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I know I posted recently but I think it’s fine. Me and him were downstairs at our church and his sister and her friends were near us and he asked if I wanted to go to the gym so I said yeah and we kicked a soccer ball for like an hour and when we were like 10 feet apart he was just like

Him: “This feels weird”

“It does”

Him: “I’m js kicking a soccer ball with a girl”

“Yeah,”

Him: “I mean… I think we’re friends?”

“I think so,”

Him: “Like nothing more, but I feel like that’s enough right?”

“Probably”

So that’s fun 😗

I took 2 acetaminophen and 2 ibuprofen after that (ibuprofen usually works best) and it still hurts a LOT. I had to stop a couple times while writing this to crumple up in pain. I’m quite warm and sometimes nauseous. My hands are asleep shaking. Is there anything I can do to lessen the pain? Thanks

Edit: this is only day one 😭

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So I have a crush on J and I have a friend L who I’m rlly friendly toward. Me and L have this thing (and sometimes my other friend E, both boys) where we LIGHTLY slap (more like tap) each other’s cheek. We do it pretty often and we usually stare at each other while doing so. Anyway me and him were doing it a lot on Thursday and on Friday while J was coming into the class I js came out of he stood in front of me and js stared at me. Doing nothing. Js staring into my eyeballs. And did the lightly slap thing. I ofc did it back but does that mean anything or was he js being friendly. (I also can’t make a move on him since my friend likes him so that’s rlly complicated 🫩)

So I haven’t told my parents abt my crush yet bc last time I did I was in 2nd grade and I said that he was my bf and they laughed (don’t get me wrong they are very good parents) so I haven’t told them abt this crush but yesterday in the car with my stepmom and dad I told them that if my crush matured a little he’d be fine sooo, I guess now they have a sense that I might like him in the future?? Idk but atleast it’s some progress rather than not knowing at all.

So one of them (L) I don’t think I like and I like him more as like having a rlly good bsf but idk and the second one (J) I’ve had a crush on for 4 years. See, L ig teases me a lot? Idk like sometimes he’ll come up to me randomly and light push my shoulder or come up and say ‘sah dude’ (jokingly) and dap me up so idk. And with J lately he’s been talking to me and being near me a lot more but idk if he js thinks of me as a good friend. For example our middle school was able to eat outside today for lunch and we have 2 picnic tables and usually some of the girls including me sat one on bench of the table while most of the 6th grade boys sat in the other bench of the table (I’m in 7th J is in 6th). Today since the other table was free is girls decided to sit there and the boys could have their own table but as soon as we sat down the boys were js standing and playing around most of the time and when I sat down J js came up to where I was sitting at the table and js started teasing me abt my hat. Also whenever he does smt funny he usually looks at me first but not always sooo do either of them like me or nah (ps. L has said good girl to me but he has to another girl which he doesn’t like so idk)

Edit: I feel like I should’ve said this but recently my friend said to me that she has a crush on J and I want to get rid of my feelings for him so only she likes him but if I couldn’t have gotten rid of them in 4 yrs idk how I’ll be able to now

Edit 2: srry I keep remembering stuff. When I mentioned a guy a nicknamed ‘game store boy’ (someone I saw in a game store that I thought looked cute) the rest of the boys stayed silent but J asked who he was the was quiet for a bit (I might be delusional but that’s how I remember it) OKAY NOW IM DONE SORRYYY

So basically idk why but I feel like I shouldn’t be lonely love wise since I’m so young but I can’t help it. I have this male friend who’s very flirty (puts his arms around us, joking abt liking us, etc.) and me, two other girl friends, and him were having a hangout yesterday and occasionally while we were sitting on the couch (sorta like a bed couch) me and him got close while sitting and I thought abt how it would feel to just have someone to rest your head on (keep in mind I don’t like him I was js thinking in general) and that when it sorta started by now the more I think abt it it gets worse. He always says he didn’t have a chance (the guy at the friend group) when he literally got a note from my friend saying she liked him and he liked her back. I’m just confused why ppl would do that when they literally have an opportunity right in front of them. Same goes for my girl bff, she literally has 6 boys who like her and who knows how many have liked her and she just plays around with them. Sure she only truly likes 1 of them but how does she get so many(sorry for talking abt them like an item)? Anyways sorry for my vent about me being a hopeless romantic, have a great day! 💗

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