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Sending prayers for those who are still waiting to be saved...

Today he didn’t show up. Should I be worried?

(This is clearly satire, don’t take it literally :)) )

Or the same dream idea..over many many years?

I have these 2 dreams a few times a year:

1. I dream of losing trains, mostly because i am not able to get ready in time. It is always a stressful one because basicaly I don't do much, and somehow I'm still in the train in the end, but the feeling of not beeing in time is draining.

2. I am somewhere near a seaside and a Tsunami is coming. Feels real and a lot of water I won’t be able to escape anyway.

For the first dream: I lost a train when I was a kid, but it was not important, just took the next train.

For the second dream: I am not usually afraid of water, I know to swim, just not very well.

Like you thought you didn’t like that person, or it was kinda neutral to you, but you had a very intense dream with that person and then you start to feel different about him/her?

Like you thought you didn’t like that person, or it was kinda neutral to you, but you had a very intense dream with that person and then you start to feel different about him/her?

I hardly hoped until the end..that you actually loved me at least a little bit...

While waiting for the bus, alone...seeing you coming after so many months of no contact... i hardly hoped that you will come towards me and give me the biggest kiss and tell me how much you missed me...

Instead, you changed your way and walked another path.. there was no one else in the bus stop, just me..

Was it that hard just to come to say at least: "Hello.." ?

We're strangers now, again... but not by my fault. You want the connection just in your terms... what about the months when I don't get to see you, to hear you, to know anything about you???

Clear rejection, right?

After reading so many stories in which everyone asks for advices on how to talk to their gym crush...well a few days ago it happened to me.

There was one guy who came outside after me after I finished my training.

He said he saw me arround a lot and that he wanted to say Hi. He presented himself and asked (directly) if he could have my number.

I told him that he is very cute, but that unfortunately I am not available. He was very cool about it and we said we're gonna say Hi from now on and he said he's not gonna be creepy :)

We exchanged a few more words, and I gave him my Instagram, so it was a good interaction.

Even though he didnt get my number, what I wanted YOU all to know is that I actually appreciated very much his courage of talking to me, and even now after a few days I think about this! It felt nice and flattering! And we were both cool about the outcome.

I don't think I was actually really his crush, because I go a lot to the gym and I never saw him before. But he had nothing to lose to ask for my number :)

Guys, you have nothing to lose. As long as you’re beeing respectful about a possible NO, try your luck :)