u/Ok_Relation1276

i’ve been wanting to try seafood boil for so long. Is there anywhere in Adelaide I can get it?

Has anyone had a near death experience? What was it like and did it change who are

Is this just me?

I wanted a breast reduction for as long as I can remember .. They SUCK. Im 18 and i have the tits of a 60 year old women. For reference Im either a 10H or 14F or whatever because every time i get measured it’s a different size. I hate it and I hate that men try to talk me out of it. every clothing manufacturer makes the bra cups on the tops the size of my nipple. I have about one bra that fits me properly that doesnt dig into my back and shoulders. but what if I’m making a big mistake? I know big tits are seen as desirable for men at least. and I feel like I’m getting rid of my best characteristic. They make me look so much fatter than I actually am. I weighed them a while back and theyre about 2kg together?? Which is INSANE!! I just want cute chic boobs like all the other girls have and to not feel like a massive monster all the time but I don’t know. Its making me not want to have kids because I wouldnt want my daughter to go through this like i have. And now i have to fork out 12 grand to get rid of them. Ugh!

For context im in south australia i’ve already done a cert III in patisserie but i want a career change. im 18 and i feel like i should have it all figured out by now. I’ve been looking at online courses just to dip my toes in the water, there is an online course in marine studies through the australian animal and wildlife academy, is that a good place to start? I know i need hands on experience and probably a full university degree but is this okay for now?

edit: to be more specific i wanna go into marine eco-tourism or a marine conservation assistant

For context me and exbf dated for 10ish months before I broke up with him because he didn’t really care about me emotionally. Other than that he was a good boyfriend. Me and my exfriend were friends throughout highschool, we fell apart when I became friends with this girl she hated. I tried so hard to apologise I showed up to her house I would message all our mutual friends to tell her I missed her, to say hi and happy birthday etc.

Fast forward to yesterday I add my ex back on snapchat for whatever reason, and she sends me a snap of herself from his account, thats how I found out. I was with my other friend at the time who I asked “are they dating or something?” Not wanting to believe its true. He reluctantly told me yes and I just sat there in disbelief. My friend M19 and my ex friend were still in contact and she said to him its “payback” and she doesnt care shes dating my ex because we aren’t friends. He went on to defend me saying she was evil for what she did etc.

Some more context: the friend who she hates i’ll call her ashley. Ashley F19 and her boyfriend M19 were dating for 2 years in Highschool and when they broke up him and my ex friend went to melbourne together and shared a hotel room while simultaneously sending pictures to ashley. Shes done this to another one of my highschool friends in which shes been talking to someone that used to be in a relationship with her. I get that she can do what she wants but she had this whole phase where she would add all the guys on her quick add and send them nudes and weird messages and stuff. She hooked up with this random guy and he ended up ghosting her.

I feel like such an idiot for missing them both so bad but this makes it easier to move on. Im more surprised and hurt than anything because my ex would say how he HATES her last year when we were dating. And she would call him weird and that he has an attitude problem so it’s so weird seeing them together.

Its like my whole world has flipped upside down and I don’t even care about my ex its her doing this that makes me so upset. shes the type to hold grudges but i’m not really jealous of her situation, she doesnt have many friends and she recently quit her job and shes dating MY EX who has herpes.

But shes also prettier and more confident than me so i am feeling a bit jealous

But nontheless im still really upset about this and the worst part is they know theyve got to me by doing this because i blocked him after they sent the photo of her.

Sorry if any of this is confusing i tried my best, its still really fresh.

I wanna get some calligraphy and colourful cartoonish pieces if there are any good tattoo shops or independent artists that specialise in that?