u/Novel_Concentrate444

If anyone has any advice that’d be awesome but I’m mostly looking for support. I’m feeling FOMO as it’s 4th of July and I’m miserable in my room. I’m drinking enough water but everytime I eat I end up throwing up :( F migraines

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It’s hard seeing the villages and the support that other people have whether it’s close friends, family, other moms etc. Can anyone else relate to only having your partner and your child/children? I’m so grateful and I try to remind myself that I have everything I want and need but it gets really lonely.

I’m not too worried about it but I just wanted to check in!

Does this seem less serious or should I expect something more serious? Photo in the comments

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My husband and I have been together for 10 years and married for almost 1. We’re in our late 20’s. I don’t work but I take care of our home. He works 50 hour work weeks doing pretty strenuous labor. We haven’t had sex since February. It’s not that he doesn’t have a sex drive because he wants oral/I give him oral pretty regularly. I like doing it because he works hard and is a good man. However, sometimes I need that same energy too 😅 I think I’m an averagely attractive woman, he says he’s attracted to me, he definitely loves me as he always does everything and anything to make me happy and he’s very affectionate with me. Excepttttttt for sexually. Sex feels like a chore to him after his long work days… Plus we do use condoms (not ready for children and not on birth control) so that gets in the way of it feeling as good as oral of course, but I just don’t know why he can’t take a few minutes out of about 3 months to have sex with me. Can anyone relate or does anyone have any advice on what to do about this? We connect and get along so well in every other aspect.

TL;DR my husband doesn’t have interest in having sex with me lol

I don’t have children yet but I’ve always always wanted to be a mom and my husband and I do plan on having children in the future. However, having BPD makes me so worried that I’ll be a bad mom. What has your experience been?