how well it might sound/play if i go and get the pads & corks replaced & some keys fixed.

hi!! as you can see in the title i do not know much about clarinet, or woodwinds in general. i've only ever played brass (trumpet 6 years, tuba about 9 months). my aunt recently offered to give me her very old clarinet. are there any things i should check for before playing? what all do i need? i plan on buying 2.5 reeds (and not rico reeds), a reed case, a swab, and cork grease. other tips would also be greatly appreciated!

hi !! i’ve known my friend for a really long time (since middle school), but as of recently they have gotten out of a 9(ish) month long relationship. it’s been a month since it ended, and as of recently we’ve seemed to have gained feelings for each other. however, i’m really afraid of the prospect that they are rebounding and do not really know what to do?? sorry this is so short there’s just not much detail i can think of. they haven’t expressed really missing their ex, but they haven’t talked about many bad feelings in general aside from our shared distress about graduation. do any of yall have advice or ideas on how we could go about this? i like. do not know what to do

hi. i might just be going through another phase of imposter syndrome, but i’m transmasc agender and just wanted to hear why detrans people might’ve believed they were trans and how they discovered they weren’t. thank you :) give as much detail as you would like

it seems like whenever my lips are chapped, my mouthpiece only buzzing doesn’t really buzz well, and when it’s on the instrument my sound is really fuzzy. i know this can easily just be fixed with chapstick, but out of curiosity, is there any reason behind chapped lips causing the sound to be fuzzy or am i just weird??