Okay I have a question about the series

How old are rintaro and Waguri?

I still feel a lil odd that (at least in the anime) Rintaro sees Waguri, thinks she’s a middle schooler, and is okay with lowkey crushing on her (eventually yes he finds out she’s also the same age) but like?? I’m confused broskis

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u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 2 days ago

Hi! I’m part Yaqui, and really trying to learn more about/incorporate indigenous culture into my life

Any tips would be great tbh! I feel a bit estranged of my Mexican and Yaqui roots, but especially my Yaqui roots. I think it would be cool to learn the language sometime, I’ve heard they have books on how to learn Cahita. Idk where to start 😅

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u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 3 days ago
▲ 10 r/Archaeology+1 crossposts

Hi! I’m part Yaqui, and really trying to learn more about/incorporate indigenous culture into my life

Any tips would be great tbh!

I feel a bit estranged of my Mexican and Yaqui roots, but especially my Yaqui roots.

I think it would be cool to learn the language sometime, I’ve heard they have books on how to learn Cahita.

Idk where to start 😅

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u/Comfortable_Cut5796 — 2 days ago

Hi! I’m part Yaqui, and really trying to learn more about/incorporate indigenous culture into my life

Any tips would be great tbh!

I feel a bit estranged of my Mexican and Yaqui roots, but especially my Yaqui roots.

I think it would be cool to learn the language sometime, I’ve heard they have books on how to learn Cahita.

Idk where to start 😅

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u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 3 days ago

Do any of you get slap-happy ?

Slap-happy is when you’re like “sleep drunk?” Not actually drunk obviously but I’ve heard sometimes stress causes it too. I notice that I get slap-happy a lotttt when I socialize, it feels almost like I don’t have control of what I’m saying and just laugh a lot, it doesn’t feel like ME yk?

Wondering if mental health is playing a role.

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u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 5 days ago

Do any of y’all get slap-happy a lot?

Slap-happy is when you’re like “sleep drunk?” Not actually drunk obviously but I’ve heard sometimes stress causes it too. I notice that I get slap-happy a lotttt when I socialize, it feels almost like I don’t have control of what I’m saying and just laugh a lot, it doesn’t feel like ME yk?

u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 5 days ago
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Is it normal to go quiet while living in toxic household?

I’ve kind of been noticing I’ve been becoming less and less social. To be fair, my family is the type to get into my private life the more they find out I have friends. I remember once I was sending weekly emails when I was volunteering for my church at home and my dad emailed me back upset that my emails were so brief and questioning if my friends I mentioned even existed, what their names were, what they were like, demanding he should know.

Moments like that have confirmed that they can be pretty controlling of my social life, and almost everyone at church knows my parents, so this has made me even quieter.

Tbh. Weirdly enough, I don’t feel lonely right now though? If anything I feel more at ease since I do have my sisters to talk to and stuff but simply don’t have interest in talking to people outside of home.

Is this normal? I’m looking forward to moving out soon for university and suspect that I’ll be social again when I don’t think it risks an invasion of privacy (since I won’t be around my family anymore and it won’t risk conflict to me)

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u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 7 days ago

21F want to vent a bit (short term)

There’s something that’s been on my mind lately and kind of affecting me. I would love to talk to someone and just kind of let those ideas out and maybe get some advice? I don’t want anything long term though so I hope you don’t mind that. Thanks

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u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 30 days ago

21f would love to know your lore

This is an anonymous account btw and I don’t plan on revealing my name or face, but I think it would be neat to have a friend or two friends to share an online diary with. I’m trying not to use my phone as much, so I feel like going on my computer and sharing a lil log for the day and having a log to read from another friend or two would be neat :)

I love love love learning about people and I think this would be a neat experience, I did something similar in the past with another friend. I really enjoyed it.

Preferably folks who are like 21-25 years old. And keep it clean. I am Christian, so I don’t like reading cuss words or suggestive content, so that’s something I don’t want on the shared journal.

Would be a fun lil project :) and kind of similar to pen pals I guess haha

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u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 1 month ago

Log #12

I sometimes feel like it would be nice to ramble for hours. It makes me happy to share things and then get a whole ramble back. It’s like the most fun for of “research”, talking a lot to see what a person’s thoughts are like and hear them yap too.

Honestly, I really like this sub. It sounds bad but seeing some of the vents makes me feel more understood, and I hope other people feel the same when I share things. I hope that when they read what I have to say they feel more normal yk.

I tend to have very strong emotions, and imma be honest, being calm is nice and truly my goal, but for some reason the idea of seeming kind of “docile” irritates me. Like my goal isn’t to be loud and defensive, but that’s what feels right tbh. It’s such a weird thing to describe, because I know I should want to be super peaceful, but I honestly don’t. Not peaceful pushover, but peaceful as in calm and loving, understanding even when people are rude.

I think that’s why I have this kind of pull to tell people how much of a “hater” I am on the inside. I don’t actually consider myself that way, but the idea of people just seeing my usual calm side and assuming I am always calm kind of irks me. Especially as a Christian, since Christians tend to assume other people are usually super peaceful and chill, and as much as I hate to admit it, part of me just doesn’t want to give off that vibe of hiding my struggles. It’s not that I care about what others think, more so something I think about a lot is how I can express myself in the way I want and need to. I still haven’t found a balance but I think just saying what comes to mind and accepting that some people will be curious enough to ask for clarification until they understand me is enough. Not everyone will ask, and that’s okay.

I’ve been in a very overthinky mood, it’s partly fun partly out of sorts for me, but still interesting nonetheless.

Just stuff

u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 2 months ago

Do any of you members struggle with CPTSD/family trauma?

I think it would be nice to have a few Christian friends who deal with CPTSD. I think it would be nice to have a lil support group and to keep each other accountable on our Christian journey as well :)

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u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 2 months ago

Log #12? I think

I think I realized my bed rotting and procrastination is a form of self punishment.

I tend to really enjoy being productive, and it helps me enjoy talking to people and reading and drawing. When I’m not productive I’d rather do nothing than do things that bring me joy, because then it feels more like laziness than punishment.

I realized I likely have been doing this because I’m pretty distant with my family.

I shouldn’t be hard on myself for that. Took me a while to realize that. And even if it is wrong I shouldn’t be punishing myself for it.

I’m not the most bubbly around my family. I sound grumpy, tired, annoyed, most of the time, and in better moments I just sound very quiet and robotic.

Recently my father lectured me about it. Something he seems to genuinely believe (and he repeated) was that he “knows” I hate him, and find him “stupid”. I don’t hate anyone. And being boxed in like that almost every time he does these lectures is not fair for me to deal with.

I just sat there for 40 minutes as he went on and on. There was good advice in the mix of course, but I hate how I’m not allowed to say I want space. I’ve tried that before, and it only angers him more. So I just sit there with so much rage and sadness because I want space and know I can’t get it, not without another unnecessary argument.

I wish they would just be okay with it yk. It’s not like I argue with them I just sound annoyed. My other siblings do too. But as the oldest I think that’s why it gets him so badly.

I just wish he would leave it be.

I find comfort in seeing and hearing about other people’s experiences. I don’t see them as bad people for being distant or grumpy around people who hurt them. So I shouldn’t be like that with myself either.

u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 2 months ago
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I’ve been bed rotting so much

I honestly feel like I’ve slightly given up lately. Even at work I barely work. And often I just lay in bed. Not even like playing a video game or anything since it feels worse to be letting time slip by and have fun, than simply do nothing.

I’m hoping that confessing this will make me get out of this rut. I know I am a productive person, I just need to start over.

Life is really really good too. I think I just feel a lil lonely so maybe that’s what’s got this snowball rolling.

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u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 2 months ago

I’ve been bed rotting so much

I honestly feel like I’ve slightly given up lately. Even at work I barely work. And often I just lay in bed. Not even like playing a video game or anything since it feels worse to be letting time slip by and have fun, than simply do nothing.

I’m hoping that confessing this will make me get out of this rut. I know I am a productive person, I just need to start over.

Life is really really good too. I think I just feel a lil lonely so maybe that’s what’s got this snowball rolling.

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u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 2 months ago

I’m trying to find one, idk if there’s an option where you can use a “plastic” box or something ? I’m not very handy, and don’t have the tools to make a wooden bed, so that’s why I ask 😅

I also am very much a visual learner with this kind of stuff.

From what I understood it works by having like an under bed with water and a pipe that you refill said water through. But haven’t been able to find a video with a similar design.

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u/Mysterious_Bag3784 — 2 months ago