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Mods please don’t remove this.
This is the only sub that seems to have actually normal trans people, not the hugboxing, not the self hating, not the transmeds. If there is a better sub to ask this let me know, but most of them aren’t good.

I started lurking around 4tran and tttt on reddit for the first time, the main ones are too doomerist and brainwormy for me, but there are ones that are more normal, that post art, memes, fits, they are good and funny, including this sub; they’re the only ones who actually seem to be more radical and realistic with the trans experience, they are the people that actually defend trans men and women against bio essentialist talking points, without these subs I would be constantly looking for cis validation, but especially with this sub and some tttt subs they actually seem to have a backbone.

But unfortunately I sometimes see posts and/or discussions that tend to be so so negative, I realize the approach they come from, it isn’t just blatant loathing, it is a form of insecurity and venting, but it gets to a point that is genuinely unreasonably hateful, and only creates a vicious cycle (genuinely digital self harm), that doesn’t help the people viewing the posts either.

I have my own real life communities that I enjoy being a part of, but I just want to find online places too where trans people are not toxically positive, or not venting so much to the point of unbridled doomerism.

What do you guys think? About the “normal” subs and the tttt ones?

Sorry about the rant, but I feel like asking something like this, in ANY OTHER trans sub would make one part of another attack each other endlessly, with 0 nuance (like the normies calling 4tranners evil, or the 4tranners calling normies sneeds)

TLDR
Apart from here is there any sub/community where trans people have a middle ground between toxic positivity and insane brainworms, I need realistic discussions but not doomerism.

I know almost nothing about it, except that it’s edgy, funny and the creator hates the fanbase. I saw it was popular on tiktok with queer people too, is it good?

Like a build for shelter, a build for atlas, for rtd and rtl…

I know obviously each mission is different and has different terrain but in general could anyone point me to general builds that you use if you do?

Genuinely I know it’s dumb but this is the only horror game that I had to stop playing because it’s too scary.

I know that it’s an amazing game because I think the level of dread that it gives me is very unique and I can recognize the masterful ambience.

I REALLY wanna finish it. Anyone can tell me any tips on overcoming this 😭