Men and women of Reddit, have you ever had a crush on someone you found incredibly attractive, even though most other people didn't? What was it about them that made them so attractive to you?

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 1 day ago
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Does this behavior fall under child grooming?

One day, my senior at work and I were having a casual conversation about when I planned to get married. Somehow, the conversation took an unexpected turn.

He told me that when he was around 24 years old (he is now 33), he used to invite all the children from his apartment building to his flat every evening. He said that after a few months, the parents complained about it, and he was asked to leave the apartment.

He then went on to say that he especially liked talking to little girls. He mentioned that there was a girl who was around 12 or 13 years old and lived directly opposite his apartment, with their balconies facing each other. According to him, they would talk every day from their balconies. He said he continued talking to her every day until she eventually said, "I love you," and then he stopped.

I found this conversation disturbing and inappropriate. The way he described intentionally continuing daily conversations with a young girl until she expressed romantic feelings made me uncomfortable and raised serious concerns for me. Because of this, I reported what he had told me to my senior.

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 1 day ago

Being a positive person takes effort. But every once in a while, the devil knocks at the door. What should we say to him so he doesn't enter and disrupt our lives?

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 2 days ago
▲ 10 r/ProductivityGuide+1 crossposts

Which subreddits do you use for learning, positivity, knowledge, or overall self-improvement? I'm looking for communities that are genuinely helpful and productivity-focused ?

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 4 days ago

Why do some Indian dads seem so protective of Modi? It often feels like any criticism is dismissed, and even when you share factual information, they're not willing to consider it. The response is usually, "Tumhe kya malum? Modi nahi hota to kya hota?" Why do you think this happens?

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 4 days ago

After reading many posts here, I've noticed that most ghost stories follow a similar pattern clicking sounds, footsteps, shadow figures, whispers, scratches, objects moving, etc. So here's my question: if we already know these are the common things people report, doesn't that reduce fear of unknown.

What the question says .

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 4 days ago

Can someone help me understand the moderation standards in bollyblindsgossip? It sometimes feels like criticism of SRK is moderated more strictly, and I'm curious if there's a reason for that.

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 4 days ago

If plants and animals could speak, express emotions, and beg for their lives before being killed, do you think humans would stop eating them and look for alternative food sources? Why or why not?

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 4 days ago

If you overcame insecurities about your looks (height, weight, hair, voice, etc.), why did you develop those beliefs in the first place, what changed, and how did you overcome them? Looking for personal experiences.

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 4 days ago

People often say reading expands your vocabulary, but what's the biggest benefit you've personally gained from reading that has nothing to do with words?

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 5 days ago

Parents whose children have committed serious crimes, looking back, were there any warning signs you now realize you overlooked or misunderstood? If you're comfortable sharing, what did you learn from the experience?

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 5 days ago

We often talk about the positive lessons we've learned, but we also pick up negative ones. What's one negative belief, habit, or lesson you've absorbed over the years and trying to unlearn it ?

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 5 days ago

What's one piece of advice that truly worked for you and changed the way you think or live? It can be something someone said directly to you, advice you overheard being given to someone else, an action that taught you a lesson, or even a real-life experience that completely changed your perspective.

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 7 days ago

What does Donald Trump's public behavior and statements, what personality traits or behavioral patterns have psychologists, psychiatrists, or other experts discussed? Which observations are supported by evidence, and which are speculative?

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u/Optimal-South-58 — 8 days ago