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i used to be on free trial on one acc and went to a particular studio. if i use another acc (same name registered but diff email etc) that isnt on free trial, can the studio tell that it is a different acc or will they just see my first name?

sorry if this is confusing but I dont want the studio to think that i am creating multiple accs to make use of the free trials if they can tell that i am using a brand new acc when I come again

Signed contract many months ago and the agreed start date is in 1 week's time but still no email from HR telling me where to report or what time. Should I reach out to them to ask?

F here, pretty new to relationships, been tgt with my bf for a few months.

I’m someone who likes to plan ahead and recently I’ve been wondering if it’s unreasonable for me to want to have a rough idea of when we’re going to meet each week. Like ideally, I’d want to sit down at the start of the week and make some concrete plans like “let’s meet on ___” rather than just leaving it open and figuring it out as the week goes.

I don’t necessarily need every single detail planned out and I’m not expecting him to always be available on the days I want. I think I just like having some certainty and knowing when I’ll get to see him. It also makes it easier for me to plan the rest of my week around it.

But I’m not sure if this is too much to expect from a relationship. I’m worried that wanting to confirm plans in advance might come across as being too rigid, demanding or like I need too much reassurance/attention.

For those who are in relationships, do you usually plan your meetups for the week in advance? Or is it more normal to just go with the flow and decide as the week goes? Is it reasonable for me to want more concrete plans or should I be more flexible about it?

Hi it will be my family and my first time in Japan and we want to see cherry blossoms. This is our current plan:

Tokyo: 26-29 March

Lake Kawaguchiko/Mt Fuji: 30-31 March

Osaka: 1-4 April

We are also planning to visit Disneyland in Tokyo and USJ in Osaka. I've read a lot about the insane crowds during this period as it is also spring break for the students in Japan. Could anyone share their experiences on whether it is still worth to go during this period, or should we alter our dates for a more pleasant experience? TIA!

I've been dating this guy for a couple of months but there's one thing that's been bothering me repeatedly, and I can't tell if I'm just being overly sensitive.

It feels like he often forgets things I've already told him or conversations we've already had.

For example, one morning I told him my plans for the day. A few hours later, he asked what I was doing for the rest of the day, even though I'd already told him earlier that morning. It made me wonder if he'd actually taken in what I'd said.

Another example: we once went to a drink shop together, and he told me that drink A was his favourite. We even ordered it because he recommended it. Recently I mentioned I was going back to the same drink shop, and he texted, "Ooo drink A is really good."

I know it's such a small thing, but my first thought was... I know. You're the one who told me that, and we literally had it together. It felt like he'd forgotten he'd already shared that with me.

I have a pretty good memory when it comes to conversations with people I care about, so when he forgets things I've said or repeats things he's already told me, I start wondering if I'm paying much more attention to him than he is to me.

I'm trying really hard not to assume it means he doesn't care. I know some people are just genuinely forgetful or don't remember conversations as well as others. But I also can't deny that it makes me feel unseen sometimes.

Is this a gender thing with guys being inattentive?

TL;DR: My boyfriend often forgets previous conversations, and it's making me feel unseen. Is this just how some guys are, or is it a sign he isn't paying much attention?

Basically met on dating app, went on one amazing first date, but then he had to travel for 3 weeks. We have been constantly texting every day, mostly him sharing his travel experiences and photos, and also asking abt my day. But lately these few days, the texts are getting shorter and it feels less intimate. I am scared of losing the connection.

Matched with this guy on bumble and within a week we went out on a first date. He was a really nice guy, a bit awkward sometimes but still sweet, and i felt comfortable and could be myself around him. Towards the end of the date, he said that he felt a connection between us which he didn't feel for his past few dates. I also reciprocated by saying that I liked being with him.

Just 2 days after the first date, I flew off for holidays and then the next week, he also went off for his. During this period, we have been texting every single day with multiple exchanges a day.

He'll only be back from his holiday after 1 more week, which means the next potential date will be more than a month since the first.

The thing I'm worried about is that we're stuck in a weird limbo. We've been texting every day, but there hasn't been any mention of a second date yet. I'm also getting a bit tired of texting daily because I feel like we're building a connection through our phones rather than in real life. By the time he's back, it'll have been more than a month since our first date, and I'm worried that the chemistry and spark we felt then might not be the same anymore

is it normal to feel a bit tired from texting someone every day when you've only met once?

the first date was great, but because of travels we can't meet again for a while (almost a month). now i'm starting to wonder if we're using up all our conversation topics over text before we even get to know each other properly in person.

i feel like i want to take a step back from texting that regularly but i'm afraid that he will take it that i am no longer interested.

wanna hear from both genders on how their experience is

Just a casual runner here who runs on alternate days in the mornings. On the days I run, I feel in a good mood throughout the rest of the day. But on the next day when I don't run, I wake up feeling kind of depressed and moody. How do I prevent this from happening?

been on the apps for a few months now and whenever i match w a guy and start talking to them, if they reciprocate well and we have engaging convos, i tend to become too emotionally invested. like i will overthink if they have texted me back yet or why haven't they asked me out on a date etc. idk how to break out of this unhealthy attachment...

been talking to this guy from an app for over a week alr and he still hasn't initiated a date/meetup yet. our convos are pretty engaging and we text a lot (like ard 200+ msgs a day). there were openings for him to initiate a date when we discussed certain food places and cafes etc but he didn't say anything. we have texted about our dating preferences at the start and he also mentioned that he was looking for a life partner so i assume he is taking this seriously, but then why he hasn't asked me out?