Unpopular opinion
If your womans does not even a tiny bit love the things you love. Music, movies, hobbies. Trust me she aint yours. When a woman loves you. She tries as much as she can to fit in your world.
Then another thing. If you're ever confused if she loves you, then she does not. One thing I tell my bros. Your woman should be able to pull up in a mini with no pant and bra just coz you told her to.
Stay guided. Kama unapingana argue with your nyanye.