I need some advice. My bf has made plans in the past with me but wasn’t able to follow thru due to him being busy. Keep in mind he just got a new job and we both do school and work. Anyways, recently our friend had an announce that they were having a celebration (sorry trying to keep this as vague as possible), and my bf said that he didn’t want to go a few days ago but then said that he’s gonna go today. Well anyways when I’m at work today bf asked if I wanted to hangout after work and after he got back from the celebration. It was getting late so I told bf let’s not hangout because we arent gonna have enough time because he has to go to bed early for work tomorrow. He asked are you sure? I said yeah and we would only have like 30 mins if that to hangout anyways. I guess I’m just hurt from sitting around and my bf already knows that I don’t feel like I matter.. I guess what I’m asking is how do I handle this? I really do care about him. I’m just so hurt and wish that I felt like I mattered more to him. Sorry if some parts of this don’t make sense. Pls lmk and I will try my best to correct it. Tbh I’m just sick to my stomach and so if anyone has any advice that would be awesome, thank you.
TL;DR: plans keep falling thru and need advice
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Side note: kinda nervous I’m gonna feel guilty about breaking the word of wisdom after help lol
EDIT: Wow, I wasn’t expecting this many replies! Thank you all!
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