Has anyone else come across this?

So, basically, I'm a 29 year old guy from Kerala. I was in a longterm relationship for about three years, and we broke up a year ago. The relationship itself was so messed up and toxic that I actually felt relieved after the breakup.

Since then, I've moved to Dubai and restarted my career. Life has been pretty good. But recently, I started talking to someone from a different country, and we connected really fast. We're both attracted to each other, but we know it's not going to work out because of certain reasons.

Ever since I started talking to her, the need to feel loved and cared for has resurfaced😬😬😬 I don't want to get into a relationship right now because I have different goals and priorities in life.

So here's my question: How do you guys get over this feeling? When your heart and your brain are telling you to pursue different things, how do you deal with it? I want and know I need to listen to my brain, but I'm not sure how to quiet these feelings.

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u/Logical-Ad9211 — 18 hours ago

29M Dubai, Just putting myself out there

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Originally from Kerala and currently based in Dubai.

I've been an introvert for most of my life and recently came out of a longterm relationship. At this stage, I'm looking for meaningful conversations and genuine connections. I'm not sure if I'm ready for another relationship just yet, but I'm open to getting to know the right person. I'm planning to settle down and get married within the next couple of years.

A little about me:

* Age: 29

* Height: 5'10" (178 cm)

* Religion: Muslim

* Marital status:  Never Married

* Education Level: Post Graduation

* Diet: Non veg

I'm fit, well educated, and career focused. I value good manners, emotional maturity, and the ability to think rationally while communicating with respect and kindness.

Partner Preferences:

* Desired Religion: Muslim

* Location Preferences: Preferably based in Dubai, but I'm open to discuss

* Marital Status: Never married

* Want Kids after Marriage: Yes

I'm hoping to meet someone close to my age who is emotionally mature, self aware, career oriented, and takes care of their mental health.

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u/Logical-Ad9211 — 5 days ago

29M Dubai, Just putting myself out there

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Originally from Kerala and currently based in Dubai.

I've been an introvert for most of my life and recently came out of a longterm relationship. At this stage, I'm looking for meaningful conversations and genuine connections. I'm not sure if I'm ready for another relationship just yet, but I'm open to getting to know the right person. I'm planning to settle down and get married within the next couple of years.

A little about me: I'm 178 cm tall, fit, well educated, and career focused. I value good manners, emotional maturity, and the ability to think rationally while communicating with respect and kindness.

I'm hoping to meet someone close to my age who is emotionally mature, self aware, career oriented, and takes care of their mental health.

Rather than listing everything here, I'd prefer to have a conversation and see if we connect naturally.

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u/Logical-Ad9211 — 5 days ago

29M Dubai, Just putting myself out there (Repost)

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Originally from Kerala and currently based in Dubai.

I've been an introvert for most of my life and recently came out of a longterm relationship. At this stage, I'm looking for meaningful conversations and genuine connections. I'm not sure if I'm ready for another relationship just yet, but I'm open to getting to know the right person. I'm planning to settle down and get married within the next couple of years.

A little about me: I'm 178 cm tall, fit, well educated, and career focused. I value good manners, emotional maturity, and the ability to think rationally while communicating with respect and kindness.

I'm hoping to meet someone close to my age who is emotionally mature, self aware, career oriented, and takes care of their mental health.

Rather than listing everything here, I'd prefer to have a conversation and see if we connect naturally.

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u/Logical-Ad9211 — 5 days ago

29M #Dubai #anywhere Just putting myself out there

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I've been an introvert for most of my life and recently came out of a longterm relationship. At this stage, I'm looking for meaningful conversations and genuine connections. I'm not sure if I'm ready for another relationship just yet, but I'm open to getting to know the right person. I'm planning to settle down and get married within the next couple of years.

A little about me: I'm 178 cm tall, fit, well educated, and career focused. I value good manners, emotional maturity, and the ability to think rationally while communicating with respect and kindness.

I'm hoping to meet someone close to my age who is emotionally mature, self aware, career oriented, and takes care of their mental health.

Rather than listing everything here, I'd prefer to have a conversation and see if we connect naturally.

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u/Logical-Ad9211 — 10 days ago

29M Dubai. Muslim. Just putting myself out there

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Originally from Kerala and currently based in Dubai.

I've been an introvert for most of my life and recently came out of a longterm relationship. At this stage, I'm looking for meaningful conversations and genuine connections. I'm not sure if I'm ready for another relationship just yet, but I'm open to getting to know the right person. I'm planning to settle down and get married within the next couple of years.

A little about me: I'm 178 cm tall, fit, well educated, and career focused. I value good manners, emotional maturity, and the ability to think rationally while communicating with respect and kindness.

I'm hoping to meet someone close to my age who is emotionally mature, self aware, career oriented, and takes care of their mental health.

Rather than listing everything here, I'd prefer to have a conversation and see if we connect naturally.

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u/Logical-Ad9211 — 10 days ago

29M Dubai. Just putting myself out there

​

Originally from Kerala and currently based in Dubai.

I've been an introvert for most of my life and recently came out of a longterm relationship. At this stage, I'm looking for meaningful conversations and genuine connections. I'm not sure if I'm ready for another relationship just yet, but I'm open to getting to know the right person. I'm planning to settle down and get married within the next couple of years.

A little about me: I'm 178 cm tall, fit, well educated, and career focused. I value good manners, emotional maturity, and the ability to think rationally while communicating with respect and kindness.

I'm hoping to meet someone close to my age who is emotionally mature, self aware, career oriented, and takes care of their mental health.

Rather than listing everything here, I'd prefer to have a conversation and see if we connect naturally.

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u/Logical-Ad9211 — 10 days ago

I'd like to hear your genuine thoughts on my situation

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So, I'm a 29-year-old single man. I believe I'm a good person, although I wasn't very religious in the past. I committed zina while I was in a previous relationship, but I have sincerely repented since then. Right now, I'm in a phase of my life where I'm trying to become a better Muslim.

Now that I'm thinking about my future, I know I'll need to find a partner in the next couple of years. However, the guilt of having sinned in the past has been haunting me for the last few months. I know I can't enter a relationship without being honest about my past.

What I wanted to know is this: as a practicing Muslim woman, would you accept someone who has sinned in the past?

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u/Logical-Ad9211 — 11 days ago

I'd like to hear your genuine thoughts on my situation

So, I'm a 29-year-old single man. I believe I'm a good person, although I wasn't very religious in the past. I committed zina while I was in a previous relationship, but I have sincerely repented since then. Right now, I'm in a phase of my life where I'm trying to become a better Muslim.

Now that I'm thinking about my future, I know I'll need to find a partner in the next couple of years. However, the guilt of having sinned in the past has been haunting me for the last few months. I know I can't enter a relationship without being honest about my past.

What I wanted to know is this: as a practicing Muslim woman, would you accept someone who has sinned in the past?

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u/Logical-Ad9211 — 11 days ago

29M in Dubai Looking for new friends

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Well, I'm from India, so if that's an issue, no worries. I've been an introvert my whole life, recently came out of a longterm relationship, and I'm looking for someone to talk to

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u/Logical-Ad9211 — 12 days ago