I cant see it... pls confirm once.

ps- if anyone has an alternate link, pls share.

We were in a situarionship.. The only thought that encourages me to move forward is how they stopped talking to me and had multiple options while being with me .. also put me thru hell by sharing abt them while we were in long distance.

Career, getting "settled", house, sex (the only fun part)..

But is this all there is..?

Like how do adults feel fulfilled? Growing up, i felt there is going to be so much more, even at my first job I kept feeling there is something else out there.. lol. or maybe my worldview /scope is limited?

If this is all there is, why the adults are all crazy? and taking life so seriously .

Ps- I certainly don't mean or hint that life is to be taken for granted.

Hello folks, I need referrals for senior swe roles (also open to sde2 roles ).

Tech stack- Fullstack, Java, Node.js, Python

Experience with data science and AI technologies.

Yoe- 5
Education- Masters in CS

Have a past gap in work ex of 1 year.

Also , advise on interview process would be really helpful. Willing to pay if there is a paid mentor available to help.

Preferred companies- Microsoft, Amazon, Blinkit/Zomato, Phonepe, etc

Thank you .

I need help.. how do I know what steps are to be taken. I have ADHD and procrastination, so i need to develop discipline and routine, along with mix of social and fun activities to avoid being too monotonous or it feeling like a chore. How do I develop the emotional and mental discipline needed to take the steps , is my second question..

I want to learn- how to be happy, how to be emotionally grounded. I have never learnt this growing up , all elders in my life were though productive but emotionally and mentally not a very happy company.

How do I start in this journey, how do i do and not just think?

Should I document this journey to build accountability?

Also- how do I overcome shame around things, eg- around being single at 30 as a woman, etc.

Areas I want to grow in - career, health, finances, discipline, personal relationships, developing my personality as a woman and as a healthy functioning adult .

I am open to anything that works. Please share your personal experiences .

In short- How do I know what steps to take, How do i develop and maintain the discipline to do it , even when faced with thoughts like anxiety , fear and sadness.

Does this make me the asshole ??

I was soo disappointed of being discarded multiple times, ignored etc..that I vented out a lot, by a lot I mean A LOT. After all the breadcrumbs, excuses, trying to be gone twice , he asked me to end the communication. He was extremely cold and distant, after that as If he never knew me. I was hearing stories from him of another girl he was seeing, even tho he was not that interested in her.

After the discard- I was hurting a lot. For months. I woke up every day traumatized.

I keep getting this self doubt that he didn't deserve that much, but people around me keep telling me he did.

Has this happened with anyone of you? Am I a bad person ? Or maybe my brain is tricking me into staying attached. Maybe its both. But its done now. I never thought I had to be so rude to the person I loved.

He makes me want to kill myself, but then i wonder is it me bcz i only hoped too much and was desperate.. He passed on his trauma to me when I first met him.

Shd I tell him this?

Am I holding onto grief bcz thats all i have left of him?

Grief isnt linear.. when i think of visiting the same places without him, or even the flashbacks of how i was "hoping" for something, i feel extremely depressed, almost to the point of killing myself. Is this normal, its been months, how do i find the strength?

He moved on like it was nothing. and I loved him so much.

I have lost interest in other people.

Above all, I love the girl i was before i met him. I miss her. I am afraid i wld be always depressed now. and heartless like him.

I am afraid I have turned as emotionally cold as him.

How are these people able to find joy yet be so unemotional? I mean i get it, its not hard if one wants to be that way, but what about the damage left behind ?

Hi, anyone running this business or has info, pls share..

If anyone has done it, please reach out. I need to understand the process before I decide to train myself, hire people and set up my own .

​

I can pay for your ad industry knowledge n skills too.

​

Would love to connect n have a chat.

Thanks..

Padel*

Especially in tier 2 cities.. if anyone existing franchise or consultant can provide some insight, it wl be great.

​

​

How wld u compare it to other sports franchise say a pilates studio?

Even tho I know he's moved on... wht is wrong with me. Seriously I don't know. But this thought visits my head every 4-5 days and its been months since the communication ended between us.

Somehow, he always like it when I used to try but without being toxic.. maybe its that part in me having this urge, and somehow hoping he might be ok with it ;?... does it make sense

My father was scammed of his life savings due to an apk file in the name of RTO echallan. The scam link was sent by whatsapp number 70206-75094.

Other numbers also are involved. This is a huge syndicate.

He did multiple OTP Adhar verification, added beneficiaries to his account -named Rahul and Rohit and withdrew money from Maharashtra .

​

Not only that, he registered his number and tried to enable Bhim UPI, flipkart, and what not. We have put the phone in airplane mode, freezed the accounts and registered complaint.

Please help us.

This might save elder ones in your family. 🙏

You can even see his whatsapp dp currently.

​

​

Please help us !!!!!! 🙏

​

If anyone of you can come forward, pls help us.

He always triangulation me with someone else which made me feel worse abt myself, and other emotionally abusive stuff.

While I see all that clearly now, and we don't talk anymore, is it desperate to want to send him a positive note abt his traits that I do still admire?? How do avoidants view it ?? After discard.

Hi, I would love to hear your inputs on this !! I Dont want to get them too tired , but also have considerable activity . They are pretty laid and chill back in terms of expectations. Both of them can walk comfortably but need access to restrooms and good food of course .

Please share suggestions- even resorts would do. Places, activities, etc- Bring it on!

Hi, I would love to hear your inputs on this !! I Dont want to get them too tired , but also have considerable activity . They are pretty laid and chill back in terms of expectations. Both of them can walk comfortably but need access to restrooms and good food of course .

Cities we are visiting- Washington DC, New York, Columbus (Ohio) and Toronto.

Duration of trip- 1.5 month roughly.

Please share suggestions- even resorts would do. Places, activities, etc- Bring it on!

Basically I want to establish a brand that has VS -like lingerie offerings; rich fabric, design and quality (trust me, as far as current indian brands are concerned, even VS lingerie is high quality).

I need some third person perspective to get started. I need help with- financial data, supply chain and scaling.

Please reach out if you have anything productive to offer.

Hi folks, I need some inputs and data on selecting between these businesses/brands:

1. QSR chain - eg- CCD, Rameswaram cafe, etc

2. Ethnic wear brand

3. Fashion retail- generic western wear for men and women

4. Cafe

5. Farmhouse/ guest house -stay place

Investment- <50 lakh.

I have some space available in form of land.

This is for a tier 2 city in India. I am also open to purely online business ideas. Please share your perspectives.

Basically , all the time when we were together, he ruined my peace by comparing me to another girl once , always sharing stories about other girls (at least 2 who were constance presence, in and out, on and off) and one of whom was at his workplace, and how their things are going, which I absolutely HATED. He ruined my peace so much.

He didnt care about my feelings.

He basically does 10 wrong things, with other girls, maybe even with his friends, but when things go to shit, he either goes in hiding, or goes to his similar guy friends and goes on trips, etc. He SEEMS TO GET AWAY WITH EVERYTHING.

i know his biggest insecurity is others enjoying life more than he is.

He played with my emotions and took me for granted, and I was not the first girl he took for granted. I had to lose my apartment because of him. He was really devastating presence, but I always forgave him.

He is THRIVING in his career and life, even after hurting so many people.

How do i get over this, and basically be happy in my life?

Heartbreak, weight gain, lost career motivation due to burnout, toxic relatives. I feel like a loser.

This last guy really fucked up my mental peace and is himself thriving in his career, while he was dating girls left, right and centre. I was very insecure and low on confidence, even though I looked fairly well and decent. My father, since my childhod, has been very controlling and dominating, even though he wished well. I left my job on my father's insistence .

I am really lost. How do I get my life back on track ?My dream revenge is to get a job in this guy's company, without any favours. But overall, any good company works.

On top of all this, my toxic family wants me to get married. Which I absolutely hate as of now. Tbh I am only with my father, to get my part of inheritance. I know thats really toxic.

my current problems:

1. Burnout being a SWE but cant get out of it, even if I want to transition to Product mgmt. Its become a curse basically. Should I do MBA to get out of this field? SWE work is entirely against my personality and I only liked the pay part of it , before the burnout, as it helped me be financially independent. I have even worked at companies like Microsoft, but trust me I cant digest SWE work.
2. How do I develop more personality and be less insecure, and hve the confidence to take up space, despite all the toxicity around?
3. Decision on whether to move to Canada from my home country (I recently got a PR, but no job so far).

My overall aim is success and peace.

Looking for diff perspectives. Thanks!

Edit1- Added some extra info.