Need elegant mini handbag recommendations for my mom

My mom attended a Telugu wedding today.

I noticed that she doesn't have a proper small handbag, something elegant with a zipper that can hold her phone, money, lipstick, and a few other essentials.

I'd really love to buy her a classy mini handbag that she can use for weddings and other outings.

I'm not a handbag person, so I have no idea what to look for. I'd really appreciate your help.

Kindly drop links if you knw any.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 1 day ago

Need career advice (5.5YOE) - making my first switch

Need some career advice.

I have 5.5 YOE

My background is Development + Platform Engineering (Kafka, AWS, Azure, Kubernetes, Terraform, Azure DevOps, YAML, Docker, CI/CD, any lang etc)

I’m a Tech lead in my current company (offers me 14LPA as CTC)

I have two offers:
Wipro: Kafka Platform Engineer – ₹30 LPA (10% variable included in the 30LPA)
Hybrid - 3 days a week and office is 35-40KM from my home.
I liked the project I will be working on, risky one, but it will def help me with my future switch.

Factspan: Principal Analyst – ₹32 LPA fixed
Pros: Permanent WFH
I’m not completely aware of the project, mostly it’s a long time project, they need people who have experience onto streaming resources.

Looking for advice.

I definitely need money, but not at the cost of stability, at least for a year, because I will get married soon. Kindly help.

What do you suggest? i’m inclined more towards Wipro’s client project.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 2 days ago

Need career advice (5.5YOE) - making my first switch

Need some career advice.

I have 5.5 YOE

My background is Development + Platform Engineering (Kafka, AWS, Azure, Kubernetes, Terraform, Azure DevOps, YAML, Docker, CI/CD, any lang etc)

I’m a Tech lead in my current company (offers me 14LPA as CTC)

I have two offers:
Wipro: Tech Lead - Kafka Platform Engineer – ₹30 LPA (10% variable included in the 30LPA)
Hybrid - 3 days a week and office is 35-40KM from my home.
I liked the project I will be working on, risky one, but it will def help me with my future switch.

Factspan: Principal Analyst – ₹32 LPA fixed
Pros: Permanent WFH
I’m not completely aware of the project, mostly it’s a long time project, they need people who have experience onto streaming resources.

Looking for advice.

I definitely need money, but not at the cost of stability, at least for a year, because I will get married soon. Kindly help.

What do you suggest? i’m inclined more towards Wipro’s client project.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 2 days ago

Severe period pain, vomiting on day 1, Endometriosis?

Hi everyone,

I experience severe pain and vomiting on the first day of my period. The pain is so intense that I can't even eat. If I do eat, I end up vomiting everything.

I try my best to avoid taking painkillers unless absolutely necessary.

I want to improve my lifestyle instead of just relying on medication. I don't eat much junk food, but I'm a software engineer, so I spend most of my day sitting in front of my computer. I want to incorporate more movement into my routine and improve my overall diet.

Before making these lifestyle changes, I was thinking of getting a comprehensive health check-up. Someone also suggested that my symptoms could be related to endometriosis.

Could you please suggest:

* What blood tests or health check-ups I should get done?
* Are there any specific tests that can help diagnose or rule out endometriosis?
* Is there anything else I should discuss with a gynecologist based on these symptoms?

I'm planning to consult a gynecologist after getting the recommended tests done. I'd really appreciate any guidance or advice from those who have experienced something similar.

Thank you!

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 5 days ago

Need Guidance on Full Body Checkup and Women's Health Tests

I want to get a full-body checkup. I'm a 27 F.

I also experience severe pain during my periods, but I've never had it checked, so I'd like to get that evaluated as well.

In addition to that, I'd like a general health checkup.

Could you recommend which tests I should get done? Also, which hospitals offer the most accurate test results? Discounts are a bonus, but my first priority is accuracy.

For the next 2 months, I'll be making my physical health my top priority to build lasting habits.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 5 days ago

Gratuity query

I have finally received my F&F settlement, but I haven't received my gratuity payment yet.

Before my last working day(which is 29 June 2026), I received a document with the details of my F&F settlement, and I have now received that payment.

However, I haven't received any similar document regarding my gratuity, nor have I received the gratuity payment.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 6 days ago

Gratuity query

I have finally received my F&F settlement, but I haven't received my gratuity payment yet.

Before my last working day(which is 29 June 2026), I received a document with the details of my F&F settlement, and I have now received that payment.

However, I haven't received any similar document regarding my gratuity, nor have I received the gratuity payment.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 6 days ago

Gratuity query

I have finally received my F&F settlement, but I haven't received my gratuity payment yet.

Before my last working day(which is 29 June 2026), I received a document with the details of my F&F settlement, and I have now received that payment.

However, I haven't received any similar document regarding my gratuity, nor have I received the gratuity payment.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 6 days ago

1BHK | Nanakramguda or Hitech city or near by

Looking for a well-maintained, fully furnished - 1BHK flat” in or near Nanakramguda or Hitech city or near by areas

I'm a working female, and I'll be the only occupant.

Price - 25k

July 1st onwards

If you have any leads, please DM me. Thanks! 😊

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 6 days ago

1BHK | Nanakramguda or near by

Looking for a “well-maintained, fully furnished 1BHK” in or near Nanakramguda.

I'm a working female and will be the sole occupant.

Price - 20K

July 1st onwards

If you have any leads, please DM me. Thanks! 😊

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 7 days ago

Mixed Emotions

Today is my last working day at my 1st ever organization, worked for 5+ years.

I'm scared.

There are so many emotions running through my mind, and I have no one to share them with. No one to give me strength. Honestly, I'm going through a whirlwind of mixed emotions right now.

I'm moving to a completely new company, and I still don't know if the decision I made, in the midst of my heartbreak, was the right one.

I'm emotionally damaged, and I don't know if I'm truly ready for this new chapter.

One thing I do know is that I needed to step out of my current organization, not because there was anything wrong with it, but because I needed a different environment. I needed something that would help me stop thinking about my past for a while.

Current organization was good to me. My only concern was the pay, obv few politics played behind me, only helped me in long run. I’m glad that I wasn’t aware of those politics till 2 days back.

When I made this decision, I was in one of the darkest phases of my life. There was a time when I genuinely felt I had nothing to live for. I wasn't living for myself anymore, I was simply existing to satisfy the people around me.

Then, for a brief period, an angel entered my life.

They may not even realize it, but they made this decision so much easier. Someone who once believed she wouldn't even see her next birthday is now sitting here, writing her farewell mail to her first organization and preparing to begin a new journey.

I'm moving to a similar role, but with better pay, better opportunities, and a chance to grow.

I still don't know how all of this happened. I think about it almost every day. How did life change so much? How did I make it here?

Yet here I am, crying.

For the first time in a long while, I know I've done something good for myself. I believe I'll reap the rewards of this decision later in life.

I still don't know what my personal life will look like. Sometimes it feels incredibly exhausting to live in a world where cruel people can damage an innocent soul without ever realizing the impact they had.

And somehow, we are expected to continue living with that.

Anyway, coming to the main plot.

I am signing off from my first company.

Whether this decision turns out to be one of the best or one of the hardest choices of my life, only time will tell.

But today, despite all the fear, sadness, and uncertainty, I'm choosing to believe that I'm finally doing something for myself.

Honestly, I don't even know what I've written. My thoughts are all over the place. I just wanted to share them with someone because, at this moment, I don't really have anyone to share them with.

PS: Please don’t congratulate me, just give me strength to go through this day before I ruin it with my emotions. Def not a good emotion :)

u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 8 days ago

1BHK | Nanakramguda or near by

Looking for a well-maintained, fully furnished 1BHK in or near Nanakramguda.

I'm a working female and will be the sole occupant.

Price - 25k

July 1st onwards

If you have any leads, please DM me. Thanks! 😊

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 9 days ago

1BHK | Nanakramguda or near by

Looking for a well-maintained, fully furnished - 1BHK flat in or near Nanakramguda.

I'm a working female, and I'll be the only occupant.

Price - 25k

July 1st onwards

If you have any leads, please DM me. Thanks! 😊

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 9 days ago

5 day Trip suggestions ?

So, nen company switch avabothuna anmata.

After btech work work work thappa m ledhu. Finally oka hatttttathu parinamam valla papers pettesa, ika switching anmata.

LWD ki new company joining date ki 5 days (July 1st week) gap undi. So, ekkadkaina veldamani ankuntuna.

Ekkadki velthe better cheppandi. Velli malli tirgixhi jagrathaga ochela😭🙏

PS: Naaku driving radhu :)
No North East, antha pedha sahasalu cheyalenu. Treks istam ledhu.

So, solo trip anmata, cheppandi.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 10 days ago

Need advice: Kafka Platform Engineering role vs Kafka Ops role (5.5 YOE) ?

Need some career advice.

I have 5.5 YOE

My background is Development + Platform Engineering (Kafka, AWS, Azure, Kubernetes, Terraform, Azure DevOps, YAML, Docker, CI/CD, any lang etc)

I’m a Tech lead in my current company (offers me 14LPA as CTC)

I have two offers:
Wipro: Kafka Platform Engineer – ₹29 LPA (10% variable included in the 29LPA, I dunno the exact breakdown yet)

Solugenix: Kafka Ops – ₹28 LPA fixed + benefits(was told I might get Platform work later, but nothing is guaranteed)

I'm more interested in Development & Platform Engineering, not pure Ops.
Would you choose the role that aligns with your career goals or the slightly better fixed pay? Looking for advice from people who've faced a similar choice.

I’m def in need of money but I dunno. Kindly help.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 11 days ago

Need advice: Kafka Platform Engineering role vs Kafka Ops role (5.5 YOE)

Need some career advice.

I have 5.5 YOE

My background is Development + Platform Engineering (Kafka, AWS, Azure, Kubernetes, Terraform, Azure DevOps, YAML, Docker, CI/CD, any lang etc)

I’m a Tech lead in my current company (offers me 14LPA as CTC)

I have two offers:
Wipro: Kafka Platform Engineer – ₹29 LPA (10% variable included in the 29LPA, I dunno the exact breakdown yet)

Solugenix: Kafka Ops – ₹28 LPA fixed + benefits(was told I might get Platform work later, but nothing is guaranteed)

I'm more interested in Development & Platform Engineering, not pure Ops.
Would you choose the role that aligns with your career goals or the slightly better fixed pay? Looking for advice from people who've faced a similar choice.

I’m def in need of money but I dunno. Kindly help.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 11 days ago

Need advice: Kafka Platform Engineering role vs Kafka Ops role (5.5 YOE)

Need some career advice.

I have 5.5 YOE

My background is Development + Platform Engineering (Kafka, AWS, Azure, Kubernetes, Terraform, Azure DevOps, YAML, Docker, CI/CD, any lang etc)

I’m a Tech lead in my current company (offers me 14LPA as CTC)

I have two offers:
Wipro: Kafka Platform Engineer – ₹29 LPA (10% variable included in the 29LPA, I dunno the exact breakdown yet)

Solugenix: Kafka Ops – ₹28 LPA fixed + benefits(was told I might get Platform work later, but nothing is guaranteed)

I'm more interested in Development & Platform Engineering, not pure Ops.
Would you choose the role that aligns with your career goals or the slightly better fixed pay? Looking for advice from people who've faced a similar choice.

I’m def in need of money but I dunno. Kindly help.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 11 days ago

Need advice: Kafka Platform Engineering role vs Kafka Ops role (5.5 YOE)

Need some career advice.

I have 5.5 YOE

My background is Development + Platform Engineering (Kafka, AWS, Azure, Kubernetes, Terraform, Azure DevOps, YAML, Docker, CI/CD, any lang etc)

I’m a Tech lead in my current company (offers me 14LPA as CTC)

I have two offers:
Wipro: Kafka Platform Engineer – ₹29 LPA (10% variable included in the 29LPA, I dunno the exact breakdown yet)

Solugenix: Kafka Ops – ₹28 LPA fixed + benefits(was told I might get Platform work later, but nothing is guaranteed)

I'm more interested in Development & Platform Engineering, not pure Ops.
Would you choose the role that aligns with your career goals or the slightly better fixed pay? Looking for advice from people who've faced a similar choice.

I’m def in need of money but I dunno. Kindly help.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 11 days ago

Need advice: Kafka Platform Engineering role vs Kafka Ops role (5.5 YOE)

Need some career advice.

I have 5.5 YOE

My background is Development + Platform Engineering (Kafka, AWS, Azure, Kubernetes, Terraform, Azure DevOps, YAML, Docker, CI/CD, any lang etc)

I’m a Tech lead in my current company (offers me 14LPA as CTC)

I have two offers:
Wipro: Kafka Platform Engineer – ₹29 LPA (10% variable included in the 29LPA, I dunno the exact breakdown yet)

Solugenix: Kafka Ops – ₹28 LPA fixed + benefits(was told I might get Platform work later, but nothing is guaranteed)

I'm more interested in Development & Platform Engineering, not pure Ops.
Would you choose the role that aligns with your career goals or the slightly better fixed pay? Looking for advice from people who've faced a similar choice.

I’m def in need of money but I dunno. Kindly help.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 12 days ago

Need advice: Kafka Platform Engineering role vs Kafka Ops role (5.5 YOE)

Need some career advice.

I have 5.5 YOE

My background is Development + Platform Engineering (Kafka, AWS, Azure, Kubernetes, Terraform, Azure DevOps, YAML, Docker, CI/CD, any lang etc)

I’m a Tech lead in my current company (offers me 14LPA as CTC)

I have two offers:
Wipro: Kafka Platform Engineer – ₹29 LPA (10% variable included in the 29LPA, I dunno the exact breakdown yet)

Solugenix: Kafka Ops – ₹28 LPA fixed + benefits(was told I might get Platform work later, but nothing is guaranteed)

I'm more interested in Development & Platform Engineering, not pure Ops.
Would you choose the role that aligns with your career goals or the slightly better fixed pay? Looking for advice from people who've faced a similar choice.

I’m def in need of money but I dunno. Kindly help.

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u/LoveOverflowOrNtng — 12 days ago