u/LawfulnessRadiant562

really struggling with all the negativity out there saying you should just give up on your dreams because you’re not gonna make it out of a studio apartment with 3 roommates. I want to get a move on with my life, get into my dream field, and i feel stuck and trapped. And anxious all the time seeing people post on here and elsewhere about how no one is ever going to live comfortably ever again.

what is the salary needed to comfortably (with room) live in new england area vs Minnesota? I appreciate both areas for different reasons but want to be financially in a good place.

do people throughout their entire twenties tend to look young? barely visible signs of aging if any, etc? including early twenties / 18-19 still looking like teens/hs age? when do people start getting like fine lines, wrinkles, collagen stuff, dropping, sun spots, etc. And are there thing to help skin early (even if there is nutritional issues occasionally, loss of period, underweight due to chronic illness- which i know sucks for this but want to get the best “shield” possible.

what is the correct way to apply sunscreen for max protection? i’ve heard that mixing it decreases the effectiveness but I wasn’t sure if that was physically mixing it with, for example, moisturizer together in hands or that you cannot have anything else on your face. I normally put it on first thing in AM on top of my moisturizers and serums and then re apply throughout the day.

(additionally, i sometimes use a mix of chemical and mineral. Such as, chemical first then mineral on top in the morning for protection, then either mineral or chemical when reapplying later.)

what is the correct way to apply sunscreen for max protection? i’ve heard that mixing it decreases the effectiveness but I wasn’t sure if that was physically mixing it with, for example, moisturizer together in hands or that you cannot have anything else on your face. I normally put it on first thing in AM on top of my moisturizers and serums and then re apply throughout the day.

(additionally, i sometimes use a mix of chemical and mineral. Such as, chemical first then mineral on top in the morning for protection, then either mineral or chemical when reapplying later.)

what jobs are ai likely NOT to take, preferably ever. Before I go back to school for a career change, what will make me real money and not be slashed…

Hey all. i’ve been interested in social work and nursing for a while now, and was wondering if this combo is possible. I’m interested in addiction, behavioral health, and patient advocacy, but I also need a financially stable career because of my long-term goals. (If someone could give a gen income for my goal job, that’d be great too).

What paths combine nursing and counseling? I’m leaning towards getting my RN and my CAC / CDAC.
I am open to any other suggestions.

A little more personal context: I also have lived experience with recovery, which is a big reason I’m interested in addiction and behavioral health. So, I’m looking for a career that values compassion, mental health awareness, and sustainability. Even if I slip up or need more help/higher level of care. Right not I just have my IOP and outpatient team.
I do best in environments where reasonable accommodations are possible, such as access to water, bathroom breaks, occasional extra breaks to reset, and small tools like fidgets. I’m not looking for an “easy” job, I do want a meaningful career where I can contribute, but need to take care of myself long-term. I also express myself through things like piercings, colored hair, and comfortable clothing, so I’m interested in healthcare settings that are professional but still accepting of individuality.

Thank you for your time. I’d love to hear from anyone in this area such as nurses, social workers, case managers, sober living staff, etc. Have a good day ya’ll!

Hey all. i’ve been interested in social work and nursing for a while now, and was wondering if this combo is possible. I’m interested in addiction, behavioral health, and patient advocacy, but I also need a financially stable career because of my long-term goals. (If someone could give a gen income for my goal job, that’d be great too).

What paths combine nursing and counseling? I’m leaning towards getting my RN and my CAC / CDAC.
I am open to any other suggestions.

A little more personal context: I also have lived experience with recovery, which is a big reason I’m interested in addiction and behavioral health. So, I’m looking for a career that values compassion, mental health awareness, and sustainability. Even if I slip up or need more help/higher level of care. Right not I just have my IOP and outpatient team.
I do best in environments where reasonable accommodations are possible, such as access to water, bathroom breaks, occasional extra breaks to reset, and small tools like fidgets. I’m not looking for an “easy” job, I do want a meaningful career where I can contribute, but need to take care of myself long-term. I also express myself through things like piercings, colored hair, and comfortable clothing, so I’m interested in healthcare settings that are professional but still accepting of individuality.

Thank you for your time. I’d love to hear from anyone in this area such as nurses, social workers, case managers, sober living staff, etc. Have a good day ya’ll!

would it be possible to become an rn and take online classes during or after to become a certified addiction counselor? I love social work and that field but want to have nursing to be more stable and have better income. What are some ideas I can do either combining these or working both jobs to be financially stable and not too worked over? I’m also trying to be able to do non bedside nursing, so any good fields that relate (or don’t) to my being a CAC please lmk. Thank you!! (fyi: i’m also in recovery myself, would this affect me being able to do these jobs?)

Hi everyone, I am currently applying for my Master’s degree in behavioral health / addictions. I am doing okay right now, but I manage OCD and a history of an eating disorder. As I prepare for this career, I am trying to understand how the field actually handles professionals who struggle with their own mental health.

If a practitioner or grad student is performing well clinically but experiences a relapse or needs to re-enter any level of treatment, what happens to their job or license? Does it put everything in jeopardy or immediately cause loss of license?

Furthermore, I am also curious about how employers in this field tend to react and handle these situations. Are they often supportive by utilizing FMLA and accommodations, or do they push people out if they notice visible struggles?

I want to be proactive about understanding my rights and professional ethics before entering the field. I would love to hear from anyone who has navigated licensing or HR while managing their own long-term recovery. Thank you!

(edit: forgot to add this. how strict are boards and employers typically regarding off-duty cannabis use if it never affects on-the-job performance? Is it a hard no drug policy or just not on the clock?)

Hi everyone, I am currently applying for my Master’s degree in behavioral health / addictions. I am doing okay right now, but I manage OCD and a history of an eating disorder. As I prepare for this career, I am trying to understand how the field actually handles professionals who struggle with their own mental health.

If a practitioner or grad student is performing well clinically but experiences a relapse or needs to re-enter any level of treatment, what happens to their job or license? Does it put everything in jeopardy or immediately cause loss of license?

Furthermore, I am also curious about how employers in this field tend to react and handle these situations. Are they often supportive by utilizing FMLA and accommodations, or do they push people out if they notice visible struggles?

I want to be proactive about understanding my rights and professional ethics before entering the field. I would love to hear from anyone who has navigated licensing or HR while managing their own long-term recovery. Thank you!

(edit: forgot to add this. how strict are boards and employers typically regarding off-duty cannabis use if it never affects on-the-job performance? Is it a hard no drug policy or just not on the clock?)

hey everyone! i have to take some shifts this week at a side gig and it’s mainly outdoor work. It’s very short, about 3-4 hours per day. I’m very worried about the sun exposure (it will be during peak levels) and I will likely not have much access or opportunity to reapply. As an avid sunscreen wearer (who mainly uses it for anti aging purposes and of course sunburns i get burned easy) this is making me anxious because i do not want to get burned or have too much uv exposure (an and b, esp a tho). Is there anything I can do to stay cool but keep out the sun as much as possible? should i double layer sunscreen before my shift? Thank You!

(also if anyone owns those driving gloves lmk if they’re worth it, there ate sunscreen stains all over my car it’s so bad).

i’m trying to keep my skin as healthy as i can. i was wondering if anti aging routines and sunscreen use , etc still work even with active ana? and is it possible to still keep decent bones/body, but esp skin and face health (looking youthful, dewy look) using any harm reduction strategies? such as supplements, focusing intensively on nutrient per calorie, etc? not able to fully recover rn and my team is trying a harm reduction approach anyways but wanted some feedback from others :)

hey everyone! i’m thinking about doing a cosmetology or esti program. but, i have some limitations. i can’t be on my feet all day, have some bone issues, need frequent bathroom breaks, and mental health breaks to calm down and reset. Are there any jobs within this field that could fit my needs and hopefully pay a reasonable salary? thank you!!

are there any jobs in social work that are flexible enough to have a side job or ability to mix with another degree (such as nursing/education) to make more money?

can you mix a social/public health job with anything else (such as nursing) to make a higher salary?

what jobs have worked for you? my heart is in nursing/social work mix, teaching, or cosmetology. I’m just not sure if my body/mind can handle it but i need to start making real money and would love to get to 6 figures (understand unrealistic with teaching, but i would def pick up a side job/business). im just scared of trying in case an episode happens or i end up stopping my meds. as well as this, i also deal with sh, si, severe ocd, and an ed. thank you.

i’m scared and embarrassed. i’m so scared that i’m now in the full adult treatment system. not the college age/mixed teen and young adult group. I feel ashamed i’m still struggling with my ed so badly, have sc@rs, and debilitating ocd. i want to do things i did at age 16-17, dye my hair partly blonde with some pink, dress with jeans and a crop top, or a more masculine look. or just sweats and a shirt. i’m working on getting a nursing degree adn and also want my cosmetology license but i’m not sure if my body can handle it. i hate being an adult too, i’m afraid i won’t get the same support and no one will care anymore. and i’m not allowed to have comfort build a bears and fidgets to calm me down.

also if anyone here has other mental health issues and has a job that works for them pls lmk. i’m interested in combining nursing with social work so i can make some more money. but if not, I’ve always wanted to be a teacher too! probably with a. side hustle. and my ocd is super latched on ages and aging right now and tiktok is spiking my anxiety through the roof with the “unc” trend and thinking anyone in their 20’s or 30’s is rly old.

I also know I made a post on this before, but if anyone has harm reduction strategies that work to protect their body (esp bones/muscles) and their skin (mainly face, anti aging, i love a dewy natural look) pls lmk!!

Thanks for listening to my long ass rant :)

is there any way to keep skin, nails, and hair as healthy as possible even in a relapse? of course still focusing on the major body systems which matter more, just wondering if anyone has things that have worked for them. thinking of this in like a harm reduction way. this also applies to the whole body/organs, especially bones!!