u/Lumpy_Ease_7526

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I noticed that in uni my confidence and my skills in socialising getting worse

but in holidays I feel so confident and positive

also I’m not that type of student that studies more than 4 hours or something I don’t know how to deal with this kind of situation

and the self- judgement start to appear .

So who goes through these situations how did you deal with it ?

I noticed that in uni my confidence and my skills in socialising getting worse

but in holidays I feel so confident and positive

also I’m not that type of student that studies more than 4 hours or something I don’t know how to deal with this kind of situation

and the self- judgement start to appear .

So who goes through these situations how did you deal with it ?

I have been thinking about try an experiment for a month to be selfish and villain person

but what the actual mean of this terms

so how to do this experience Ik I sound crazy but I want to know what will happen

of course I will not harming and lying to anyone

what will happen when you trying not being a good person?

いろんな分野の人が集まるコミュニティに参加したのは初めてなんだ
お互いに教え合って学べるし、こういう交流の場に入るのも初めてw

今までずっと、自分はこの分野でまだ全然足りないって感じてた
でも、こういう環境にいると、もっと学べるし、自信も少しずつついてくる気がする

I remember back when I was in high school, there was a school shooting in a foreign country, and it got really popular on TikTok, so everyone at school was talking about it, and the shooter was a quiet student. 
since I was also quiet and only hung out or talked with one or two people in my class, they used to make jokes that “X might come and kill us“ which was so weird
Even now, I'm still quiet and don't really socialize with anyone, not even at uni
And my parents, from time to time, they ask if I have any new friends, but I'm comfortable with my old friends, and every now and then they bring up the idea of taking me to a therapist  lol

Being the only tech person in the family is exhausting ughh
I spend hours researching laptops, comparing CPUs, RAM, storage, prices, and finding the best value for their major

I want to become a Machine Learning Engineer, but my projects require me to learn Flutter, UI/UX, networking, and security. At the same time, I’m a university student, so I feel like I’m not making much progress in machine learning. Should I keep working on my projects, or should I put them on hold and focus on my specialization instead?

I took linear algebra in uni but I relearned it at holiday and for the first time I feel I actually understand it 
I feel so nerdy learning math for fun during the holidays 

When I shared this story, people said I don't have self-respect.
The story is, I (Female) have always admired celebrities, but for the first time in the past, I liked a guy in real life. But because life and real circumstances made it impossible for the relationship to continue, I controlled my feelings and let my mind make the final decision, and I just moved on. It wasn’t even an official relationship anyway, because if we had gotten into one, it wouldn’t have lasted, and I didn’t want to waste my time or his

idk his feelings on me we never confessed to each other

so did I made the right decision?

気づいたんだけど、私は感情に流されるタイプじゃないみたい。感情よりも理性を優先するほうなんだ

昔は芸能人に憧れることはあったけど、現実の人を本気で好きになったのは一度だけ

でも、その時点で無理だって分かっていたから、ちゃんと諦めて前に進んだ

周りを見ると、今でも望みのない相手に執着している人もいるけど、私は現実を受け入れて切り替えるほうが楽だった

I actually managed to avoid being a “Know-it-all”today
So as a group someone was talking and she mispronounced a word and we noticed that but none of us said anything except one person who pointed out that she had mispronounced the word and she got mad